Breaking Away 2 How to Break Away? Learn these points and you too can become a master of tidying u

"Breaking Away" is a book on family life written by Eiko Yamashita of Japan, first published in 2009.

The book mainly tells the concept introduced by Eiko Yamashita, a Japanese clutter management consultant: cutting off means not buying or collecting things that you don't need, and giving up means disposing of useless things piled up at home. Separation is equivalent to giving up the obsession with material things and allowing yourself to be in a spacious, comfortable, and free space.

Separation is a very popular modern home tidying method.

Hello, I'm Mr. Shizuichi.

When I was about to go to work this afternoon, I saw the canned fruit that had been sitting aside, covered with dust.

I remember seeing it when I was in the supermarket, and I really wanted to eat it, so I hesitated for a long time to buy it, but I didn't even open it after I bought it.

There is also the sports and fitness equipment I bought before, which was very cool at the moment when the order was placed.

I haven't picked it up since I actually came back.

Buying something is an impulse, and buying an object and putting it aside is a disrespect for the object. Any object that is created must want to play its value.

I just happened to see some points of disconnection before I remembered it:

Break: It is to cut off what you never need, simply put, to buy less.

Never something you need. An important way to do this is to understand the story behind the object. When you want to buy something, take the time to learn about the story or the process of making it, so that you can break it off.

It's not about buying nothing, it's about buying things we know and like.

Giving up: It is to give up the superfluous things, in simple terms, to throw away. Learn to throw away the things around you that don't suit you.

Detachment: It is to get rid of the obsession with things and not to indulge in external objects.

Detachment is a state, that is, to get rid of the obsession with things, to be able to return to one's heart, and to know what one likes. This is a state of life, and it is also a state of mind.

The core of the renunciation:

1.The protagonist of the renunciation is not the object, but the current self.

If you feel that these items are a drag at this moment, you should discard them. Therefore, the protagonist of renunciation is not the object, but you, your current life and feelings.

2.When you occupy an item, the item also occupies you.

What the renunciation reminds us is that we should not think that you occupy a lot of things, in fact, those things also occupy you, and we must choose carefully those things that accompany you.

If you choose garbage, then what accompanies you is the garbage that occupies your time and space; If you choose the boutique that makes your heart flutter, then you will be accompanied by beautiful things.

So, buy what you know and like, throw away items that are not suitable for you, return to your heart, and get rid of your obsession with things.

Nowadays, live streaming on major platforms occupies a lot of our time, and at the same time, many of us control our desire to shop.

In fact, I really recommend taking a look at the book "Breaking Away" to help us understand ourselves more clearly and sort out our lives.

1.The core of renunciation is not the object, but the self.

2.The timeline is forever. The skill of choosing an item is not whether it can be used, but whether I will use it. This must be borne in mind.

3.Know yourself, know how to let go of the past obsession, and the past self can give full play to the potential of the future.

4.The source of the idea of abandonment, life should be relaxed and refreshed, and there should be enough space for life.

5.Everything that can be kept at home must be in line with what I want to use. Items, because I need to use them, so they need to exist.

6.Cut off, cut off the desire to buy, buy, buy, and prepare for the tomb to prevent all unwanted things from entering their homes.

Abandon useless items, decisively discard, and throw them out of the house.

Leave, overcome your inner desires, get rid of your obsession with things, and let yourself be free in the space.

Objects have energy, and old objects that are not used for a long time will consume our energy.

The rule of 157 is that the invisible drawer is 7 times full, the visible cabinet is 5 times full, and the table top is 10% full.

Having a break makes you feel more worthy of choosing items that are more useful, and more accompaniment, rather than choosing because of the items.

Yesterday, I watched the second season of the third phase of the job hunting master Lu Rolling Jian, a person, only choose a 100 yuan air ticket for plane travel, and the host was stunned How can I buy such a ticket, I don't choose the region, I only choose **.

Why don't we buy something cheap but useless, or think it's useful and keep it but have no value.

Exaggerated cases are just a pendulum of our magnification, and the renunciation makes us clearer about what we want and have a greater sense of purpose.

Bookkeeping for 5 months found that paying for knowledge will make people buy a lot of useless members for no reason, attracted by those so-called privileges, and think carefully about whether that service is really what I want, maybe this is also a kind of disconnection.

1.Try to organize your own drawers at home, and organize your own drawers.

2.Clean up your room.

Excerpt from Eiko Yamashita's "Breaking Away".

Let go of a useless object and make room for it. Dispose of one excess item and reduce one burden. Reduce one waste and restore one point of energy. Then, turn the page on a new chapter in your life.

The mystery of renunciation is not just "throwing things", what is the meaning of renunciation? Cut off the desire for things, abandon the waste and collapse of the masses, and get rid of the obsession of "leaving".

Cleaning up the waste is only a stepping stone to breaking away, and when we achieve the conceptual and spiritual "breaking away", we can get a high perspective --- overlooking thinking. Wide field of view. Deep insights.

This is the true meaning of "being at ease." The way of life. On this "road", there will definitely be you who are "at ease".

Separation is not just about disposing of waste and debris. It is to awaken the breath of life that "flows" in the river of human growth that is full of a sense of closure. It has the power to rejuvenate life.

Breaking away, that is, the aesthetics of "out". If you enter, you will go out. Out, in. And then out. Influence life and enhance the "metabolic mechanism of life". Return to the true nature of Tuanhe Tachibana and take life to the next level.