How should the mouth of the elder brother and sister be taught?

Sex education is very necessary, even if it is a brother and sister, you must pay attention to keeping a distance, you can't have this kind of intimate behavior at will, you can tell them that this kind of behavior is not allowed, and your sister's mouth can't just kiss a man, as an older brother, you have to learn to protect your sister!

This matter can be big or small, the key is to find out what my brother thinks.

If he is young and just imitates and doesn't know what kissing is, then it is very easy to educate.

If he is old enough and his sister's mouth is sexually impulsive, then he must be educated well.

The mode of getting along between couples should be like two hedgehogs, which can keep each other warm without piercing each other and keep an appropriate distance.

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Nothing, brother and sister if they are very young. Under six or seven years old. You don't have to take it too seriously, you can tell him that your brother and sister can kiss your face but not your mouth.

The child will understand. Isn't that something taboo either? Parents can just tell their children about it.

If it is some ordinary toy, or something delicious, the parents will definitely buy two servings, so it is okay to let the younger siblings eat or play first.

If it is something bought for an older brother or sister, the younger brother and sister must rush to use it, and the younger brother and sister must reason with him and let him know the truth and problems. Whether it's your own things or someone else's things, you can't grab them.

If it is something that the elder brother or sister gets first, if the elder brother is willing to play with the younger sibling, he can let the younger sibling if it is something more important to the elder brother or sister, and he must be taught the rules and reasons for the first come, first served.

Whether it is an older brother or sister or a younger brother or sister, you must know how to be humble, and you must tell your younger brothers and sisters the knowledge of Kong Pao Zao Rong Rang Pear.

Because some parents don't have to love one of them, then there will be deviations in the gains and losses, which will lead to some parents must let their older brothers and sisters let their younger siblings not talk about the reasons, just because of this preference, the older siblings and younger siblings do not get along very well.

First of all, this concept is a subtle inner hurt for children who are elders. Maybe your parents are casually saying that you have to let your younger siblings because they are younger than you. But this sends a negative message to the elder child – that the parents favor younger siblings, and I am not watching.

The psychological damage this causes to children is enormous. Children who grow up in this environment will invisibly increase the estrangement from their parents, and children will think that their parents do not care about them. This can create more insecurities for the child.

Especially those children who are not good at communication are not concerned at school and do not feel the attention of their parents at home, which is a huge psychological trauma for children. Over time, the child's personality is different, but the parents are not aware of it at all, so that in the end, tragedy occurs, and it is already too late. Some people may question that it is impossible for an elderly child to have such a scary outcome for his younger siblings.

Indeed, because of this concept, there are indeed few tragedies, but that does not mean that there are none. In reality, there have indeed been tragic incidents of hurting younger siblings in order to compete for the attention of parents, and it is necessary to prevent it. In addition, there is no doubt that this concept will slowly become a psychological trauma for the child and will slowly accumulate into the child's negative emotions.

In the end, in the face of this perception, how to correct it is the key. This belief has a long history in China, and among most Chinese parents, it is so ingrained that it is difficult to change. However, that doesn't mean it can't be changed.

Parents, schools, and society can work together to change this. Parents are the most critical link, because parents are the first teachers of children, and they are also the most important companions of children during their growth. If parents do not instill in their children who are elders from an early age the concept that "big must let the young", and do not instill in their younger siblings the concept that "older brothers and sisters will let you".

It is to educate children, whether they are older brothers and sisters, or younger brothers and sisters, to help each other and be humble to each other, rather than blindly humble, and endless humility is called "doting".

In the family, whether the elder siblings have to let the younger siblings depend on the specific situation, and cannot be generalized. Parents should educate their brothers and sisters to let their younger brothers and sisters do have some younger brothers and sisters, but at the same time, they should also educate their younger brothers and sisters to respect their brothers and sisters, and respect is mutual.

Harmonious family relationships.

It's about brothers and sisters giving to each other. If you only emphasize that the older siblings should let the younger siblings let the younger siblings, regardless of whether the younger siblings talk and behave excessively, this is undoubtedly a kind of moral kidnapping of the children, and the excessive favoritism of the younger children will not only fail to achieve the purpose of family harmony, but will also increase the hatred of the older children towards the younger children, connive at the behavior of the younger children to develop a selfish and selfish character, and will be dissatisfied with the partiality of their parents when they grow up.

On the contrary, if the older children are allowed to bully the small, it is inevitable that the older children will not bully the small with the big outside, and they will inevitably become troublemakers at school, which will affect the mental health of the younger children.

It's also not good to be in an oppressed environment for a long time, which is not good for the formation of character.

In short, parents must be sensible, distinguish between right and wrong, uphold the principle of fairness and justice to deal with the relationship between children, affirm what should be affirmed, criticize what should be criticized, and at the same time be responsible for being a parent, do a good job, if you only raise and do not teach, it will harm the child.