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Study more, think more, and develop the habit of looking at problems rationally. Some people like to label others, just to brush up on their presence and show that they know more. In fact, some labels, such as judging people by region, are all manifestations of their ignorance, usually learn more and think more, and avoid labeling people at will if they know more.
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You must learn to refuse to be labeled by others. Don't let other people's comments hold you back and stop you from improving. A person's evaluation of you is not comprehensive, and there must be a lot of subjective factors in it, so don't live as others think of you.
One thought of heaven, one thought of hell. Whether you are friend or foe depends only on a thought, on a decision. In the face of all people and things, let us also decide in advance the desired outcome, as for what action to take, it can be varied, but it is always the same:
Serve the results we want.
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First of all, don't be resistant to others, with displeasure in your expression, and treat them with a kind of words that you don't want to talk about. Because at that moment you feel that you are so far away from them, that you don't have to understand what's going on inside you, you just see what is in that label.
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Beautiful people will always be labeled as "vases" by others, and they will also form a kind of thinking that eats by their faces and refuse to work hard, but in the future, you will find that you have nothing but a beautiful skin, and at this time you think about working hard, it is too late. Therefore, from the very beginning, we should give ourselves a position and move towards it, instead of losing our way with a label of one.
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We must be strictly self-disciplined, do not speak ill of people behind our backs, do not generalize partially, and speak with reason and evidence. In life, you can't see others get together to discuss and others just go over to join in the fun, follow the trend, and point fingers at other people's lives.
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Let's not keep criticizing the annotations that don't conform to that label, and we can't accept the possibilities outside of the label. Sometimes we forget that for a living person, a label is just a condensed symbol, it is just a small part of a person.
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When we get used to using labels, a person is covered by labels. What we see at a glance is just a label that represents commonality, and we habitually use that label to explain and understand this person, and we also use that label to ask them to behave in line with the expectations of this label, so we must try to look at the rich inner world of the unique person behind the label.
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I'm constantly instilling in myself all sorts of theories from books and trainings that give hypothetical explanations for aspects of myself and others. Only when we really get into their hearts to understand that we will not easily label others.
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Speaking of the people I have come into contact with, the people who are not aimed at others in terms of facts are either self-reliant enough, or they are very strong and confident. There are only a few who are very strong, and most of them are ordinary people, so it is enough for us to try to be self-reliant.
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Many times everyone should peel off that label, look at the real people behind the label, see those inner realities, embrace all kinds of possibilities beyond that label, and enrich life and the protagonists in life.
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Look at your own character, if it's okay to get by, if the other party is too much, you talk to the other party in private, if you don't change your dead nature, and you are angry, just say it in public. There is a cheaper way, which is to collect the labels he has put on other people (there must be empirical evidence, it is better to record and take pictures), and then blow up the ...... in publicHe waited to die.
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I like to define others with my own ideas, I think he may not be good himself, you don't have the same knowledge as him.
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To be sensible is to break his legs, and to be irrational is to break his three legs.
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You put a label on him too.
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When you label someone or something, you invisibly set a limit for someone or something, and that label is the limit of what you can do. As an adult, you must be careful about what you say, as these words can quickly become your child's inner thoughts. - Infinite Possibilities:
Wake Up Your Learning Brain Quickly by Jim Quake.
One of the leaders of my previous company liked to label his subordinates, for example, this person was too stubborn, that person was not self-motivated, who was inflexible, who was more selfish ......
Once, the leader wanted to find a colleague to work on a more important project, and the colleague who could participate in that project would have the opportunity to be promoted. At that time, several managers under the leader recommended the same girl to the leader, this girl was originally active and hardworking, serious and responsible, but the leader said that this person is not good, she is too rigid in doing things. Because of the leader's words, not only was the girl not reused that time, but when there was a chance in the future, other colleagues did not dare to recommend her again.
As a result, the girl did not get any salary increase and promotion for several years, and it was not until the new leader changed that she got the opportunity to be promoted.
This is an example of an adult being labeled negatively, and while the person being labeled may not necessarily agree with someone else's words, the people around her are highly likely to identify with that label and thus influence her.
What happens if it's a child who is labeled? If the teacher labels a student as "stupid" or "bad boy" as a classmate, the student and classmates who are labeled may agree with the teacher's words and may eventually become a "hopeless" student in the eyes of the teacher and classmates.
It can be seen from this that we, as adults, not only should we not label our children casually, but also do not label adults, and we should pay special attention to not labeling ourselves.
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I couldn't agree with this sentence very much, because the labels you put on others may affect a person's life.
We grew up with a variety of labels, perhaps introverts or extroverts, each of which has an impact on real life. When we are in a social environment, labeling others at will is a sign of inliteracy.
Everyone lives in the evaluation and gaze of others, and the labels you put on at will may affect a person's normal life. Everyone thinks they are mature enough, but there are few people who don't care about the opinions of others. A random label that someone else puts on you may make you feel worse for the day.
When I was in college, I went to a sorority party organized by my roommates, and I met a girl who was a little unsightly, and my roommate casually said that it was really ugly, which happened to be heard by the girl's roommate. And then throughout the party, I felt like those two girls were constantly looking at my roommates.
At the time, I was still a little confused, but I realized afterwards that what he said at that time really had a great impact on others, and maybe also affected him to find a partner on his own.
I agree with the saying don't just label someone else, no one likes to be labeled. I've always been an introvert since I was a kid, but when I went to college, I suddenly became more extroverted, and I don't know why. I don't think I've been introverted since I was a child, but everyone around me said I was introverted, and then I was full of introverts, so I became introverted in my life.
People are actually like this, if you care about what others think, then what others think of you will slowly become the real you. Labeling others in real life is actually an act of changing others with your own thoughts.
I guess it's immoral, and we shouldn't do that.
Everyone has their own path in life, and to walk on this path, we will always be labeled by many people. However, not labeling others in social interactions may make you a popular person.
You can decide your own path in life, but don't interfere with other people's lives with your own thoughts.
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I very much agree with this sentence, if you label someone at will, then it may make the other person feel very disappointed.
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I agree with that. And I think this sentence is particularly reasonable. Because we simply can't understand others. So you can't label someone else.
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Identity. In social networking, everyone is unique and different. And everyone doesn't like others to point fingers at them behind their backs. So, in social interactions, please don't label others randomly.
Ordinary. It was the same time when I chased you.
As long as you love her, don't care about anything else, cherish her well!!
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