As parents, how do you get your children to accept Chinese culture?

After the arrival of adolescence, children gradually become independent, and their thinking ability is gradually enhanced, at this time parents should increase their children's hands-on practice opportunities, visit historic sites and humanities, and expand their horizons. ‍‍

Parents should live a natural life in order to influence their children, so that children can also accept the concept of naturalism and live happily for a lifetime. Chinese culture is the culture of worshipping nature.

Interest is cultivated, no child is born with a penchant for literacy, playing the piano, now most parents have not read these classics of Chinese culture when they were young, and have not developed good reading habits, no parents lead by example, there is no role model for learning at home, and children are naturally not interested.

There are many aspects of Chinese culture, such as piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, etc., and children can cultivate these hobbies from an early age.

Listen to nursery rhymes, there are some nursery rhymes in them, and nursery rhymes contain a part of Chinese culture.

I usually let my children watch some documentaries about traditional culture, so that they can feel the charm of traditional culture.

Accompany your child to memorize ancient poems, the story contains a lot of Chinese culture, as a parent, pay a little time, you can drive your child.

You can accompany your child to read books on traditional culture and learn with your child, so that your child will be motivated.

How can mothers let their children have more contact with traditional culture in their lives? I think the reason why we feel tricky about this aspect is that we ourselves are a generation of cultural disconnects, and we don't learn much about the traditional classics. In life, there are not many traces of traditional customs left.

Many of them, like me, grew up in a culturally barren environment, and then came into contact with a lot of Western culture, and were greatly influenced. Now, when we are thinking about how to raise children, in fact, the first thing we need to do is to learn more by ourselves and make up for our homework, so that we can really have the ability and capital to choose trade-offs.

Myself, after receiving a lot of Western education, I went back to study the traditional classics, and my experience is that the traditional Chinese culture contains the most precious wisdom of human beings. It is said that it is all bad, and most of the time it is because you don't know much about traditional culture, and the depth of learning is not enough, so you can only understand it literally.

The significance of traditional culture for each of us is not to make a living, but to help us learn how to achieve personal growth from a small point of view, how to look at various encounters in life from a more intelligent perspective, and how to live in a flexible and harmonious way with the world around us.

In short, it teaches us how to cultivate our minds, improve our wisdom in life, and make ourselves a person with peace of mind. If you learn a lot, you will find that the content taught by Western religions, spirituality, self-help success, and various life coaches, spiritual mentors, etc., is often similar to what the ancient Chinese described in the traditional scriptures.

How can parents let their children get more exposure to traditional culture in their lives? So, this is perhaps more important than all the other specific skills to learn. That is what we often say, the important thing is to learn to be a person, followed by learning knowledge and learning.

If you have spare energy, you will learn literature". The core thing determines the direction that leads to success and happiness. The various skills on the surface only determine the speed of travel, not the direction.

The value of traditional culture to us also lies in the fact that it represents a cultural code. In fact, parents don't have to worry about whether they should let their children come into contact with it, because as long as it is the blood of the Chinese nation, then traditional things are deeply rooted in our cultural genes, and they cannot be abandoned if they want to. This is what we often call cultural roots.

Through contact with traditional culture and traditional customs, we have more opportunities to connect and communicate with the ancients, not only for the inheritance of culture, but also for the soul of each of us, will benefit from this, and the understanding, acceptance, and connection of our ancestors will make our hearts more settled and calm. This foundation will help us to be ourselves better and grow better.

1. Enroll your child in some courses that he or she is interested in, and respect the child's learning characteristics and learning rules. Let the children understand and experience the Chinese culture of the expo hall. 2. Popularize the knowledge of traditional culture to children and teach them traditional Chinese culture.

Take the children to pretend to be blind at night some traditional rental games, guess lantern riddles, ancient poems, etc., and learn traditional classics. 3. Teach by word and deed, and take children to perceive traditional culture in a festive atmosphere.

Parents should encourage their children more in their lives, and then they should also set a good example for their children, create a good family atmosphere for their children, and let their children have more contact with traditional Chinese culture.

You can tell your child some historical allusions, let your child watch some documentaries, read some books about traditional Fengnian culture, and take your child to some places of interest with profound cultural heritage to play, so that children can feel the power of traditional culture more deeply. Sail base.

The ideological origin of China's advocacy of preschool early education comes from the Confucian philosophy of "original" and "cautious". Therefore, China has always attached importance to early family education for children, and even advocated the "law of prenatal education" to lay a good foundation for the development of children's life.

Among them, the education of preschool children should be carried out in accordance with scientific laws and must be suitable for the physical and psychological characteristics of children. This is also reflected in the traditional tutoring culture in our country. Confucius put forward the idea that "if you want to hurry, you can't reach it".

Children's temperament, personality, interests and other personality traits are different, and parents should educate their children differently. During the Spring and Autumn Period, Confucius adopted the educational method of "teaching students according to their aptitude".

To do the education of traditional culture, you can start with some festivals, such as the Mid-Autumn Festival, Dragon Boat Festival, Flower Dynasty Festival, Zhongyuan Festival, etc., and hold some activities during such festivals to improve children's attention to traditional culture.

In addition, in normal times, you can take your children to some ancient capital cultural cities, traditional culture museums, and even take your children to experience the work and life of traditional craftsmen. I'm sure kids will enjoy their playful nature.

Finally, for daily games, on the one hand, you can find some traditional folk games to play, and tell the children the stories behind the games while playing. On the other hand, it's about innovating yourself. By the way, children love to listen to stories, so you can find some carriers of traditional culture and then tell them stories.

Tradition is practiced, is the accumulation of bit by bit, it changes our temperament and heart, not to know a few traditional Chinese characters can be understood. How can people be comfortable and maintain vigorous pursuits, it is not necessary to have the ambition to win over others. Each era has its own characteristics and directions.

On the one hand, many parents are eager for their children to accept the influence of traditional culture, on the other hand, they do not want their children to "fall behind" in real life, the best way to solve this anxiety may be as Mr. Zhang Dachun said, parents should also learn, grow up with their children, and appropriately include the tradition in the modern era, and pass it on to their children.

Parents can tell bedtime stories to their children from an early age, let their children understand traditional Chinese culture through storytelling, and also have some programs about traditional Chinese culture.

I think parents can make these traditional cultures easier, and by working together, children can have a new understanding of traditional culture.