I would like to ask a child psychologist or a parent with experience to help me

Everyone who comes from children knows that it is a very happy thing to have money in their hands and then spend it by themselves, because they feel that they have the same right as their parents to control money, which is a normal phenomenon in the process of children's socialization. Parents should give him less money, but they can't not give it, but guide him how to spend it after giving it, so that children can have a correct understanding of spending money. You are right to tell him not to eat street snacks and try to meet his basic needs, but you should buy fewer ostentatious items.

Or you can give him some simple financial training, such as giving him a certain amount of money, let him plan how long and how to spend it or how to accumulate, cultivate his awareness of spending money with a plan, when he has this awareness, you don't have to worry, this is how I was educated by my family.

Dispensable things are generally not bought, and what you want to buy the most is generally unimportant.

These two sentences can be shared with you, and everyone can encourage them. ^_

The fault of the 8-year-old child is due to the reasons of our parents, the child let him have money, satisfy his desires, and spend the money in his own pocket when he was a child, not all satisfied. When you don't agree to him, be reasonable, or give him a few reading materials or small sports equipment that are more suitable for him, so that he can feel that the consumption you provide is more reasonable and suitable for him, and let him make his own choice. Naturally, he will gradually form a communication with parents before consumption.

Good habits will be formed.

My son was about 5 years old when he took two dollars from the table and made it himself. Criticized and reasonable. I'm 16 years old now.

The money will be discussed, and the money will be returned to the newspaper. The formation of this habit is not forced, but is formed imperceptibly in ordinary times.

Playing is not a way, it will make the child have opposing emotions, or to teach patience, first of all, to educate the child that this is a bad behavior, if necessary, you can explain the situation to the parents, parents should usually meet the normal requirements of the child, can not let the child go to the extreme.

Even high school students will be a little scared when facing the dispute of their parents, not to mention that the child is only ten years old, from the age of the estimation that you should be 80 years old, relative to the situation you said, your family background is not bad, the child's psychology should be very good, the child's sensitivity may be your genetics, he keenly perceives the fierceness of his father, from what you said, it can be seen that the child is very dependent on you, (Mom, I stepped on your foot, I'm sorry) This is a kind of flattery, you can guess, the child is afraid of losing you, His perception tells him that there are unstable factors in the home and that you will leave at any time. (He always spoke to me in a very low voice in front of my father) was just his way of avoiding it, he was afraid of his father's beating and scolding, he was very smart. It can be said that my father did not fulfill his responsibilities, he failed to build a good image of himself, and you should talk to him well.

Your child is still a little timid, you should try to pay attention to it, it is best to ask his friends, he may have been bullied by his classmates, this is only speculation, but it is better to pay attention, this will gradually wear down his courage and may waste his wisdom.

Dependence comes from not being too autonomous, please be sure to fold the quilt after getting up, this is a lifelong habit, laundry, map reading, cleaning, etiquette, all have to exercise, this is necessary, it is also necessary. This will give him a greater sense of accomplishment and help him in his future life.

How the father sets an example, it is very simple, the more contact, the child will naturally not be timid, but it must be deep contact, the experience of making models together and playing together can change the child's heart, but remember that the father's words and deeds should also be somewhat changed.

The child's polite greetings must be responded, which will be of great help to him in his later life, and it is also an important thing to increase the child's communication circle. Judging from your statement, your child's psychological problems are not too big, if you can, it doesn't hurt to see a psychiatrist, after all, everyone has psychological problems, big or small, (the middle seam of the pants must be straight) I can't answer this item, sorry. As long as the family is harmonious, there will be no big problem.

If you still have questions, you can add me as a friend, but be sure to indicate that you are "mother", I am afraid that I will delete it directly. Oh, live in your child growing up healthy.

Although your child may not have much of a problem, it may be more depressed and a little less independent, but the child's psychology may be fragile, it is recommended that you find a psychologist to consult face-to-face and help him under the guidance of a psychologist. It is not easy to find a professional and regular psychologist on the Internet, and many specific situations are not clear, and it is difficult to make an accurate judgment without even seeing anyone.

Such a child has high emotional intelligence, cares a lot about what others think of him, is sensitive and eager for attention, must correctly interpret the child's true intentions, because the child is very vulnerable, try to let him do something difficult, encourage him to accompany him to complete, let him find confidence and know himself.

It's just that language comprehension and presentation skills are poor.

Teach him with your heart, right?

Hello, this kind of character of the child is formed from an early age, parents should not spoil the child too much, encourage praise when it is time to encourage praise, and criticize when it is time to criticize. Build up your child's self-confidence, and when you encounter the above situation, you can ignore it and tell him the truth when he calms down.