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If the daughter-in-law follows her mother-in-law to be coquettish, it shows that the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very good, just like a child, and this relationship is really commendable.
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I think it's good, treating my mother-in-law as my own mother, and occasionally being coquettish, can make the relationship better. It can also be seen from your description that she likes you quite a lot and treats you like her own child.
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It's a good thing to get along well, but you lack the temperament of being a mother.
If you want to be spoiled, it's better to be a husband!
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I think you have a good relationship with your mother-in-law, right? Because there are too few people who are coquettish with their mother-in-law, and there are very few in real life.
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It's okay, I think I should treat my mother-in-law as my own relative, so it's okay to be similar to him.
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As deep as her biological mother, her mother-in-law is very kind, and her daughter-in-law is also very sensible.
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The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a difficult one among all family relationships. If it is not handled well, contradictions will often arise. If handled properly, two people will agree.
Whenever a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarrel, the hardest thing is her husband. One is his mother and the other is his wife. I believe that any daughter-in-law does not want to quarrel with her mother-in-law, but always has a discord with her mother-in-law.
How can I be a daughter-in-law that my mother-in-law likes?
In fact, no matter what kind of relationship you are in, as long as you can learn to be humble and gentle in time, you can always easily win the favor of others. If we want our mother-in-law to like us, we must learn to be spoiled and gentle with our mother-in-law. A coquettish woman has a sweet mouth and a smart heart.
He was more popular with his mother-in-law. We remember that, in fact, both men and women like women with high emotional intelligence, sweet mouths, and clever minds.
I don't think most mothers-in-law like stupid mothers-in-law, but they are more perceptive and good at talking and managing things in life in an orderly manner. It is better for them to take care of the elderly or raise children. An efficient daughter-in-law is more likely to win the love of her mother-in-law.
The mother-in-law likes a sweet daughter-in-law and always speaks loudly, giving people a feeling of dying. In this way, the son is easy to control, not easy to quarrel in life, and the family is harmonious. The mother-in-law doesn't like her daughter-in-law to be too thin
The old man thinks that the pinpei who is too thin is unlucky. He prefers to eat meat, so that the body will be more abundant. In addition, women who are too thin and weak also work hard during pregnancy and have no physical strength, and are prone to dysentery during childbirth.
As we all know, old Chinese love to complain. Sometimes, when our parents nag for too long, we get a little angry and say something bad. But if you say these words to your mother-in-law, I am afraid that the war between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law will break out again.
If we can patiently listen to your mother-in-law's urging us, whether it is your family's short life or your mother-in-law's past, as long as we listen quietly, your mother-in-law will be very happy.
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Of course, a coquettish daughter-in-law will be liked by the old woman, because such a girl is very good at getting into trouble, and he can't find a place to be angry at all.
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Is Li Jiao's daughter-in-law the most popular with her mother-in-law, and why is her pants late? A coquettish daughter-in-law is even less liked by her mother-in-law, because Hongzi's mother-in-law will feel that her son is easily seduced by her daughter-in-law's coquettishness.
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Yes, because such people have a relatively high EQ, and then they can also resolve the contradictions between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and their mother-in-law also likes such people very much.
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Yes, because the daughter-in-law who can be coquettish is very obedient and knows how to please her mother-in-law, and she is most liked by her mother-in-law.
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The coquettish daughter-in-law is very popular with her mother-in-law, because her mother-in-law and her husband have the same thoughts, and Liang Chongyuan also likes to take care of his daughter-in-law, and he likes his daughter-in-law to show weakness to him.
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This should be normal, because women like to be jealous. Especially some women always think that they are powerful, and they like to say that their husbands are not right, and they are not good at home, and as a mother, they will definitely not agree with you. Maybe your husband can tolerate your behavior of counting him like this, but the mother-in-law is not convinced, and it is very likely that she will participate in disputes and contradictions, and once the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have conflicts because of men, it is not so easy to reconcile.
2. Don't tell others behind your backs that your mother-in-law is not.
Some daughters-in-law don't dare to slap their mother-in-law in person, but they don't like their mother-in-law very much. So what's the solution? I can only complain to the person next to me.
It doesn't matter if the person who complains about it is a big mouth, then it may reach the ears of the mother-in-law at some point. The mother-in-law may not quarrel with you immediately, but she will keep this matter in her heart, and she will not have a very good opinion of this daughter-in-law from now on. The so-called family ugliness should not be publicized, and it is very unwise to casually talk about one's parents' shortcomings outside.
3. Don't "rob" the child with your mother-in-law.
Some women think that the children they give birth to are their own, and the mother-in-law is just the child's grandmother, so don't let the child get too close to the mother-in-law, otherwise the child's love will be separated. In fact, such worries are completely unnecessary. Grandma's love does not conflict with mother's love, and it is normal for grandma to cherish her grandchildren.
Don't stop grandma from getting close to the child, the intergenerational relationship may make it easier for the child to open up, and the child sometimes does not listen to his parents, but will listen to the education of his grandparents.
Only a stupid woman will deliberately "rob" the child with her mother-in-law, so that the child can get close to her mother-in-law, in fact, it can also enhance the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Of course, some people say that there is an excellent way, that is, not to live with the mother-in-law, or even not to get along with the mother-in-law, everyone is far away, there are not many such families in reality, we still have to grasp the degree of getting along. I hope that more and more families will be harmonious
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You're not the worst woman in the world, it's just that you haven't found the right way to get along between your husband and your mother-in-law.
If a man is a dutiful son, a woman should not want to use her own means and cleverness to change him. Don't complain in front of your husband, are you living with your mother for the rest of your life or with me for the rest of your life! This will only make your husband hate you more.
In fact, such a man is not very difficult to get along with, since he is a filial son, you are more filial to his parents than him, so that you can win the hearts of your in-laws and your husband, the best of both worlds. Even if you have a little conflict with your in-laws one day, your husband may talk about his parents in turn, which is the cumulative result of your usual filial piety to his parents.
Everyone has parents, to compare the heart, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to get along This is a hot topic in history so far, and it is also a major trouble for the family, but as a younger generation, we learn to be generous, sometimes the unreasonable trouble of the old man will make us very angry and aggrieved, but looking back, it is really not interesting to think about it so much as a family. We all want home and prosperity! So learn to be a little more tolerant!
I hope my help can help you, landlord, I am also a woman, I am also a daughter-in-law, the conflict between me and my mother-in-law is much more complicated than your family, but a few years have passed, I have also figured it out, there is no need to be serious with them. Everyone says hello is really good.
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Your mother-in-law pretended to be a little woman in front of your husband, and in a coquettish tone, he felt that his son had grown up, and he could take care of everything, so she was very self-coquettish.
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It's disgusting and disgusting!! No self-esteem! Losing the identity of the elders.
Yes, children also have self-esteem, so if you can't reason with your child outside, you must ignore it, don't scold, and the child will also analyze.
Remember, you have to treat your mother-in-law as a best friend, and you have to talk to her often, and talk to her until she has a good time, and her relationship with you will be better.
Communicate well and don't do things you regret.
The way to be a little more tactful is to start monthly detailed accounting, find a good time, take out the details for the mother-in-law and sister-in-law for reference, how much income, how much expenditure, at a glance, although the mother is partial to the daughter is a matter of course, but the mother-in-law is partial to the sister-in-law, there is a part-part reason, I am afraid that the elders think that the elder brother's income is higher than the younger sister or the bigger is better than the small, then you husband and wife choose how much to confess, as a daughter, there is a monthly allocation of $3000 to the mother as pocket money, although it is not much, But there is a real sense in the hand, even if the son is a son, even if the water and electricity bills, ** fees, network fees, housing land tax, and sacrificial supplies are all inclusive, but it is difficult for people who do not hold the money to feel the pain of spending money like running water, money is not worth it, even if you move out of the small couple, the above household expenses still have to be spent, if you add rent or mortgage, you can't save much, I am you, as long as you don't make ends meet, I will strongly advise my husband: don't care! Just raise two mothers, can you ask your mother to pay for water, electricity, **, Internet, house land tax and sacrificial supplies? >>>More
Treat your daughter-in-law as if she were your own family. Anything is easy to solve. If the two people get along well, it depends on the fate of the two people, if the two parties have no fate, then it is difficult for the two to get along.