What should I do with this love?What should I do with this relationship?

Updated on workplace 2024-06-05
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Sometimes two people who love each other are not necessarily together, love her and bless her!As long as you see her happy, you will be happy too.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Bless her. This way, you don't have to carry two baggage. Sometimes loving someone doesn't have to be together, that's also a kind of love. Maybe you really don't have a relationship with her. Look at the point.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Passing by, I also lost the girl I loved today.

    Maybe I gave up on my own.

    Very sad, feelings... I don't understand.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Let go of this relationship and find your true happiness again.

    Some people are irretrievably lost once they are lost, what we can do is to cherish the present, grasp the future, and not let the tragedy happen again.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Take her back, if she loves you the most, you love her too, confess to her once, if she refuses, you can also let go of your feelings for her, try to bless her;If she agrees, it means that you are destined to be a couple;In short, if you don't try again, you won't have a chance in the future, because she is already married, whether emotionally or morally, you don't need to insert a kick, feelings are like gambling, if you don't gamble, you will never know what the result will be.

    Perhaps, her favorite is you, waiting for you to take the initiative to tell her;Perhaps, what she loves the most is her current boyfriend, if you bury the words in your heart, if you know that she is not happy in the future, and you love you the most, what can you do, do you have to live a lifetime with regret?Maybe you will never find someone who can make you feel strongly again.

    If she refuses, it means that there is no fate between you, and then you can also free yourself and find a relationship of your own again.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love is about making the people you love happy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Feelings are like this, friends, don't be sad Today I also lost the person I love, and I am also sad.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Why did you come earlier?This is retribution!Or you'll kill yourself!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Try to fight for it, people have a lifetime for these decades.

    Most people regret what they didn't do, and rarely regret what they did.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Haha, everyone has experience, if you still have him (her) in your heart, please look down: for feelings, what I have emphasized many times is: fight, timely!

    Because I have experienced too much, for you I am not only in line with the identity of an analysis and helper, but also that I hope you will be happy and don't miss the people worth cherishing, so many times, I will be more anxious than you, because I am in it, many things, you can't see through, think that there is no help, and want to give up! You think he is faint and he has no confidence, but in fact, you are wrong, he gave you a chance, because you were incorrect and missed him in time, do you remember what I often say to you? "If you don't recover, if you miss it, then watch him fall in love with others, fall in love, get married, and have children."

    These things are proving to us with facts, and what is obtained in theory is quickly put into practice! This is the lesson that life has taught you! Hope you remember!

    I also hope that if you want to redeem it, you will seize the opportunity, and if you miss it, it will be a lifetime! Regret is not worth much! If you don't fight for it, no one will pay for you!

    Of course, each of us can be defeated, but no one can stop us from getting up from the ground, dear friends, adjust your mentality, face the inner and outer world positively, and regain your life!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Let it go, when you are together, the relationship will become sunless and gloomy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You are relatively special, and there are one-time successes in falling in love, but they are just a few people. The first love and marriage are a gift from God.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You're too concerned about your girlfriend too... Why is love always the time you pay for the hall??? Sometimes a man can't be so obedient to her forever, and he has to be kind to a woman.

    You can't do it for her everywhere ... That's how I do it to my girlfriend, I don't care about her too much, and you make your girlfriend feel like you can't do without her. Cowardly behaviour ...

    Finally, I will help you make up for it: when a person no longer likes to pretend to be a person, it is wrong to cry, it is wrong to be silent, and it is wrong to even breathe.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello, judging by the situation you described, he is good to you. But from the perspective of a bystander, maybe I'm overthinking or overthinking.

    He treats you in several ways, first, he really loves you and wants to be with you, which is what everyone wants, but I think it's too early for you to say love now, and when you step into society and face the reality, you may not easily say love. Second, I don't know how far you've come, so I beg your forgiveness for saying something wrong. From a man's point of view, is it because he hasn't gotten your body yet, that's why he's so good to you, of course, that's just my idea, because the people around me, including me, are so considerate of what they want but haven't gotten yet.

    But when I got it, the novelty disappeared, and I was completely like before. Another question, I don't think you seem to be very calling, maybe in your heart, you have never fantasized about what he promised you, which shows that you know very well in your heart what kind of character he is.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It seems that you are a very kind girl and do not want to hurt the feelings of others.

    But I have to warn you that your indecision will definitely hurt this feeling, as the saying goes, it is not more than three things, and your boyfriend will probably mistake your indecision because you don't love him enough. And you, you have to figure out one thing, the source of your worries, the rest is illusory. Figure out your heart for him and decide again.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Not sure what kind of emotion you want? A long-term and stable relationship makes you feel stressed, if people are just acting on the scene, and you have to say break up after graduation, you will feel very relaxed? Maybe you don't know what you want right now!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The most important thing in love is whether you are more happy than painful or painful than happy in this relationship, I think you already have the answer in your heart.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's just nothing to do, settle for the status quo, and don't think too much.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Find the reason for the pressure you are with him, I feel that this is because he is too good to find fault with you, this is the pressure, his biggest shortcoming is that you feel that he is perfect, feel weak, and can't control him, if you two are okay to quarrel, flirt, scold, this will change your status quo! FYI, think about it yourself, sometimes it's not a bad thing for people to have a personality, it's not a good thing to be too perfect, you are looking for a husband, not looking for someone to take care of you!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The person you feel the most is also your lover, and it is already difficult to find in life, and it is even more difficult if this person is very good to you and loves you very much. Because the former has made you a happy person, plus the latter you are the happiest. It was the same situation in my sophomore year, and I broke up very firmly.

    Because I feel that I must find my favorite, or I will regret it for the rest of my life, I have just graduated, my thoughts have changed a lot, I have a good relationship with my current boyfriend, but he may not be my favorite, but he loves me the most, and he is much better for me than you described, our economic situation is stable, and the future is good, he can understand my mind. It's not that I'm giving in, but the reality is always like this, the lover is not a symbol, we need him to send you back to the dormitory at night, accompany you to dinner, watch movies, and go shopping. If you don't dress up, you're not afraid of his dislike, and you can rest assured of him when a beautiful girl appears, only in this way I think I can live.

    Sometimes the so-called romance and feeling actually come from familiarity. My friends who work around me look for friends to look at the objective conditions as the first, and there is no big contradiction in campus love, so don't break up, I feel that this kind of thing may just be a temporary state of the individual. Best wishes.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Happiness can only be grasped by yourself, don't think that happiness will wait for you, including people.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I don't think this man deserves your love.

    My boyfriend is also a simple person, my past is also very chaotic, he has never been in love, I have been in love many times, I have been injured, as soon as I got up, I talked about these problems, even if those in the past at some times did not affect me, so that I sometimes think about it is very painful, he is also slowly enlightening me, his friend thinks that the two of us are not very suitable, he said that there are some things that no one decides, he has to give himself time to understand, will be willing to this love.

    If that person doesn't achieve the purpose of really pretending to get married, don't tell your friends everything, a very good friend won't stick a knife in your back, really understand your friend, even if you really do something like that, you should protect you, you won't talk like that, beautiful woman I suggest, don't ask for this man, don't ask for a talkative friend, don't be bad by your environment, if you have to go through some stories, even if you become material, there is no shame, Shame on those who are not assertive and pretend to be simple, maybe he is not as good as you think, maybe he is not worthy of your stupid waiting.

    Send you a sentence to paint, there is a saying that men have no strength to feel that women are realistic, women are not attractive to feel that men are attentive, love and not love is just a relationship, do yourself well, is the most important thing.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First of all, you've only been talking for nine months, do you know him? You can feel that you don't know him very well, and you've been worried about what to do in the future, what to do if he doesn't want you anymore. You can stop thinking about this question now, and when you graduate and enter the society, you may know for yourself what kind of person you want.

    I don't have to worry about what happened to him.

    In society, you will meet all kinds of people, and you will naturally have choices for yourself.

    At present, you should look for a job first, after all, it is really not good to be far away, and your father and mother will miss you, so you should find a stable job, and then go with the flow and ask your heart.

    I know that you don't want to divide now, I feel that it is not easy, and I am afraid that this sweetness will be diluted by time, or disappear because of the uncertainty of the outside world. Emotional things can really only go with the flow. It's not easy to find the right person, you have to ask yourself, whether Li Sleepy has shown you all his bad side, whether you can tolerate his worst side, and then if you can, you have to probe his attitude towards you, ask him what he thinks in the future, talk to him about your future, and see if his attitude is resolute.

    At the age of 26, how can you be old, you have to make yourself better, at that time, even if he doesn't want to go through you, there will be better high-quality men to pursue you, don't feel that you can't fight those young, women want temperament, how old a woman can be attractive. In short, while constantly improving yourself, think about what you want. Two people who truly love each other are inseparable.

    As a person who has come before, I still hope that the first is happiness, and the second is that my parents are happy. There are two things you can look at to see if it's appropriate to be with him. The most important thing is that you have a good talk.

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