Is there a contradiction between being at ease with what happens and doing it with a heart?

From the point of view of life, there is no contradiction. At the beginning of the Han Dynasty, there was a doctrine that became "Huang Lao's Learning", which focused on conforming to the favorable time and place, but also emphasized the transformation of people's subjective thoughts on the environment, which was a positive idea of "ruling by inaction". In the same way, the idea expressed by being at ease with the situation is that people should adapt to the environment in which they live, not force, not be brutal, and conform to nature with the attitude that best caters to the environment.

Doing it intentionally is a kind of subjective thought and behavior of a person, and it is an active way to complete a certain task. Both are subjective positive behaviors and do not contradict each other.

It is clearly [contradictory].

The concept of "contradiction" in materialist dialectical philosophy includes "opposite" (anti) and [unity] (phase).

Unintentionally planted willows. Where the willow tree is planted is not up to it, it can only be at peace with what happens;

Willow trees. The willow tree can take root, sprout, and thrive, and this is achieved through its own subjective efforts.

Of course, this is just a metaphor, here I learned the spirit of Taoist Zhuang Zhou's "humanizing things in literature and art, and turning people into characters in thought", which cannot be said to be undesirable. ）

Here's another example. When engaging in personnel work, he often thinks that no matter what kind of talent is assigned to what kind of job position, as long as he is conscientious and strives to cultivate interest, he can do a positive effect. Wherever I assign you, it is "at peace with the situation" for you; And your own hard work is a kind of "intentional doing".

"Be at peace with what happens" and "do it with your heart" are indeed a pair of contradictions.

But that's how they are unified.

The true meaning of being at peace with the situation refers to the fact that you can adapt to any environment, not happy because of the change of the environment, nor sad because of the change of the environment, no matter what environment you are in, you can be satisfied, it is an extraordinary and free concept of life, and it is also a kind of life pursuit of fame and fortune. Casual and safe is from Qing Liu Xianting's "Guangyang Miscellaneous".

Do not be poor and lowly and admire the outside, do not be rich and noble and move in the middle, be at peace with the encounter, have no foresight of yourself, and determine the reason.

Going with the flow does not mean that when you encounter something that is harmful or bad to you, you have to wronged yourself and endure it, but that some things can't be forced, but you have done your best, just let it go with the flow and follow the laws of things themselves. And being at peace with the situation generally means that no matter what happens, you can deal with it calmly and solve it well. It is more about showing that a person has a good mentality and can be calm no matter what happens.

The so-called peace with the situation is actually to tell people not to be happy with things, not to be sad about themselves, and not to be depressed because of changes in the environment. For example, the change of jobs, many people will be sluggish, this is wrong, since it has happened, rather than depressed, it is better to be at peace with the encounter, settle down to accept the challenges later, and then on the road of life can go all the way and get more opportunities.

On the contrary, it requires higher wisdom, greater determination and perseverance. Of course, not being at ease with what happens doesn't necessarily mean doing nothing, innovating ideas and creating a better environment also requires courage and not being at ease with what happens.

Being at peace with the situation is not to do nothing, to be passive and slacking off, to resist silently, but to conform to nature, accept the arrangement, adjust the mentality, and actively work and live. Being at peace with what happens is a positive philosophy of life.

Being at peace with the situation requires a high level of personal cultivation, a strong ability to survive, and a correct understanding of oneself and self-adjustment. A person who is impetuous and can't take care of himself in life is difficult to be at ease with what happens.

1. Being safe with the situation means being able to adapt to the environment and be satisfied in any situation. There is also the meaning of sticking to the old rules and not daring to change. A good mood is the happiest thing in our life, and it is also an inalienable treasure.

As long as your own mentality is good, you will be in a good mood. Do not regret yesterday's frustration, nor worry about today's loss, be content and happy, let it be natural, take off the mask, the truest self, and live according to your own wishes, this is the state of life that is at ease with what happens.

2. Encounters and 安 is a Chinese idiom, pronounced suí yù ér ān. It means being able to feel at ease in a variety of environments. From "Mencius: Devoted to the Heart" "If You Will Be Forever" Song Zhu Xi Collection Note:

The heart of the saint is not to be poor and lowly, not to be rich and noble, to be in the middle, to be at peace with the encounter, not to predict himself, and to divide the reason. ”

"Be at ease" means to be at ease in all kinds of environments. "Sui" means to conform. "Encounter" refers to circumstances.

"An" means to be safe, to be satisfied. "Be at peace with what you encounter" can be seen in "Mencius: Wholeheartedly Under the Heart" "If you will live for life" Song Zhu Xi collection note: "The heart of a sage is not to be poor and lowly and admire the outside, not to be rich and noble, and to be in the middle of the life.

Synonyms of "peace with encounters": safe and easy, safe and quiet, hidden and indisputable, with the world without dispute, with the world and peaceful, with the vulgar auspicious ups and downs, can bend and stretch the blind head.

Antonyms of "be at peace with what happens": cynical, pessimistic, sympathetic, indignant, cynical, escapist, cynical.

The sentence formation of "be at peace with what happens": 1. Too many people just go with the flow and don't want to plan their lives. 2. He doesn't like to be at peace with what happens, he always wants to change the world and be a strong man in life. 3. No matter how difficult the danger is, he can be at peace with the encounter.