When you are old, will you choose a nursing home for the elderly, talk about it specifically?

Now we are very busy, and the children will be busier in the future, and the pressure is already very great, and we don't want to increase the burden on the children, so we will go to the nursing home for the elderly.

We usually have only one child now, and when they grow up and get married, they have to face the fierce competition in society, take care of four elderly people, and raise young children. In order to ease their burden, I will go to a nursing home.

No, I plan to go to the countryside to retire, the house on the street is for my children to live in, and I will raise a dog or cat in the countryside to live with my wife, and I will save enough money to support my children when I am young, and I will not burden my children, because we all only want to have one child, so we have enough ability not to cause trouble to our children, and we can live comfortably.

You are smart and love children, don't you want to be a burden to your children, and are willing to go to a nursing home? If I am old, I will go to a nursing home, for the sake of my children, and also give myself a relaxed and happy old age!

Living in a nursing home is the last last resort, if it is the one who goes first, there is a wife to serve, no need to go to the nursing home, can run and jump alone at home and do not go to the nursing home, what about the two daughters, how can they not be happy to raise me? My sister and I are next to each other in the community, and we can still support the elderly in a group. If the children are not happy to live with me in the future, we will rent out one house to get some rent, and live in one for myself, plus my salary, it should be enough to hire a nanny.

Therefore, living in a nursing home is the last option, and you have to choose a high-end nursing home, with a single room with medical care. So many roads are not impassable, so there is no worry about pension.

I would go to a nursing home. Find a nursing home with good facilities and conditions, and go through the last part of your life. For example, the scenery is beautiful, the birds are singing and the flowers are fragrant, the climate is pleasant, and the buildings of the nursing home are such as small bridges and flowing water, pavilions and pavilions are scattered, a "home" that returns to nature, life is enough!

I thought about it, so I want to make more money and go to a better nursing home when I get old, I don't want to drag down my children and think about it better, although I have prepared the children's future house and the house I live in, but I am still worried about affecting the children. Now I mainly want to deal with the relationship with the child better, and I don't want the child to hate me whether I go or not. I feel the physical and mental exhaustion of being bullied and tortured by the elderly, and I really feel tired to serve them.

For us now, the model of pension is still based on family pension, and now the big guy is so lively, when the time comes, it will really roll up the cover and let you go to the nursing home, it is estimated that not many people can really feel that this is a very normal thing.

If you don't like it, you can live with your wife by yourself, if your wife is gone, you should consider going to a nursing home, or continue to live alone, you really can't move, you hope to get an emergency, direct sudden death, no need to suffer from illness and fear of death before death.

There must be a generation gap between the two generations, many opinions are difficult to unify when they live together, and when they are old, they are afraid that there will be no one around to take care of them, and living in a nursing home is once and for all.

Yes, I am a very independent person, I don't want to trouble others including my son, after losing the ability to live independently, there are two choices, nursing home or west, depending on the situation.

I would also choose to go to a nursing home, where there are many old friends, and it is better to live alone than at home, and the children do not have to be too burdened

When you don't have the ability to take care of yourself, you will definitely go, don't be a drag on your children, life is not easy now!

Many of us still think about the way of family care, reluctant to go out of the house, rather die than go to a nursing home, so there is a tragedy of birth, old age, sickness and death that no one knows, which is embarrassing.

After living in, the life is usually to eat and play with good sisters and good partners and gossip, and the children take the children to enjoy two days of family fun on the weekend.

It is the right choice to leave time and space for children and go to a nursing home for the elderly when they are old.

The food is not to taste, the elderly are concentrated in the camp, the service is scared, the hygiene is not guaranteed, and the elderly go to the nursing home and soon lose their spirits.

I won't choose to go to a nursing home, but I can't help it.

I really don't want to go to a nursing home, and I have the money to hire a nanny.

I want to go! But the retirement salary is shy and I can't afford to live! Nursing homes in Shanghai are not places for ordinary people to go.

It is best to live with a few compatible people and hire two nannies together.

In fact, many public or private nursing homes in China, because of the lack of hardware conditions, most of them are a very poor environment. , so I don't want to go to a nursing home for the elderly.

If you don't choose a nursing home, you can't go anywhere else.

Decisive self-determination before losing the ability to take care of oneself.

In fact, don't give yourself a reason, there are no conditions, children who are not filial will enter the nursing home, even if they can get in, it is not free of charge, it is really helpless,

I really don't want to go to a nursing home! When you are old enough to move, it is not very convenient to move, ask a nanny to take care of it, and then you are too old to act, so you can break it yourself......

I think it would be good to wait for the country to come up with a policy that euthanasia would be able to euthanize myself at every turn, and donate the corpse to medicine.

Too expensive to afford to go to a nursing home.

It mainly depends on the situation, if the children can take care of themselves, of course, it is the best, if there is no way, it is better to go to a nursing home, after all, there are special people to take care of, and there are many people of the same age who chatter together.

If I'm old, I think I'll go to a better nursing home, because life in a nursing home will be very lively, and there are many companions and people to talk to, so it won't hold the children back.

Of course not. If I was old and able to take care of myself, I would definitely not go to a nursing home, after all, I am free at home. If you are too old to take care of yourself that day, then consider going to a nursing home, after all, no matter how high our retirement salary is, we have to consider the cost of the nursing home.

If I am lonely and old, I will still go when I am old, because one day there is an accident and no one knows, which is very difficult. But if I wasn't, I wouldn't go, I still prefer to do what I love in my own place.

To tell you the truth, I would like to go to a nursing home! Why?

One. Because in the nursing home, they are all companions, have a common language, and have common feelings, so that they can communicate and communicate, and their spirits and thoughts will be happy, which is beneficial to health; Second. In the nursing home, you don't have to worry about three meals a day, which eliminates a lot of trouble, and there are many varieties of meals, reasonable nutrition, and health protection; Third.

There is a specialized doctor. Nursing and management personnel, health care and disease**, should be more convenient, more secure, rabbit in addition to excess excessive worries; Fourth. Lightened.

The pressure and burden of women allow them to concentrate on their studies and work, and they also have time to educate their next generation!

We also have doubts now: (1).The cost of going to a nursing home is too high to afford; (2).Fear that the conditions of the hospital are not perfect, and the management is not standardized, which will cause trouble and accidents; (3).I am afraid that the supervision of the supervision department will be ineffective or will not give up.

I hope to care more about the survival and life of the elderly, let us go to nursing homes for the elderly, and enjoy a stable and happy old age!

First, entering a nursing home can reduce the burden on children; Second, there are many elderly people in the nursing home, and I can be with them without being lonely; Thirdly, the nursing home has a good service, and many jobs may not be able to be done even for children.

Because it is difficult to achieve elderly care at home, it is a helpless move. Nowadays, many people are one-child families, that is to say, 2 people need to bear the pension of 4 elderly people, and they also need to feed the next generation, each family needs to face different pension problems, economic pressure, and parents in different places, working hours and caring for the elderly, conflicts to face, really have to face a lot of difficulties.

changes in ideology; The children at home are too busy to take care of themselves.

I will choose institutional care for the elderly, a brief analysis: first, the nursing home provides comprehensive services, basically 24-hour all-weather care, so as to ensure that the elderly, especially those with limited mobility and disease, can be better cared for, to ensure that they have three meals a day and daily basic life.

Second, the infrastructure is complete and the medical facilities are relatively complete. Have professional medical care personnel or necessary medical equipment. The physical condition of the elderly can be supervised at any time, and the elderly who are sick and have difficulty moving can be trained.

Third, in addition to ensuring that the elderly eat well and live well, the society can also provide better entertainment and social activities, such as holding fitness, calligraphy and painting, piano and chess and other tutoring, so as to facilitate the activities and exchanges of the elderly and make their lives more pleasant.

Fourth, nursing homes greatly reduce the pressure on families and children. Nursing homes have professionals to take care of the elderly, provide high-quality services from the aspects of clothing, food, housing, transportation, health care, and ensure the quality of life of the elderly.

Of course, there are also shortcomings of social pension institutions:

First, nursing homes are uneven. Especially in recent years, there have been reports of elder abuse in individual nursing homes, which has attracted people's concern. This shows that the development of nursing homes is still unbalanced, and social supervision is not in place.

Second, some elderly people are not yet adaptable. Living in a nursing home for a long time inevitably causes the elderly to have less and less emotional communication with their children. In particular, the elderly feel that they have been abandoned by their families and children, and they feel more and more uncomfortable and lonely, which causes some mental illnesses.

Third, the hardware construction of individual nursing homes is not perfect, and in terms of software, the most important thing is that the quality of management personnel is not high, and the service level needs to be further improved.

4. The issue of pension in China is a big problem, and it concerns every family. Let's face it, more and more elderly people are choosing to live in nursing homes.

But according to the understanding of normal people, it seems that nursing homes are for those lonely elderly or those who really have no choice, and those who can really enjoy the filial piety of their children are unwilling to go to nursing homes.

Is this the case? Sending the elderly to a nursing home is not to say that it is unfilial, on the contrary, it is the children who know that they cannot take good care of the elderly, so they send them to the nursing home so that they can enjoy better, more professional and more comprehensive care.

The old man's today is our tomorrow. To be kind to the elderly is to be kind to yourself. The old and the old, the young and the young.

I can't accept it.

The wife is not the standard for the elderly, but the perfect match for the elderly, even if it is for the elderly, you must cherish the wife. The old age without a wife is the old age of helplessness, and the people who are extremely close in their later years are still the old man. There are almost no old couples in nursing homes, which shows that the old couple can achieve home care.

In order to achieve home-based care, if you don't have a wife, you still need to use your voice and autonomy to find an old partner as soon as possible while you are not old.

Caring for each other with your wife can help each other, and you can ask for warmth from each other, so that your busy children can save a lot of heart and effort, otherwise, whether it is a big thing or a headache and brain fever, you need to trouble your children. Being considerate of your wife will not only make you feel comfortable in your heart, but also in your body. There is no choice for nursing homes, and there will be a variety of choices to achieve retirement with your wife, and life will be hopeful on the basis of a head.

Your old house should not be ** as much as possible in your lifetime, at best you can rent it, so as to leave a back road for yourself, and the back road would rather not be able to go or not. Then you need to buy or rent a house near your children's home, and the specific purchase or rent depends on your financial strength, so that you can take care of each other with your children, if possible, it is best to be in the same community with your children, so that it is more convenient to take care of each other.