How to control your mouth, you must control your mouth

First of all, congratulations to the landlord: you must be a good person.

Most good people are more zealous, so there is always a lot to talk about. The landlord is an advanced element among the good people who is awakening.

My mother's teaching to me was: Harmless hearts, you need to be guarded against others. When I grew up, I realized that this was an ancient precept.

How can you keep your mouth shut?

1) Don't be a woman. The proprietor Li family is short, and try to discuss as little as possible.

2) Be less human. Right and wrong are right and wrong. Don't talk about things that don't have much to do with you, and don't get involved. If it affects itself, of course, it must be resolutely defended.

3) Cultivate your own hobbies and let your cultivation go beyond the surroundings. I think that's fundamental. If you're not interested in what the people around you are discussing at all, you certainly won't be involved.

This is the policy of drawing wages from the bottom of the kettle, and it is the policy of the top. Of course, I haven't reached this level myself, and I'm trying.

4) Clever blending. If one day, the landlord really cultivates a big increase, or to maintain consistency and integration with the surroundings, so that others will not say that you are sunny and snowy, and you are high and low. You are also wise to walk the world, laughing at the world.

Isn't it good to have a straightforward personality? Don't be influenced by others, [others are not necessarily right, you are not necessarily wrong], - if you still insist on changing, try to try to change your surroundings as much as possible, (think about it, if you are in a world where there is no one, who else will you talk to) The environment is still easy to change, but the character, ideology, words and deeds are not easy to change, but it is not impossible to change, but it is very slow, to have sufficient self-confidence, correct thinking and cognition, but also to have the ability to surpass yourself,-- in fact, There's no need to change, just stick to yourself and believe in yourself, many people still envy you!.

Hold up your glass of water when you want to speak.

Gagged your own mouth.

That's nature, and it's hard to change.

The country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change!

Everybody has to speak, but how to speak, how to say it appropriately, just right, and comfortably, without offending anyone, is really a science.

<> "You must keep your mouth shut.

1. Do not disclose family information.

2. Don't speak ill of anyone behind your back.

3. Don't talk about your own affairs and plans.

4. Do not take the initiative to discuss matters related to interests.

5. Don't expose your shortcomings too much in human relationships. Cong Burn.

6. Zheng Jianli should be praised appropriately on weekdays, and moderate care can be done.

7. Try to be equal to anyone. Lachong.

8. Speak tactfully but with an attitude.

Everybody has to speak, but how to speak, how to say it appropriately, just right, and comfortably, without offending anyone, is really a science.

You can't get sick by not eating.

Leave half a sentence on your lips, give yourself time to think, and don't let others take advantage of the loopholes. Look at that.

An important function of the human mouth is to speak. There is a saying in China: If you say it, it is like water that has been spilled -- you can't get it back.

There is also a saying: silence is golden. Another sentence is: don't speak, no one treats you as dumb.

As long as you grasp these two basic principles, you will be less sloppy.

As the saying goes: the country is easy to change, but the temperament is difficult to change. Personality cultivation is a relatively slow process, and patience and perseverance are required. Keep reminding yourself. You can also write your favorite motto in a prominent place such as your office.

When you meet people, you can not say three points, but you can't throw away all your heart.

As you said, getting along with people is an art. Usually think more and summarize more, as long as you have the heart, I believe you will definitely make great progress.

Keep your mouth shut, and say these three words less for the rest of your life, so that life can go more and more smoothly, rural life, agriculture, farmers, and society.

This ......A big mouth is a fan, and if you fan yourself a few times, you will remember ......

This is due to your character, practice silence first, silence is golden.