I want to buy inner height shoes for my boyfriend, how can I say it?

Ask him, you must discuss with him, he is willing to do it, it doesn't matter if he doesn't want to, but also to maintain his self-esteem, but also to maintain his self-esteem out of the psychology of loving him, you think of doing this, but to show that you don't care, but maybe your parents don't understand him, afraid that in case of judging people by their appearance, wearing such shoes also shows more spirit, but be cautious when you speak, don't do bad things with good intentions, if it is me, if I feel a trace of disrespect, it is estimated that I would rather die than go to see your parents, Naturally, there are cracks in the relationship with you.

Needless to say, just buy it directly, and if you buy it, you pretend not to know that it is an inner height shoe, and you don't say how will he know what kind of shoe it is?? Maybe he found out when he wore it, hey, these shoes are not bad, they can make me look taller when they are worn, of course he won't say, maybe he will like it very much, but you should never mention this heightening thing, and don't praise him for growing taller, just achieve the goal you want, hehe!! But if your purpose is simply to get your boyfriend to be with you without losing face, it's a bit too much.

It's not a long-term solution, and no matter what you say, it will hurt his self-esteem.

Don't, don't!!

Since you love him, it means that he has advantages that you admire, so what is a little disadvantage?

Your family will eventually know that he is not tall, and instead of lying to them, let them accept it.

Honestly, if I were a man, I would be ashamed.

If the man I love is not tall, but wears heightened shoes, I will look down on him (disgusting, how can I wear such shoes), but also look down on myself (how to find such a vain person).

The shoes are worn by him, and he must know your intentions, and if everyone knows it, the problem will be solved.

You can start with a joke and then see what to do.

If he loves you and really wants to marry you, he will not be able to bear this grievance, so you can confess to him and tell him, you can't get over such a little hurdle, how will you live for the rest of your life in the future You say yes.

I don't think I should have bought it in itself. Being low is already a bit inferior...It's a complete disservice for you to do this again.

No, it's too hurtful, men want to save face the most, mm don't do it! Height is not an issue.

Don't buy it, he doesn't mind what you mind.

I'm a small man, and if my girlfriend gives me booster shoes at the beginning of our relationship, I don't feel comfortable no matter what she explains. First, when I feel that I have an inferiority complex in front of other people or in any important social activity due to my height, I will be grateful to her if she gives me a pair of height-increasing shoes at this time; Second, after we have a stable relationship, I will be willing to take love when I know she doesn't mind my height.

So I don't know what kind of situation you're in right now? If you are just starting to fall in love, or the relationship is not enough to trust him very much, it is recommended that you do not send him first, although you are kind, but kindness may not be good.

If as you said: "We have been together for more than two years, not short, and sometimes he will be a little depressed when looking for a job, so I want to send him, but I am really afraid of hurting him... He should accept it now, but it's best to see the timing before sending it, for example, when he feels confused because of his height, or before he wants to go to another job interview, this is the best time, if he sends it at this time, he will be grateful to you, but be sure to let him understand that you are helping him, not that you care about his height.

It's going to be perfect.