I m 29 years old, how do I adjust my mentality?

On a blind date, you have to understand that if two people are not in love with each other at first sight, it is a process of slowly understanding and gradually becoming familiar with each other, in this process, both parties will slowly understand the character and past of both parties, so if there is emotion, you can have, but don't cause trouble to the other party, now you just like his good job, and he doesn't know much about his character or personality, if you don't want to communicate when you're in a bad mood, talk about it when you're in a bad mood! In this way, you can not only see your true state, but also see the attitude of the other party! However, if you want to leave a good impression on the other party, it is better to have a more positive attitude towards life, and the other party is also observing you while you choose the other party!

A 31-year-old woman, unmarried, I hope this premise can make you less anxious. And then come your question:

1.Whether he works well or not has nothing to do with you, no matter how much money he makes, he is not willing to spend it on you, it is all in vain; 2.Feelings that have been hurt can't be a reason to distrust you.

You are an individual and you are both equal. I don't even have basic trust, and I don't have to talk about anything later. Is it because he is afraid that he has been hurt emotionally, and he makes you cut off contact with all the opposite sex, and you have to cut it off?

3.Not married yet, you are in charge of your work, you can ask each other's opinions, but it's not your business; 4.He said he didn't feel anything about you, and I think this is normal, at least the other party didn't lie to you.

If you don't want the other party to hold your hand, say it openly, after all, it is quite appropriate to have physical contact with the other party when you have not established an intimate relationship, and it is disgusting, I am a woman, I can understand, even if you have established a relationship, you have to take it step by step; 5.When you need to spend money when you go out to eat, don't always ask one party to pay, it's the same for both men and women. If he keeps doing this, I think you have to think carefully, neither side can take the other party's contribution for granted; 6.

When you are in a bad mood and want the other party to be comforted, you need guidance, you can be coquettish or say to the other party in a cute tone, shouldn't you comfort me at this time? Most of the time, a man has a tendon, you say that he will really talk later, don't expect him to understand you, what you say the other party can understand and act, besides, he is younger than you; 7.Affection is not the only thing, and age is not a reason to get married.

When you don't have a good time alone, it may be even worse when you get married. Invest in yourself, don't be anxious, keep your head above water, and keep your feet on the ground.

I think the mentality is not good. It has nothing to do with age. You can.

Think about it calmly. Bad mentality. Good for the body, bad for the body.

Therefore. You're going out. Multi-turn.

Look at the outside world. Communicate with people more. I'm in a good mood.

Mentality. changed.

It's normal to be single at the age of 29, because there are many people who are not married at the age of 29, so you shouldn't put too much pressure on yourself. Nowadays, it is a new society, even if you don't get married for the rest of your life, there will be no problem, so as long as you can accept the status of being single. Maybe parents will be more anxious at this time, but as long as they can use their strength to prove that a person can live well, parents will not overly urge to find a partner.

In fact, whether you are single, have a partner, or are married, it is just a personal state, as long as you can accept this state, it is completely feasible. Some people always feel that being single after the age of 29 is the original sin, in fact, both boys and girls have the right to choose whether they are single or start a relationship. There is no one around me who can dictate his emotional state except myself, and I hope everyone can understand this truth.

You must know that there are many people in this society who are not married, and their lives can still be as happy as ordinary people. <>

And in this new society, there are many independent women who do not desire marriage, and these girls can manage their lives very well by themselves, they can have a pet to accompany them or live with their girlfriends. This state of life makes people feel very happy, and they don't need to be bound by marriage, they don't have to be responsible for life. Therefore, finding a partner is a natural behavior, and you must not be overly impatient at this time.

When you are in love, you should enjoy the state of love, and you should enjoy the life of being single when you are single, no matter when you have troubles, so don't always worry about finding a partner when you are single. And the matter of finding a partner is originally to depend on fate, and after fate comes, it can't be stopped, and it makes no sense to worry about it when fate doesn't come, just treat it with a flat mind.

You must understand that you can live well if you are single, it is not that you have no way to carry out your future life without getting married, but also to find the joy of being single, and in the process of being single, you can make more friends.

Before you meet someone you like, you should improve yourself, let your economic foundation reach certain conditions, and then go on a blind date after your house and job are stable, and then enter the palace of marriage.