How can I forget my boyfriend who has been in love for 4 years?

My girlfriend has been with me since my freshman year.

It's been almost seven years, and everything is ready in my family, just waiting to get married.

But it was at this time that she betrayed.

Only those who have experienced these things have the feeling of having a heart twisted like a knife.

But time really dilutes everything.

I remember when I first broke up, I was in a trance all day and didn't know what to do.

I know to listen to those very sad songs.

My heart was broken when I heard it, and I often wanted to cry.

Suddenly one day, I listened to those sad songs.

I don't seem to feel it anymore, maybe I'm really better than I used to be.

Nothing is impossible in the world.

There's nothing you can't let go, it's just your own mentality.

Don't panic, now that fate has passed, there is no need for us to force it anymore. Since he doesn't belong to you, you should forget about him and stop thinking about him, which will make you even more sad. You can be optimistic and wake up every morning and say out loud "Today will be better!"

It's important to be in a good mood. I wish you a good mood soon

If I had to tell me realistically, don't believe what he says at the surface.

The origin and extinction of the edge, the strength of the edge is weak, and the gathering of the fate is scattered, all because of nature.

I'm a man!

How could there be such an irresponsible man! I really want to teach him a lesson!

Everything he says to you is an excuse! Excuse!

I think. If you really love someone. Then even if the sky falls, I won't give up...

It's not worth it. You don't deserve to ask questions for such a person to come here! He is even less worthy of your love.

The same is a man. I despise him! Since you don't love it, you can say it directly. Man. Dare to hate and dare to love. Why do you make so many excuses.!!

Sister. Forget about him!

Appearance. Letter. I. You. Yes. Luck. Blessed.!

His current girlfriend is more beautiful than you, who is rich? If she is prettier than you and richer than you, then you should give up this negative man and find a man who really loves you and is excellent, but if he also loves you, if it is really embarrassing, you just think about it, if he has a bad job and no money, and the women who are married now are all mother-in-law and father-in-law who have a house by themselves, and they and their wives buy another house, and they live with their mother-in-law and father-in-law, and you don't have a house, will you ever have a relationship with him? If you can't do it, then forgive him for abandoning you for his parents In short, you were good with him because you loved him and you planned to be with him for the rest of your life, so you are very pitiful, why can the most true love in this world never meet the most sincere response?

Forget about him, there's something better waiting for you.

Find another one better than him!

Take your attention off him, find some friends to hang out, or surf the Internet or something, anyway, you will keep yourself busy, and fall asleep when you are tired, so that you don't have time to think about him.

It is often said that the way to forget a relationship is to start a new one. I've always felt that this is not right, it is a sign of irresponsibility to yourself and your next half. Don't start a new relationship before you have forgotten your ex.

You can travel outside and get in touch with some new things, so that you will forget the pain brought to you by your previous relationship.

This kind of thing can't be persuaded by others, and only by really letting go can he completely forget him. You can try to forget about him by working, making new friends, traveling, etc.

Find another one that you love, there is never a way to delete, only to replace it, which is the same as deleting files on the computer, replacing is always more complete than deleting.

First of all, I think you need to make the most of your life, and you can make a daily itinerary according to your interests, such as: reading, studying, pottery, etc. In short, don't let yourself be idle.

It is indeed difficult to completely forget a person, let alone a boyfriend who has been with him for many years, and a long-term intimate relationship will indeed be impressive, so he can only choose to let go slowly.

The way to forget the old love is to have a new love in addition to time. You can try to change yourself and put your mind to your career and dressing up. Find a boyfriend to experience it again.

The best way is to start a new relationship, as long as you have a new lover, then you will not think about your previous boyfriend again.

I think it's okay to find a new boyfriend to divert your attention, and you can also do more things not to let yourself be idle, and at the same time to convince yourself.

Don't want to forget someone.

In the world of emotions, no one can force themselves, and the feeling of the heart is the most important.

The people who miss with their hearts can't be together, and they are very lost.

But true love is about making each other happier!

Don't force yourself to forget the past, let go of the hand liquid mill, and let Cong Zhao thoughts spread.

It's hard to try to forget someone.

What does it mean to forget?

Many years later, when you meet by chance, or mention this person, or receive his greetings, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

But it's hard to do, especially when you forget someone you once loved dearly.

To deliberately forget is to forget.

Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level.

So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget about Zheng Douji at all, one day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget him.

Dear landlord.

Glad for your question.

Forget. A heartache ...

In the end, forgetting the past is deceiving yourself and others, and as long as you have a little bit of something that can be related to the past, you can't forget the past. Don't run away, it's useless to regret ...

Isn't there a saying that says? You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in a day, but forget someone in a lifetime... That's love!

Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, let everything tend to be flat, what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think, as time goes by, it will slowly fade away... Instead of trying to forget, it is better to keep yourself busy, to make your life full, and to let yourself have no time to miss.

Don't deliberately forget, if you deliberately will only make yourself remember more ... Try to expand your circle of friends and contact as many people as possibleTry to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role.

I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of it again, your heart will no longer hurt, and it turns out that unconsciously, it has become"That person"。。。

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun...

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

Feel more about his bad things and behaviors towards you, his viciousness towards you, why you broke up, these factors come together, you will forget this man, love is to be happy, not to live in pain, pack up your mood, and get ready to meet the right person.

Hello, I'm Ziwei, an emotional assistant; Five years of relationship is enough to imprint each other deeply in your heart, it must be very uncomfortable to separate your psychology, it must take a long time to get out, I want to tell you that the best way is actually time and new love. But this is not the most efficient.

Ask how to forget.

Question age: 21 years old, broke up on September 3, he raised.

Secondly, are you working or going to school now?

Ask how to put it away at work.

Answer: Actually, I have also broken up, I can understand your sad mood now, from time to time you will fall into a sad mood, first of all, we must realize that the breakup is already a fact, no matter how uncomfortable the psychology is, we must accept it slowly, and secondly, don't force yourself too much, give yourself some time, don't be too yourself, and allow yourself to be sad and sad, this is a normal emotional expression, can you understand?

Secondly, time, new love, socializing, work, fitness, studying, reading, chasing dramas, etc. are all good ways to divert attention, which can be interspersed with a trial, and the most important thing is to do psychological construction for yourself.

If you don't have the means to counsel yourself, or if you feel like you need to talk to people around you, we can help you.

Think about the reason for your separation, you won't feel so distressed, and then find a love of your own again.

Do more other things to keep yourself busy, such as learning to stir-fry when you have nothing to do, learning to draw, all of which can make you forget about your boyfriend.

Time will tell you soon, all you have to do is wait slowly, he will always be forgotten by you at some point.

You can find a boyfriend again, start your new life again, don't always live in the past, everything will pass.

If you want to forget about having three boyfriends, I think changing to another boyfriend is the best way to divert your attention.

To divert your attention and keep yourself busy, so that there is no time to think about him. Look for a chance to start a new relationship.

I think you can make yourself full every day, read more books, do sports, and don't think about it.

Starting a new relationship as soon as possible is the best way to forget about an old one. The past is gone, there is no point in indulging, everything in life is a principle: look forward.

You can go on a trip to divert your attention, or you can try to start a new relationship and stop thinking about your boyfriend from three years ago.

Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

I know, it's not a taste. I used to be just like you, and unlike you, I was more selfish. I feel annoyed when I'm together, and I miss him desperately when I'm not together. That's why I'm always dividing and merging.

Later, he couldn't stand it anymore and really left me.

It was hard at first, but I knew that he wasn't going to be the other half of the future, so I kept thinking about him. I've been single for about 3 years, and I don't want to fall in love.

With the help of time, that feeling fades, and then it is a matter of waiting for another person to show up.

It's painful, but as long as you're busy, it's not a difficult thing, you can just bear it, in fact, loneliness is also a kind of romance.