What should I do if my parents don t support being with my boyfriend?

Don't think about elopement, if the boy is really good to you, then your life is still better, if it's just rhetorical coaxing and short-term disguise then you will pay a heavy price, remember that you can't, use your life as a bet.

If the attitude of the parents is still resolutely opposed after knowing and understanding, then follow the opinions of the parents, after all, they are from the past, and they do not agree with their own reasons and reasons, do not listen to the old man, and suffer in front of them.

Life should be lived by oneself, the mother is for her own good, you must distinguish what the mother's reason is, the mother's reason is right, you have to think twice, the reason is not right or wrong, just listen to yourself, don't make mistakes.

First of all, you must understand the reasons why your parents do not agree, if the boy's family conditions are not good, you can tell them that you are willing to fight with him, if it is too far away, and your parents are reluctant to marry you far away, then you have to think carefully.

Parents are both from the past, and they really feel what it is to feel the feelings and live a life, and they are the most powerful to speak about the ups and downs, joys and sorrows. As a parent, you don't want to recreate your own painful experience in your child, and the advice given by your parents should be carefully considered. Love is not bread, love will slowly change, but the demand for bread will not change.

Moreover, the person you like may reappear.

Don't go head-on with your parents who have worked hard to give birth to you for a boy you've known for a few months or even a year or two. No matter how good that guy is to you, it's not worth it. Because you are the pearl of your parents' palms, and they are also good for you, you will make them feel cold when you do this.

Pity the hearts of parents in the world, there is no parent who doesn't want their children to live well, let your boyfriend prove to your parents that he has the ability to protect you and let you live a good life.

Talk to your parents so that they know who he is. If the man is really good to you, your parents will feel more comfortable when they hand you over to him.

Summary. Every parent thinks about his children, because your boyfriend is not doing a good job, worried that you will marry and suffer hardships, and feels sorry for you, if you really love each other, try to convince your parents and ask for their consent!

Hello, the emotional problem is still decided by both parties, of course, parents have their parents' hail round concerns, because parents experience much more things, if you really love each other, communicate with your parents well, tell them that your boyfriend is very good, and the follow-up may be complicated by the family, but the person himself is very good, it is worth cherishing, and communicate well.

Hello, the problem of feelings is still decided by both parties, of course, parents have their parents' base bridge to take concerns, because parents experience much more fighting, if you really love each other, communicate with your parents who have eliminated their hands, tell them that your boyfriend is very good, worth cherishing, and communicate well.

Can you tell us why your parents disagreed?

Because this boy doesn't have a good job, he graduated from junior high school, and he is a driver.

I am a primary school teacher.

I am a college graduate.

Dear, this situation would normally be prevented.

So what should I do?

Every parent thinks about his children, because your boyfriend is bored with his friend's work is not good, he is worried that you will marry in the past, and he will feel sorry for you, and if you want to send a chop is your true love, try to persuade your parents and ask for their consent!

Or do you have plans for the future?

Is the boy going to be a driver all the time?

He is a truck driver.

The salary is more than 10,000.

It's a lot of money, but it's not stable, if you're looking for a civil servant, even if it's 3,000 a month, your parents will feel it.

Suitable. Because he can do it until he is old.

The driver is different, he always drives outside, and in the eyes of his parents, he is often not at home and can't take care of you.

And you're going to have to worry about him.

When parents disagree with being with their boyfriend, they can do the following: 1. Communicate positively; 2. Show your determination; 3. Listen to your parents' opinions.

1. Active communication.

First of all, you should explain to your parents that you love your boyfriend very much, and he has many advantages. In today's society, money can't solve everything, the most important thing is to value people's feelings, as long as they are good to themselves, that is the most important thing.

2. Show your determination;

After all, when you are in love, you live with your husband after selling in the state, not your parents and your husband. Although the opinions of parents also have a great influence on everyone, after all, they start their own family.

3. Listen to the opinions of parents for distribution.

Because my parents are very old, they have a lot of experience in society. They may be able to see at a glance what kind of person has what kind of character, so as children, they should also listen to their parents' opinions.

Precautions for communicating with parents

1. As children, we must respect our parents.

When we communicate with our parents, we must know how to respect others, only by respecting our parents, can we continue to talk about the topic, even if the parents' views are wrong, but we should not refute them loudly.

2. Listen more. Parents are generally very nagging, every day is those few words, we are tired of listening to it, but they are always good for us, in fact, there is no malice, many children have been upset when they hear their parents' nagging, some words from parents, we have to listen more.

Summary. If the parents don't agree to be with the boyfriend, then it depends on the reasons for the parents' objections. If it's because of a bad family background, then you and your boyfriend should come up with your future plan, so that your parents can see his sincerity and determination, if you are not very old-fashioned or money-based parents, you will give your boyfriend a chance to perform.

Parents don't agree to be with their boyfriends, so it depends on the reasons for their parents' objections. If it's because of a bad family background, then you and your boyfriend should come up with your future plan, so that your parents can see his sincerity and determination.

Mom and Dad are experienced people, most of them will feel that too young love can not have a happy result, they are all for the sake of their children, but they are not clear about the emotional situation of both parties in love. Therefore, when you feel that you are truly in love with each other, you should sincerely communicate with your parents and explain your views on the world and the confidence that you want to be with him, and through your sincerity and faith, you may be able to convince your parents.

I am Han and he is of Yi nationality, we have been together for a few years, and then we separated because my parents did not agree, and now we are reconciled again, but my parents do not agree.

What is the reason for disagreement, you can understand the reason, and then convince your parents, but also show your determination.

I just don't agree with my marriage to the Yi people.

Because he had to beat people before, and after the separation, he changed a lot, and it wasn't the same as before.

How can I convince them?

Let your partner make a pledge and let your parents know in action that he is truly repentant.

What to do if it doesn't make sense.

I believe that if your boyfriend is truly repentant, he can convince his parents, after all, his parents are just worried that you will not have a good time.

They introduced me to everything they didn't like, I didn't like them.

That's how parents are.

Summary. If our parents are against being with our boyfriends, we can try to tell our parents about the advantages of our boyfriends, and by talking more about the advantages, we can slowly change our parents' opinions about our boyfriends.

If our parents are against being with our boyfriends, we can try to tell our parents about the advantages of our boyfriends, and talk more about the advantages of our friends, so that we can slowly change our parents' and brothers' views of our male friends, and if we do a good job, we will often let our parents agree.

If your parents are against being with your boyfriend, we can also let your boyfriend make some efforts, constantly improve their abilities, and do a good job of being able to make some achievements, which is also easy to make parents change, and the better the results, the easier it is to succeed.

If parents are opposed to being with their boyfriends, we can also try to communicate with our parents to explain that the type of boy we like is what our boyfriend is like now, so that parents can understand why they chose him, which is very important.

Recently, I am about to get married, our local bride price is 100,000 yuan, the neighbors who are married around them are all 180,000 lead eight bride price, my object is in a different place, their wedding bride price is small tens of thousands, it may be a cultural difference, my parents feel that my former scum my boyfriend is not sincere, and I feel that the bride price is too Hui Sui is too quiet, so they have been persuading me, thinking that I am blind, he is not worth it.

I think I am getting married, and I am lowering myself to change the auspicious file, and it is true that his family conditions are not good, just a father in his sixties, a valuable villa, and his argument is gone.

In this case, it is a question of economic conditions.

said that he was afraid that I would endure hardships, first, his family was not enough for his parents to divorce, and secondly, the family conditions were dry and unbalanced, and he had no savings, and he was not stupid in his twenties, because he was deceived by pyramid schemes in the first two years.

Your parents are there for you.

To be honest, according to his conditions you said, it is really difficult to find a partner.

That is, he is the person who likes him.

You're hell-bent on getting married.

The combination of factors that parents say is not taken into account.

Brother, seeing that you are quite old, do you think he is suitable for life, he has a sense of responsibility, and he is very good to me, I have been talking to him for eight years, and his first love is him.

The premise of living is ability, and it is the economy.

To tell the truth, he went to Henan to set up a stall before, and he made a lot of money when there was no epidemic, but then he closed the city and returned to his hometown.

Is he a potential stock?