Not used to asking for it, don t know how to ask for it?

You're thinking very selfless to others, but very selfish to yourself.

It is a matter of course for people to do it for themselves, have you ever heard a sentence that people do not destroy heaven and earth for themselves, and the word "people" is composed of a pinch and a pinch, and it is two people who stand up only when they support each other.

Life exists in society, we all need each other and use each other, don't be afraid to trouble others.

Asking for help from others sometimes brings you closer together, otherwise others will think that you are too strong and too egoistic.

Don't feel like you're a personality flaw, it's just a weak point in relationships, just open yourself up slowly.

In fact, I guess you must have a deep desire to be taken care of by others, to have a close good friend, not to give all the time, to be happy.

First of all, to make friends, you must first set your own position, to distinguish between those who are higher than you, those who you want to wait for, and those who are lower than you, who do you want to compliment? Who can you control? You should know in your heart that only in this way can you win all battles by knowing yourself and your opponent.

People help me, never forget, I help others, don't remember.

Listening to you say that, I feel like you have no friends. You can talk about anything with your friends, but friends don't have so many worries.

It's a friend, and when he hears about it, he'll try his best to help.

Try to learn to be tolerant Money is something outside the body and you can still make money if you don't have it But your mother-in-law sent her the most beloved treasure in her life to you Love him and try to tolerate her mother Her method is not very good But be considerate of a mother's heart.

Want to open a little... She gave you all her sons.

Daughter, aren't you also the daughter of your parents, think about it.

It is human nature to raise such a big man and marry out, so it is human nature to be willing to be kind to her.

Try to endure as much as you can, after all, the old man doesn't have a lot of time.

How many years did she live with her daughter? So everything is pleasing to the ear, everything is pleasing to the eye, just like another template for yourself - habit becomes nature! To give to your daughter is to yourself!

Learn to say no to make good friends, and no one wants to accept someone who doesn't even have a sense of autonomy, so learn to say no.

You can deal with this kind of person in the same way, so that he can feel that this is not right!

It's better to stay away from that kind of person! For example, I have encountered this, every time I help her, she will not be grateful, as if I am just a tool to be resigned, I am sure of the guarantee, from the winter vacation to now, I have only asked her to help once, very simple things, but she did not help me, until recently, I found that getting along with this kind of person is really tiring, a very simple thing she can think very complicated, and she is not confident, always thinking that others are targeting her, the key is that she really likes to have nothing, everything is someone else's problem, and she does not know self-reflection, I always said that I was not motivated and wanted to go to a good university, I told her so many learning methods, so many words of encouragement, she is still the same, now it seems that my behavior is tantamount to playing the piano to the cow, useless! So I decided, I don't want to be friends with her anymore, I'm not suitable for her, she needs a person with high EQ and high IQ to be her friend, after school starts, go their own way, I don't know her!

It can't be helped, sometimes the effort is not rewarded.

Human nature is so bad, you are too good to him, he subconsciously treats you as a tool, and he takes it for granted, this is what you should, knowing that you will accommodate him anyway, and simply ignore your feelings.

On the contrary, if you are a little bit nicer to him, and you have your own bottom line in doing things, you will not be too good to him, and he will feel that you are really good to him and very warm.

Just like if you give him delicious food every day when you eat, he will feel that you should give him food and you should not eat it. If you give it to him by chance, he won't get used to it, and he'll think you're so good.

You breathe air every day, do you think about planting a few trees in return, you have taken it from your parents since you were a child, and how much you have repaid, many times the party who pays may not have thought about how much to get in return, and I don't think it's sincere to pay in return. So if you like him, just like him, if you don't like you very much, then try to change him or leave, this thing has to be wishful thinking.

It's habitual thinking.

It's just that the further you rush, the more you can't brake the car.

It is advisable to stay away from them, to be indifferent to them, to take an unactive stance towards them; If they take the initiative to find you, you have to take an unfamiliar attitude. I think these two should be able to help you solve the problem of asking the omen.

What age are you now, and if you're both working and living together for a long time, then you should sit down and talk about it, and then make a decision, and if you don't have the financial income, and you're a student, then just divide it, it's not necessary.

I think you should have a good talk to her.

She doesn't love you at all Give it up and that's how I am.

1.Because you agreed easily, and it was not the first time that you had easily agreed to someone's request for help. 2.Looks good and bullies. 3.Don't know how to reject others.

To sum up, over time, these people will take it for granted that you can dictate at will. Wanting to change the status quo requires you to say: No!

Don't expect them to reflect on themselves, and don't expect them to be grateful to you! The kind of person you describe is stereotyped, and a person who likes to trouble others will not think that there is anything wrong with him!

It's very simple, such a person will never fall in love with someone else for the rest of his life, because what he really loves is himself, and no matter how good others are, they are not as good as himself.

So how are you good to him, in his eyesight, he will think that you should do this, why are you so wronged yourself, live a better life, don't care too much about other people's thoughts, don't care about everyone, you don't care about everyone, so in the end, it's you who suffers.

It may be that he can't like you, and there is some unspeakable distress

And then there's that he doesn't like you, and he doesn't want to hurt you

That's not knowing how to cherish it, and you don't know until you lose it.

There is no cure... Give up early!! What you want is a daughter-in-law who can run the family with you, not a person who only knows how to ask and is unwilling to give, if you have to pull out the name of a person who only knows how to ask and does not know to pay, I only think of one:

Young daughter! (I can't afford to give, I can only ask for it).

''My boyfriend never cares about my life, on the contrary, I want to be a nanny for him, he never hugs me in public, I feel like I am air when I am with his friend, there is nothing to talk about together, he and his friend have endless words, I am jealous, so I still have a person with him.

The same brothers, sometimes men also need to be taken care of, and even some men can't even take care of themselves, and they have to pretend to be able to take care of each other, which is really tiring. A girl who only knows how to ask and doesn't know how to respond is really not worth it.

Girls are very lazy in this way, one is that the living habits are not good, and the other is that they are likely to be weak, usually they are too lazy to quarrel and do not like to talk, in that case, you need to be considerate.

Love is the joint contribution of two people, you are not her nanny, not to mention that the nanny has to pay a salary...

Three chapters of the law with her, housework is done by two people together or in turn, if you don't accept it, then talk in depth, home is not your home alone....You don't have children yet, but what about when you have children? If you can't talk about it, give up early, and the wound will be healed sooner.

Ah! If she's dirty, you're dirtier than she! She uses the grass of the son and the shield of the attacker!

It's really as serious as you said, I suggest that it is better to separate first, so that it will only get more and more serious.

It's really tiring to go on like this, that's it.

In these years, whoever earns more listens to whom.

No.. Tell him about it, too.

It can only be said that she is suitable to be your sister.