Best friends turn lovers??? What should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-09
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    At least I don't think it's good, from the bottom of my heart! Friends can be for life, while lovers are only for a certain period! It's not worth losing a friend because of a lover! So I don't think it's important to turn a lifelong friend into a lover for a certain period.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's normal for good friends to become friends.

    After getting along for a long time, you will naturally have feelings.

    However, long-distance relationships are troublesome.

    If you have faith in him, in yourself, in your feelings.

    I believe that everything is not a problem.

    You will be able to overcome all difficulties.

    Don't worry. You just have to think about the storms that you have to endure with him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you are in a long-distance relationship, you will have to separate from your parents

    But it is troublesome to change from a good friend to a lover, because of the friend relationship, you can confide in him, if it is a lover, maybe you can't be yourself in front of him.

    Be friends unless you really like each other

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Think about it, long-distance relationships are really difficult, and if you don't handle it well, maybe your friends won't have to do it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't be so nervous, since they like each other, get along for a while and see if it's suitable.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Think about it, long-distance relationships are really hard.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Disagree with a long-distance relationship.

    Think it through.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After all, the world's couples fall in love at first sight is a minority, most couples develop from friends to lovers, for friends who have understood, since Lang has a concubine intention, then be generous together.

    Some people feel that since they are good friends, there is no need to develop into lovers, and they are so afraid that they don't even have to be friends. This worry is completely superfluous, and for love, it does not necessarily mean that you have to become enemies after a breakup.

    Even if we can't be together anymore for various reasons, it doesn't matter. The more familiar you are, the more you will understand and understand each other's personality, temper and character.

    If it's really not suitable, retreat to the position of good friends, even if it may make each other a little embarrassed, but just get used to it.

    Even if they are good friends of the opposite sex, when they have a significant other, their feelings will become weaker and weaker as the contact decreases.

    So, for those things that are unknown, don't set limits on yourself and let them go with the flow. The fate between every two people is different.

    That's why there are some feelings, you hold on tightly, and you're afraid that he will slip away from you, but it turns out to be a stranger.

    Since love is coming, let's enjoy his process and leave the rest to time to decide. After all, it's not something I can control.

    Can you stay together for a lifetime, in addition to the persistence of two people, there is also a little luck and fate to promote success, otherwise, how can there be so many crazy men and women in the world?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What's unacceptable about that? Originally, it is good for good friends to become lovers. They all got to know each other. That's how we love each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Good friends have become lovers, which is worth being happy about, which is equivalent to kissing and kissing.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think that since the opposite sex is a good friend and knows each other better, if two people like each other, of course, they hope to become husband and wife in the future, and I can accept falling in love with a good friend. Since it is love, it must have a certain emotional foundation.

    When two people know each other better, it will naturally be more conducive to the final development. After all, there are not many couples in the world who fall in love at first sight. Most couples develop from friends to lovers.

    For people who already know, since it is the heart of lovers, let's be generous together. Some people feel that since they are good friends, there is no need to be lovers, and they are so afraid that they can't even be friends. Such fears are completely unwarranted.

    For love, you don't have to be an enemy after a breakup. Even if you can't be together for various reasons, that's okay. The more you get to know each other, the more you will understand each other's character, temper, and character.

    If it's really not a good fit, go back to being a good friend. Even if it might embarrass the other person, just get used to it. Even if a good friend of the opposite sex has a significant other, the relationship will become weaker and weaker as the connection decreases.

    So, for those things that are unknown, don't set limits on yourself and let them develop naturally. The fates of the two people are not the same. That's what you have for the lead socks, you hold on tightly, you are afraid that they will slip away from you, but in the end they are strangers.

    Since love is coming, then enjoy the process of it, and leave the rest to time to decide. After all, this matter is not something I can control.

    Can we be together for the rest of our lives? In addition to the persistence of two people, there is also a little luck and fate that makes us successful. Otherwise, how could there be so many people looking for objects in the world? So, when there is a love affair between good friends, accept it generously and let it be.

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