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I don't really agree with this proposal.
Because feelings are a more complicated matter, not something that can be explained clearly in a few words. Therefore, I can only say that there is some truth to the simple idea that the emotion that goes with the flow is the mature emotion, but not all of them.
We have to admit that there are a lot of emotions that come naturally and come naturally. Similar to childhood sweethearts, it's really enviable. But we also have to see that there are many love at first sight, although the two sides are only the first time to meet, but in the dark, there is an unclear relationship involving each other, and the unique temperament of both sides is attracting each other, just like the moon revolving around the earth, impartial, just around the circle.
In our real life, there is still a considerable part of the emotions that are fought for by hard work. I may not like it at the beginning, but in the man's three-inch tongue, after the courtesy, the man and woman finally came together and lived a very material and pyrotechnic life. Because there are some emotions that are complementary to each other, you are more public, and I am more restrained.
If you are silent, I will be lively, as the Taoists say, there is yin and yang, and one yin and one yang is the right way.
Therefore, emotions do not have to be natural or mature. Lots and lots of others.
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Emotional to go with the flow proves that the emotion is stable and settled with the encounter, but it does not mean that it is a mature relationship. Sometimes going with the flow is a kind of mentality that sees through, after all, emotional things are the most difficult to say, everything is fate, and the mentality of going with the flow proves that the mood has changed a lot, and the mentality is stable.
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Emotions to go with the flow are not necessarily mature emotions, and their development may not be satisfactory, but if both parties work together carefully, they will develop into mature emotions.
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If the emotion goes with the flow, it is not necessarily a mature emotion, because if it goes with the flow, it means that you have not taken the initiative to promote the development of the relationship, and there is no active process, which means that there is no subjective initiative, and the feelings are not very strong.
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Yes, when it comes to going with the flow, it is a mature emotion, because the situation will not be affected in any way by external influences.
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This can be understood from two aspects, if your emotions are particularly good to go with the flow, when you start a family with each other, it is honest and emotional, that is, you don't get entangled in too many things, but if it is another aspect that is self-defeating, going with the flow is not going to solve the problem and going with the flow, then it is not a mature emotion.
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It is ripe, and it is best to go with the flow.
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Emotions go with the flow, and you can indeed reach a mature emotion, which is neither humble nor arrogant. Don't fight, don't take. Everything goes naturally, and it can be said that it is a very mature emotion.
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The real way to go with the flow is to let go of the hard work and not force it, rather than the excuse of doing nothing and waiting for the result. Before going with the flow, there needs to be a long process of hard work, including mentality adjustment, emotional self-management, self-worth improvement, learning speech skills, and so on. And she is obviously not willing to spend time, energy and money to make up for her own mistakes, dare not face her own imperfections, and dare not examine her own mistakes in relationships.
Letting go so easily, I can say for sure that she doesn't love each other, all she wants to save is the self-esteem hurt by her husband's agreement to divorce, and the deep unwillingness from the heart. Since you don't love, why do you still say that you go with the flow, wouldn't it be more real and chic because you don't love, so you can say "let it be" without trying, because you don't love, so you can think that the other party left because it wasn't yours. But who is destined by God, whose whom.
And that man, because he liked it, he turned back to her again, because he liked to tolerate her rudeness in front of her mother again and again, in front of her sister, because she liked it, let her break up again and again and love and pet without regrets, because he didn't know how to communicate, which led to the final divorce. And she never understood that in this world, no one except her parents will take the initiative to be good to her, no one should be good to her, no one must be good to her, and no one has the obligation to be good to her, to be good to her, that is because loving you hurts you, not that responsibility is not an obligation. Don't take other people's love for you as the capital to hurt others, don't wait until you cry to know that you feel distressed, don't wait until you are gone to know how to keep it, and don't wait until you lose it to know that you should cherish it.
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Of course not, it is said that when the mature emotion is that both of them have a complete future plan, and at the same time, both of them are working hard for each other's future, coupled with the approval of both parents, such an emotion is mature and can move towards marriage.
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Emotions go with the flow, most of them are mature emotions, because they are familiar with each other, they have established feelings for each other, understand each other, trust each other, and of course there are a few emotions that will break up unhappily.
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Emotions to the state of going with the flow is mature emotion, and I think it is not easy to achieve such a state, and to the extent of going with the flow, that shows that two people are not only mature, but also their three views and love views are very mature. So I think that emotion to go with the flow is mature emotion. To sum up, look.
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Emotions to go with the flow are mature emotions. At this time, the mentality will be better and more stable. No cranky thinking and no too much pressure, everything just goes naturally. Don't force everything to follow fate, so that if you put your mind in place, your relationship will naturally be particularly smooth and happy.
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When emotions come naturally, they are more mature emotions, because everything is natural, love each other, you have me and I have you.
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If you just go with the flow, the relationship will fade until the relationship can only be remembered, but it has disappeared. Because going with the flow shows that there is no deliberate effort to maintain this relationship.
There are some people's love that does come naturally, and there is no vigorous emotion between them, nor is there the enthusiasm of the thunder and the earth. Some are just plain feelings like water. They don't fight or fight in their relationship.
Everyone thinks that such a natural love will last forever, but with the passage of time, such feelings will eventually disappear. Because they didn't let this love fit into their lives.
Everyone's belief in love is different, some people want the love that happens naturally, and some people want to persistently pursue the person they love in their hearts. No matter what, everyone's love ending is different.
Some people's love ends sweetly, maybe there is no love between them, but they have the confidence to live together. Although some people are in love, they love and love, but in the end they love each other and have to separate.
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Going with the flow of emotions will have results, because he will not be weak for a short time because of his strong desires, and this kind of feelings need to develop naturally, and he will naturally handle his own people's affairs more clearly.
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Love also needs to work hard, many times when I say go with the flow, what I want to say is: I don't want to put in much effort for your previous relationship, I don't feel anything about you just this level.
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If imitation and its natural affection refer to letting it develop without intervention, then it depends on the situation and personal opinion. In some cases, going with the flow may have positive results, such as two people who naturally develop a relationship of mutual respect and affection, and if they go with the flow, they may develop a deeper relationship.
But in other cases, going with the flow of feelings may lead to bad results. For example, if two people don't have common interests or don't communicate enough, their relationship may drift apart and eventually break up.
Therefore, whether it is natural or not, the development of a relationship requires attention, communication, and effort from both parties. While going with the flow can make people feel free and natural, only conscious and active action can make feelings healthier and more durable.
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Going with the flow is the right way to deal with feelings, thinking too much will cause cracks in the relationship between the two parties, and even cause depression, anxiety and other phenomena.
Everyone's growth experience is different people, so the concept of life is also different, some people think that the process is more important than the result in love, so they will have the courage to try, and some people are afraid of failure and choose to hesitate, but they don't know that this way will also make their life less fun, we should also learn to treat every relationship naturally in life. You must know that every feeling will make our life get a rapid sublimation, and only by communicating more with each other can we make our lives better.
How should a relationship be treated?
At the beginning of love, everyone will show their most perfect side in front of each other, and with the passage of time, many shortcomings will be exposed, which is also a problem that all couples need to solve, when we treat a relationship, we must learn to make changes for each other, go with the flow, accept each other's small shortcomings, can make our feelings stronger and quickly sublimated.
Learn to be tolerant of each other.
Everyone is an independent individual in love, and they all have an independent personality, so they will have different views on a problem, and they should also learn to tolerate each other in life in order to become happier. If the other party does something that disagrees with you, don't think wildly, all kinds of self-doubt, negative criticism, will only make us more unconfident, go with the flow, and make a relationship more wonderful.
What else should I be aware of?
Life in the world, the world is complex, can not be cocooned, everything is simpler, to harvest their own relaxation, happiness and wealth is an imminent thing, the pace of the times is very fast, we should also learn to slow down, let themselves grow quickly from a relationship, I hope everyone can have the perfect love.
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There is a saying in love: The twisted melon is not sweet, it is yours forever, and it will never be tied up if it is not yours. We find that the best way to treat love seems to be really to go with the flow, thinking too much will cause a lot of emotional crises, so is it best to treat feelings with nature, and what kind of harm will be caused by thinking too much?
1. Go with the flow and follow your heart.
Sometimes give each other some free space and time, respect each other is a good thing, everything must pay attention to a degree, many girls like to always manage what the other party is doing, what they are doing, always worry about whether the other party has done something bad, these are a manifestation of insecurity, but also a manifestation of lack of trust between the two parties, if a man really loves you, it will not let you be frightened, even if the work is busy, it will also give a specific time, report everything that happened today, so that you can rest assured, So sometimes it is more useful to go with the flow than to forcibly control it, and some people say that men are like sand, the more they grasp it, the faster they flow. This is to show that love does not depend on control, but on a restraining force between the two of you, and this restraining force is that neither of you can do without anyone, so that the other party feels that he has left you and cannot find a better one, that is, to make himself better, and he will be afraid of him at that time.
Second, distrust or even breakup.
Thinking too much is a common problem for many girls, girls are a sensual animal, men are a rational animal, in the face of love, many boys feel that as long as the relationship is determined, they can go on, and girls will always feel that the other party has a significantly different attitude compared to the beginning, and it is not as enthusiastic as at the beginning, at this time girls will always misunderstand that boys don't like to love themselves, the two sides have been in the stage of internal friction of misunderstanding, if one party does not make a reasonable explanation, the misunderstanding will only get bigger and bigger, It even reaches a point of irreparability, so thinking too much will lead to distrust and can easily lead to a breakup.
Love needs trust, and it needs to go hand in hand.
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Not. Because there will be many accidents in life, they will destroy the emotions of two people, but two people still love each other, so they should know how to work together to resist the emotional destruction of the external environment. If you think too much, you will have doubts about the other party, and you will lose disappointment in the relationship, so it is your own suspicion that destroys the relationship.
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Yes. The hazards of thinking too much are:1
Give yourself a lot of invisible pressure and make yourself tired. 2.Let the other party misunderstand.
If you think too much, the other person will think that you have too much to do. 3.Individuals will become more and more stingy, and they will become irrational in their feelings.
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No, sometimes the relationship needs to go with the flow, but sometimes it also needs to take the initiative to grasp, thinking too much, it is easy to let yourself fall into distress, and it is easy to misunderstand the other party, and after a long time, the other party will not be able to accept it and choose to leave.
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