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Buddhism talks about cause and effect, but ordinary people can't see the connection between cause and effect in past and present lives.

As long as we follow the teachings of Buddhism, we can actively stop evil and cultivate good, be filial to our relatives and respect our teachers, and help others, we will definitely be able to improve our character and thus our destiny.

If you want to know cause and effect, see "The Three Worlds Cause and Effect Text".

It is advisable to start by reading books on male psychology. Learn more about their personality traits and behavioural traits. You won't be afraid.

If you want to get married, please recite the name of Nam Mu Avalokiteshvara--- always recite the name of the Bodhisattva with respect.

Are you not very athletic? Playing more sports will change your personality, and it will be easier to communicate with men, increasing the chances of communication.

Good friends, the most fundamental thing is to confuse ignorance. Whether it's cheerful or withdrawn, it's okay, the world tends to think that this is good, that is not good, why should you use this standard to hinder yourself, if you study Buddhism sincerely, face everything honestly, and be clear and reasonable. I wish you good luck at six o'clock!

As Brother Ren said above, you are very smart, because you know that your problem is **, and you also know that it is related to your childhood.

First, you have to think about it, it's because I'm acting weirdly that people ignore me. Or do I think I'm acting weird and people ignore me? Also, is it true that people are ignoring me, or do I take it for granted that others are ignoring me? Or is it because I ignore people?

Second, make at least a few good sisters, buddies are fine. Remember, think good, don't think bad, you have to be sincere, and people can deliver it to you sincerely. Think more about other people's goodness.

Third, my own experience, with my own tablemates, the few around me, the relationship is good, it's almost the same. In high school, many people are focused on studying. So, don't mind too much. By the way, you said that you are tall and play basketball, which is an advantage.

Fourth, don't dare to look directly into the eyes, especially boys. This can be practiced. In elementary school and junior high school, I still blush when I talk to boys, hehe.

When I saw a boy in high school, my head was always lowered. This is because we are not confident enough, and in addition, we are too focused on ourselves, thinking that everyone else is paying attention to us. Actually, when you think about it, you think too much.

It's ridiculous, I'm in the gymnasium, and when I go out, it's almost all boys, and at first, I always bow my head. Later, somehow, I looked up and found that, actually, it was nothing, no one knew me. Hey, it feels good.

Moreover, I am also a little confident. At first, it will be blushing, then it will be red, and it will not be in the future.

Come on!!! Conquer the ego!! Believe, wonderful. It's true. Fate is unfair to us, we have to fight back to fate with happiness, let him see that we are not so easy to defeat.

The family factors and the social environment in which you live at an early age cause you to feel inferior, withdrawn and insecure. It makes you always vigilant of others in the freshman environment, causing people around you to think that you are a difficult to contact and withdrawn girl.

To change the status quo, you first have to start with yourself. Try to relax and smile more often. Look each other in the eye when you speak, participate in more activities, and make more like-minded friends.

I read the previous paragraph and the last point of your words, I want to tell you that before college, I was also the kind of person you said, except for a few good friends who can speak, I basically don't say anything else, I don't dare to look at people's faces, and I am also dissatisfied with myself. If you are dissatisfied, maybe I won't answer your questions, dissatisfied is dissatisfied, but I can realize that I am not enough, I graduated from high school and went to college, I thought, this is an opportunity, no one knows anyone in college, I have to change, it can be said to be a starting point, I tried to take the initiative to talk to the people around me, I was still embarrassed at first, but I persevered, cheekily said, and gradually found that it is not difficult to talk to people. You don't think so seriously, you just haven't encountered this kind of "starting point", and when you do, consciously change yourself.

Also, others ignore you, there is no need to be so depressed, you show liveliness, and people will like to talk to you. Be confident, that's a turning point in growth.

I sympathize with you, and I know that your heart is hard to open for so long. I have some experience of this.

I don't think it's realistic to change it right away, and it doesn't work well.

After all, it happened to you, I can't help much, I can only guide you step by step and comfort you, if you are willing to talk to me, you can leave me a word, I am very willing.

How to change your withdrawn personality and dislike to communicate with others? This is the only way to clear up the confusion!

Karma. Change for good.

The reason is your past and even past life's karma.

Girls don't have to speak first, boys should find the topic first.

You just need to relax, just like usual, say whatever you want, it's as simple as that, the key is practice.

Everything in the world is it"Act"The contact between the Dharma and the Dharma is called"edge"At the same time, a new law is generated, and the new law is a good law, and what returns to the origin of the cause is a good retribution, and what is an evil law that returns to the origin is an evil retribution.

That is to say, there are many individual differences between two people, such as world view, aesthetics, outlook on life, values, are different, and the character is a little withdrawn, not easy to approach, and does not know how to get along with others, so the relationship between two people cannot be established, although there is a fate to know, but the result is not good!

Life is inseparable from communication, only in communication, can we understand ourselves, develop ourselves, experience the joys, sorrows and sorrows of life, meet psychological needs, and better adapt to society.

Relationships are necessary at all stages of life. Learning to socialize and make friends is especially important for secondary school students.

Through communication, you can achieve spiritual communication, find emotional sustenance, get rid of loneliness, and maintain a happy mood.

Through communication, friends can learn from each other's strengths and weaknesses and improve themselves.

Friends help us overcome difficulties and setbacks.

I think that cause and effect are the basic laws, and they exist unconditionally in the worldly law. It can be slightly changed due to the change of heart: the so-called big things are small, and small things are turned into small things, but the karma cannot be changed. That's what it means.

It is common to see some monks on the Internet saying, "All dharmas are empty, but cause and effect are not empty", which is very negotiable. Just ask:

Does cause and effect belong to all laws, or do they not belong to all laws? So this sentence is logically problematic. The former of these two sentences refers to the metaphysical, and the latter refers to the metaphysical, and the two sentences cannot be said together.

Shakyamuni Buddha, after becoming a Buddha, there is also retribution such as back pain and headache. So, cause and effect do exist unconditionally, and they can be mitigated to some extent by enlightenment.

Since it is a basic law, that is, it exists both subjectively and objectively, but there is no absoluteness in everything, especially from the perspective of "heart", the so-called idealism is changed by knowledge, for example, if someone accumulates virtue and does good deeds in the previous life, and is born in a rich and noble family in this life, this is cause and effect, but if this person does not rejoice in wealth and wealth, but thinks that it is distress, then this is a change, and for example, if someone was stingy in the previous life, and in this life he will be rewarded for poverty, but if this person is willing to be poor and does not envy the luxurious life, then this person will not suffer because of thisIsn't that the change?

Although this is idealism, but the fact is that many sharp brothers with mental problems wandering on the street, wearing tattered clothes, hair and beard are sticky together, with a thick face of black ash, what to eat depends on what is in the garbage heap, where to sleep, you will think that he is very bitter when you see it, but for him, maybe our spirit is abnormal, so the cause and effect are not empty, but the reaction is on the 'heart', but they are different.

All laws are empty, and cause and effect are not empty. Cause and effect are the laws of nature.

Cause and effect is a big concept, and the change of the mind is also in it, and good intentions, like good deeds, belong to good causes, and cause and effect itself is a basic law.

The law of nature has a cause and must have an effect.