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As early as 2,500 years ago, Confucius said an old saying: Do not do to others what you would not do to yourself. This sentence shows the true meaning of being a human being.
The so-called "do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you" is to push others with your own heart; How you want to live is how you want others to live. If you don't want others to treat you, don't treat others like that; I hope that if I can stand up and be accessible in society, I will also help others to stand up and be accessible. In short, start from your own heart, push others, understand others, and treat others. Do not do to others what you do not want to do to yourself Simply put, it is to push yourself and others, and it is the same meaning as the Chinese folk often say that comparing the heart with the heart, putting yourself in the shoes of others, etc., all refer to the same meaning.
Why would someone be so kind to other people?
The real reason is: what you sow, you reap.
Sow an action and you will receive a habit; Sow a habit and you will receive a personality; Sow a personality and you will receive a destiny; Sow a good deed, and you will reap a good fruit; Sow a bad deed, and you will reap a bad result.
You have the right to treat others unfairly, but your unfair attitude will make you suffer the consequences. And, further, the consequences of every thought you unleash will be rewarded to yourself. Because all your actions towards other people, and your thoughts about other people, are recorded in your subconscious mind through the principle of autosuggestion, and the nature of these actions and thoughts will modify your own personality, and your personality is the equivalent of a magnetic field that attracts people or situations with the same personality as yours to you.
To be precise, do unto others as you would have them do unto you: civilization. It is not an easy task for a person to truly become a civilized person. It is precisely because this is a very high requirement that it is difficult to fulfill, that our current society is always repeatedly advocating the building of spiritual civilization.
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What you don't like to do is not to impose on others, do not do to others what you do not want to do to yourself, and this is also the secret of the eternal vitality of Confucius's philosophy.
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What we don't like to do is not to impose on others to make others uncomfortable, what would happen if others also imposed on you what they don't like to do.
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Explain that you don't want others to treat you with your words and actions, and you don't want to treat others with that kind of words and actions.
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