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Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and it is worth it to pay without regrets, as long as you can be with the person you love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

A beautiful love enriches life, and a love that has passed the test is perfect

Human desires are endless, and aesthetic fatigue is shared by everyone. Marriage is more of a responsibility of life, and it is necessary to find and experience the joy and meaning of life in mutual care. Life without marriage is imperfect.

There are many happy people in the world, but most people are still happy, only emotionally speaking, our marriage is still very happy, because there is true love, so it will be very happy.

Back and forth to you, how many people in your world are unhappy in marriage, are you happy? I think our relationship is very strong and strong, so I think our relationship is very good, whether it is a different place or not? So our relationship is very happy, very innocent, so I think our relationship is very innocent, happy and happy.

There are people in the world who are unhappy in their marriages, but there are also many people who are happily married. People who are happily married will feel that love is sweet, marriage is beautiful, and they are full of happiness.

Marriage and happiness are not necessarily linked. Those who are married and those who are not married, there are happy and unhappy people.

To be precise, the vast majority of people in the world are not happy. Because, if you are a human being, you have desires, and having desires means not being satisfied, and if you are not satisfied, you will be miserable and unhappy. Only by harmonizing one's inner desires with one's external environment to a general balance can one be able to feel happy, and very few people can do this.

Sometimes feelings are just a word.

Even if it's not happy.

The unhappy days also go by day by day.

Marriages whether rich or poor.

In a marriage with feelings and no feelings, it still lives day by day.

A lot of things are different from reality.

In fact, growing up in China is the greatest happiness.

Marriage is just a small happiness.

How many people who are unhappy in their marriages, only talking about feelings, are they happy? I think there are some happy marriages in the world and some unhappy marriages.

Because marriage is a big responsibility for many people. After getting married, all kinds of trivial things will grind the enthusiasm of both parties, and only firewood, rice, oil and salt are left in life.

Marriage means taking on the responsibilities of two families, and all kinds of pressures come with it. If you are a wealthy family, you can still do what you want when it comes to daily expenses, but if you are just an ordinary family, you will be stretched thin if you have a larger expenditure in some aspects. Wealth also determines whether a marriage can be happy or not to a certain extent.

Another reason is children. In families with children, women have to pay much more than men. First of all, when work is suspended and income** is reduced, the burden on the man will increase.

Again, in terms of the body, it takes a lot of energy to regulate the body after giving birth, and the man also needs to spend more energy to take care of the woman. This can be really tiring for someone who has just come home from work. In addition, taking care of children is also a very significant pressure for women, and men also have to spend a lot of time with their children.

After getting married, both parties will be honest with each other, and various shortcomings will be exposed. The novelty of pre-marriage is also gone.

For all these reasons, most people in marriage will.

Before getting married, there is a lot of anticipation for life after marriage, and this kind of situation exists in everyone.

However, many people find that their life after marriage is not as good as they had ...... long before they imaginedAs a result, these people feel that their marriage is unhappy.

Such an idea is incorrect.

The reason why it is said that the understanding of people with the above ideas is incorrect is due to the following reasons:

1. The gap between the ideal and the reality.

Ideal is an idealized existence that exists in the mind.

Reality is the state of objective reality.

There is a gap between the two.

In general, ideals tend to be better, while reality tends to be more practical. ......Only by facing these two states correctly can we properly handle the relationship between each other.

2. Ideal is not equal to reality.

The ideal exists in the mind, and it is an idealized state. ......It is not equal to reality, and it cannot be measured by idealized existence. ......Otherwise, you will feel dissatisfied and unhappy.

3. Most people are actually very happy after getting married.

In fact, most people are actually happy in their married life.

For most people, of course, married life cannot be compared to their ideal state. ......However, I am satisfied with the actual state of my life after marriage.

Therefore, for the vast majority of people, married life is a happy ......It is not correct to say that most people are unhappy when they get married.

4. Treat the trivial things of life correctly.

For a small number of people who feel unhappy after marriage, the reason why they will be dissatisfied with their life after marriage is because of the troubles ...... trivial things in lifeAs long as you can deal with all this correctly, you can make your married life happy and sweet.

Most people in marriage feel unhappy because they have not learned to empathize, always look at problems and analyze problems from a personal standpoint, cultivate themselves in the other party's heart, and force the other party in their own hearts, so they will feel that they have paid too much and returned too little, and they will feel unhappy if they are mentally and psychologically disappointed.

Marriage is not love, marriage is a responsibility and obligation, it is willing to pay without returning, boys should love and accommodate girls for a lifetime, and girls should treat boys with girls' independence and gentleness.

The so-called feeling unhappy is to feel that the other party cares about you, and there is too little gentleness, consideration and understanding. Boys can't satisfy girls' desires and vanity, and girls can't be tolerant and understanding of boys. For a little family trivial triviality, I care about it.

What is marital happiness? A good life for the other party is happiness, and a happy life for the other party is happiness. If you look at the problem from your own perspective everywhere, you will not empathize, feel aggrieved, and live an unhappy life, this is a mediocrity disturbing yourself, not only asking for troubles but also hurting your feelings.

Happiness is in your own hands, and you must learn to take care of it. Create wealth with ingenuity and hard work to make life complete, if the husband and wife can't work together to run a small family, the one who wantonly squanders the bargaining chips of love marriage will let the other party down.

Marriage is not easy and needs to be cherished. If you feel unhappy, you have to change, to adjust your emotions, what kind of seed is personal happiness based on? What flowers bloom and what fruits bear fruit, life has always been like this.

Hello, in marriage, there is no love, I don't feel cared for; Second, ineffective communication, long-term asymmetry, no one understands.

What are the reasons why you feel aggrieved and unhappy in your marriage?

The first reason: a marriage without love.

Marriage must have love at all times. A marriage without love is like fertile soil that loses its nutrients and becomes barren; A marriage without the nourishment of love is also difficult to make people feel secure.

We all care more about our personal psychological feelings, and many times if we don't love psychologically, we will not want to talk to each other in action, and then have a wordless marriage.

In a marriage, when two people don't speak, the distance between their hearts will become farther and farther apart.

A marriage without love will certainly not make you feel any happiness.

The second reason: ineffective communication.

Ineffective communication in marriage will also make the other party suffer too many grievances. If two people want to live together, they must discuss common problems, but when there is a conflict and the other party does not want to solve it, where do you go?

Every time you want to solve it, the other party will have a cold face, and you will feel very wronged.

A happy marriage relationship must be discussed, not ineffective communication. Most of these marriages will not be happy. If you want your marriage to last, you must make each other feel comfortable.

We must grow up and learn to take on our respective responsibilities in marriage, in addition to love, we need two people to bear each other's responsibilities and reflect often, in order to have happiness.

If you enter into marriage with the person you love, please manage it well, marriage is not easy, and cherish it; In marriage, you should think more about the good of the other half and understand the difficulties of the other party, so that it will be easier to achieve happiness.

Most people in marriage feel that they are unhappy, this is because of the mentality of these people, not necessarily really unhappy, people often idealize their lives, for material life and spiritual life will have high expectations, when they can't get it, they will be very disappointed, the more they want to get it, the more they can't get it, so they always feel very unhappy, always in chagrin and disappointment, so they can't see what they get. They always like to compare what they can't get with what others get, and the more they compare themselves, the more disappointed they are, and over time this becomes their psychological suggestion, so when happiness comes, it is difficult for them to find out. In fact, as long as we have a good attitude in life, do not force, do not compare, and are content and happy, that is to say, when we ask less, we will be happier, because we have the eyes to find happiness.

There will definitely be some pressures in married life, financial burdens, problems with children's education, and problems with the support of the elderly. The relationship between two people after marriage is no longer as good as when they were in love, they are too stressed, and they both lose patience with each other, they will definitely feel more and more tired and unhappy.

As far as the woman is concerned: the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been an important factor in determining a happy marriage, and if it is not handled well, it will definitely lead to an unhappy marriage, which is beyond doubt.

Another point is that the pressure of life after marriage is too great, and in today's society, the burden of a family's life does not only fall on men, but also on women.

This point will make some women who have little pressure in life suddenly unable to accept that no matter what kind of relationship they are in, the more disappointments they accumulate, the less happiness they will get, especially women in marriage, who can't see the direction of life, and don't have the courage to continue to persevere.

The disappointment has accumulated a lot, and naturally he wants to disperse, and when a woman gives a man countless opportunities to mend his ways, he is still indifferent. In this case, the woman will only feel that the man in front of her is unreliable and not worth giving the rest of her life to him.

Therefore, once the man's performance exceeds her bottom line of disappointment, she loses the happiness in her marriage and loses her confidence in the relationship.

From the man's side: they feel that their work is very stressful, and they have to deal with family conflicts, especially when they find that their girlfriends are different from their wives, and their wives will become more and more worldly.

Women always have a misunderstanding, they will bind their happiness to another man, they will have too many expectations for marriage, and they always hope that after getting married, everything can be solved easily and smoothly.

How is that possible? A person's ability to solve problems and his attitude towards problems will not change because he is married or unmarried, marriage is just a mainstream way of life, just a choice. That's all.

One of the most important reasons why most people feel unhappy in marriage is because we misunderstand the nature of marriage.

The essence of marriage is cooperation, not dependence, when we enter marriage, we will take it for granted that the problems that we didn't want to face before and don't want to solve are good if we get married, just like the marriage between Chen Yu and Zhong Xiaoqin in "Thirty Only".

Chen Yu got married in order to save his worries and find a safe haven, and felt that Zhong Xiaoqin was a good girl who could live with him.