Why are girls all father love plots?

That's normal.

Because the first man you come into contact with is your father.

He teaches you all the qualities you need in this world.

I think the image of a father in every girl's heart should be tall, wise, and calm.

In fact, there is a saying that says: A father's love is like a mountain, and a mother's love is like water.

The father himself is for his children to worship and respect.

And the mother is something we don't usually feel important.

But once you lose it, you will find that the greatness of mother's love is like the water in life.

In fact, boys feel the same way about their fathers as girls do.

I adored my father!!

It's normal, generally speaking, boys love their mothers, and girls love their fathers. These are the nature of human beings. It's just that men generally can't show it.

Maybe it's because the person a girl has the most contact with when she is a child is her father, and the person most admired by most girls when they are young is their father, she will compare all people with her father, and when she grows up, she will hope that she will find someone who loves her like her father. Haven't you heard? The father is the lover of the daughter in her previous life.

Hehe. Normal, can you be sure that your love is more than her father's love for her? Let's understand her.

No, it's a great, very secure feeling.

The reason why boys are like moms and girls are like dads in the character!

Like-sex repels each other, opposites attract.

How do you feel that boys have mother-love plots? Is it because of a girlfriend? Is a girlfriend's love like a mother's love?

It seems that only women are qualified to express their opinions on this issue, and it is better for men to avoid it!

It's not all girls, I don't

Why do some girls have father-love plots, and what causes them?

One of the reasons why girls develop paternal complexes is because of the lack of paternal love, or because they like men who are as tall as their fathers and can protect themselves. A girl from a single-parent family will be especially reluctant to rely on her father, because in addition to her father, she has no one to rely on, she will subconsciously draw the warmth of family affection from her father, and the image of the performance is inseparable from her father's hand, which is the father-love complex, for children from single-parent families, father's love is very important.

Psychological research has found that there are two trajectories in the formation of father-love complex: one is that father-daughter complex mostly appears in families where father and daughter depend on each other, or father and daughter are too close and mother and daughter are not close enough, which is an objective environmental reason. The second is that the personality of the paternal complex is mostly introverted, and most of them are squeamish, brutal, and willful, which is the reason for the subjective personality.

The crux of the father-lover complex is that the daughter is unable to achieve psychological separation from the father, and even some daughters are adults and still ask to sleep in the same bed with their father, the result is often very bad, not only will hinder the normal interaction between the girl and the man of the same age and even marriage and love, even after marriage, the relationship between the husband and wife is difficult to deepen; It will also affect the father's marriage, and it may also lead to family tragedy.

Everyone's view of love is different, some people like lively and cheerful objects, some people like humorous and funny, and some people like silence is golden, no matter what kind of love concept, as long as you truly love each other, you can blossom and bear fruit. Girls have father-love plots, what do you think about this?

1. Such a girl may not feel her father's love when she was young.

There are some girls who like boys who are older than themselves, and the difference between the two is seven or eight years old or teens, and girls feel very down-to-earth together. This may have a lot to do with the fact that when the girl was young, her father went out to work and took little care of herself, so when she grew up, she wanted to have a boy like her father to take care of her. In other words, when girls are young, they live in single-parent families, and they have always been dependent on their mothers, and they lack the important role of their fathers in their lives, so they are particularly eager to have their father's love in their hearts, so when girls are looking for a partner, they will outline the image of their father in their hearts, hoping that the other party will love them.

Second, as a boyfriend, you should especially pamper such a girl and give her enough security.

The reason why girls have such thoughts, in fact, is related to their insecurity, she is afraid of being with young boys, does not cherish herself, does not know how to take care of herself, and is afraid of being hurt, therefore, girls always hope to find some older boys in their hearts, because older boys know how to be more considerate, experience more things, and have more experience, so they are not so reckless. If a boy meets such a girl, he must take care of her, love her, and pamper her, so that the girl feels that her boyfriend is so perfect, so masculine, and manly, the girl will feel very down-to-earth, very relaxed, and he will love the boy more, and such two people are also a good match.

It shows that this person is insecure, and it may also be that this girl is a single-parent family, so there is such a plot.

It may be that this girl lacks some fatherly love, so she has such a father-love complex, or it may be that she left some shadows in her heart when she was young.

Yesterday I chatted with a friend and listened to her say that her view of mate choice has changed from a domineering president to an obedient younger brother, but instead thinking about her own view of mate choice has also changed to a gentle and considerate type, it would be best if she could be ten to twenty years older than me. He never denied that he had a father-love complex. I thought it was a change in the three views, but I suddenly found that the reason for the state end of the pyramid was a change in personality.

Women can have a paternal complex because fathers are usually less demanding of their daughters than their sons. Think about it, when women enter a relationship, the lovers they get along with usually have some kind of resemblance to their father in some way. It makes sense to think that the first man a woman comes into contact with is her father, and so do men.

What happens if a woman grows up without a father and a man without a mother?

Take myself as an example, I didn't live with my parents since I was a child, I grew up in my grandmother's house, my father was busy doing business, making money to support the family, and I didn't feel my father's love in my childhood, but my heart was very eager to get my father's love, forming a kind of psychological expectation;

I am more attracted to the kind looking, warm-hearted, amiable father-like uncles, in whom I feel that I can get the fatherly love that I have been lacking all along, if not what I imagined, at least better than the current situation. I was more of a sustenance for them, and I didn't want to have sex.

Until he reaches the age of choosing a mate, he also hopes that his other half can take care of himself like his father, and he likes the calm and funny of a middle-aged uncle and can take care of people;

"Father-lover" is not an unsightly thing, it just shows that we are psychologically attached to our father for a longer period of time and to a deeper extent than ordinary people; more eager to be cared for and pampered;

Meow Meow, who has a father-lover plot, sent a marriage notice by the way, hahaha.

Requirements: An uncle like the male protagonist in "My Physical Education Teacher".