I could be so fragile that I burst into tears at a single word

Life can't be as good as you think, but it's not as bad as you think it is. I think that people are more fragile and strong than I can imagine. Sometimes, I may be so fragile that I burst into tears at a single sentence, and sometimes, I find myself gritting my teeth and walking a long way.

This passage is from the French ** Maupassant.

Long ** "Life".

Introduction: When she was a girl, Yana was full of yearning for pure and eternal love like myths and legends, and when she met the tall, handsome, steady and quiet Viscount de Lamar (Julien), Yana thought she had found the perfect lover of her ideals, and was immersed in great happiness. On their wedding night, Yana feels a sense of despair that her dreams have been shattered when she discovers that Julien is more interested in her body than in her own soul.

A sharp pain spread all over her body, but Julien turned a blind eye to the pain in her body, and fell asleep when she was satisfied. The trauma of her body is the source of Yana's disillusionment in love, and she feels that the happiness she has dreamed of has come to naught, and the tragedy of her life begins.

After returning from the honeymoon, Yu Lian "seems to have become a different person, like an actor who has played a role, and now he has returned to his usual appearance." Yu Lian took charge of the Yana family's property, reduced expenses, and treated the peasants extremely harshly: the identity of the aristocratic landowner of the Yana family was overwhelmed by the arrogance of Yu Lian's capitalists, so Yana's material ecology was out of balance, and her parents were angry and ran away.

Yu Lian gradually dominates his selfish, despicable, and brutal true face.

Dressed in the general attire of a rich man, the brilliance and appearance that used to impress Yana are gone. The relationship between the husband and wife is cold and strangers, "he rarely cares about her, and it is rare to even speak; Any shadow of love suddenly vanished, and it became a rarity to go to her bedroom at night." This kind of cold violence in the family.

It made Yana's heart like water, and she was completely on the verge of collapse in terms of material ecology and spiritual ecology.

Artistic features. It shows Maupassant's creative skills in long stories, which has earned him a reputation as a great writer and consolidated and improved his position in the French literary scene. At the same time, it also embodies the expressive naturalism advocated by Maupassant.

viewpoint, with the artistic effect of "touching people's hearts with pure truth" that he pursues.

Maupassant believes that man and nature are interdependent and interdependent, and there is always a psychological counterpoint effect between people and things—that is, the subject can always find a certain correspondence point in the object, so that they can "have a little bit of understanding" with each other, so as to achieve unity between the two and the connection between the two and the self.

A Lifetime exemplifies this characteristic. Maupassant sketched three scenes of spring, autumn and winter in chronological order. In the case of spring, the author depicts spring rains.

The natural scenery after that, among which the images of "rain", "slanting sun", "wind", "birds" and so on, together surround a center: how beautiful is the spring of nature, full of poetry and picturesqueness, everywhere presents vitality, and there are endless odes everywhere!

This phrase expresses a sense of inner fragility and resilience, as well as the diversity and change of a person in the face of difficulties.

Sometimes, people can feel very vulnerable because of small triggers, such as hearing a sad word, seeing a touching **, or just emotional swings. This vulnerability can be so vulnerable that a single sentence can bring tears to your eyes.

But at the same time, people have also found their own tenacity and perseverance. In the face of difficulties and challenges, they can grit their teeth and persevere for a long way, no matter how many difficulties and obstacles lie ahead. This tenacity and perseverance may come from the persistent pursuit of goals, or it may come from the love and respect for life.

Overall, this quote expresses the diversity and change of people, as well as the different ways of coping with difficulties. Whether fragile or resilient, it is part of people's emotions and humanity, and it is also the driving force for people's growth and progress.

You will gradually realize that there is no such thing as an easy word in the adult world.

The collapse of adults is just in an instant, in the adult world, busy day after day, when I encounter things, I am carried by myself, others ask, I am fine, what can I do? In fact, the inner torment is only borne silently by self-purity and self-indulgence, and slowly digested by oneself.

When I grew up, I found out that my parents were not easy, sometimes I was thinking, my parents were not tired in front of us, I was wronged, and I never told us about it, for fear of affecting us, when my parents were sad, I stayed alone, and I might cry secretly, so don't bother him at this time, because he didn't want you to see it and stay alone, and he didn't want to interfere with you, so he chose to bear it himself.

Didn't you find a problem? Every time my parents were alone for a meeting, they would go and cook for us, because they had taken care of their emotions and pondered for a long time. Adjust your mindset so that it doesn't affect you.

So sometimes think more about your parents, they scold you for a few words, don't worry, maybe they are too stressed, be more considerate of their parents, and understand their difficulties as adults.

Adults also have tears in their faces, but you don't see them crying in the corner, when they are heartbroken, that kind of adult grievance.

You may make the other party cry because of a fragile word, and sometimes you will find yourself gritting your teeth and walking a long way, in fact, feelings are such a process of emotional running-in, and it is the most intense stage, in this process, sweet can be very sweet, bitter can be very bitter.

I don't know what stage your relationship is in, if you have only been together for a few months, no matter how open your view of love and marriage is, I do not recommend you to live together.

At this time, your relationship may not be able to go through this stage, and you think that living together is to let two people have more time to be together and more time to be sweet. However, true cohabitation is nothing more than exposing all the shortcomings in front of the other person, and all the living habits go through a stage of integration.

When you first started your relationship, you see each other's eyes are bright, and you spend a lot of time dressing up when you go out on a date every day, and the image of the other party in your heart is not very real. There is really no need to let cohabitation speed up the process of the relationship, just enjoy the current period of love. Choosing to live together during the love period may shatter all the expectations in your heart.

If your relationship is already stable, and two people want to take their relationship further by living together, this is understandable. At this time, they already have a certain understanding of each other, and the decisions they make are no longer carried away by a wave of love. You may feel that the other person is the person you want and can't wait to get involved in the other person's life as soon as possible.

Whatever the purpose, you should make a decision based on the whole thing.

My boyfriend and I chose to live together after five months together, and I didn't think much about it at the time, I just wanted to be with each other every day.

From the beginning of the stir-fry of how many chili peppers to put in the quarrel, now he can accompany me to eat extra spicy, I can also accompany him to eat slightly spicy.

However, today I realized that I could not accept the practice of cohabitation, and my perception did not keep up with my behavior. I think I've done something wrong, so I'm tormented from time to time.

Living together made me love him more and more, but my mental burden also became heavier.

If you want to live with your boyfriend, you have to figure it out for yourself.

Can you afford to take the risk of cohabitation? Is this what you want for yourself?

If you don't have any doubts, just do whatever you want.