Now I have a new life and a boyfriend, and my ex boyfriend is back in front of me...

Updated on psychology 2024-06-10
57 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Thinking about clearing which one you love in the end, maybe now you just have a good impression of him before, mistaken for love, the previous deep love, then your current boyfriend is not deeply loved? Do you tell you that you are in love with two men at the same time? It's hard for you to choose right now, but your ex-boyfriend also had a woman by his side when you fell in love with him, and if that woman didn't leave him, would he come to you?

    Did he choose the same mood as you are now? You've thought it through!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Love him!? Go back to him! However, the woman who turns back rarely has good fruit to eat, you have to think clearly.

    Whether to cherish the present or go back, but it is an extremely difficult decision, but once you have decided, you must not take regret medicine, I heard that this medicine does not taste very good. Hee-hee! 1

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you are doing well now and have a good relationship with your boyfriend, I advise you to cherish what you have now! You said that he would also affect your mood, and I think it was also temporary, and time would dilute everything.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I had a similar experience with you and hesitated for a long time.

    Later, a friend told me a word.

    Don't hurt a man who has hurt you before, hurt the man who loves you now".

    I chose, my future boyfriend, and we are happy and married.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First love is for reminiscence!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Whatever you do, I'm here to support you, because I see that you really loved, and probably still do.

    But there was a second person next to him, so he could do it himself.

    Just bless him secretly, don't approach him.

    This is already a betrayal of love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hehe, these are their business, I think it's better not to interfere. That girl has a bad style, and sooner or later she will show her feet, so don't worry. There are no airtight walls.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If it's me, I'll say that maybe I'll get myself in trouble, maybe he'll misunderstand you, but I'll also say, after all, ......

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What's the matter with you, they all broke up, this is a punishment for him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Beware of being misunderstood as a dismantling family.

    Pay for one's whistle. It's better not to do such stupid things.

    Now that we've broken up.

    It's none of your business what happens to him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can also have style problems with me!!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Loving someone gives rise to this kind of thinking.

    Your husband doesn't want you to have any contact with your ex-boyfriend, and he is afraid of losing you, so he wants to cut off all possibilities.

    Believing in you is not letting you go.

    Think about it from another perspective, when your husband says that he lives with another woman and is pure and has no relationship, will you believe it? Wouldn't it be disgusting?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's better to delete the ex-boyfriend in the QQ friends.

    My boyfriend also asked me to delete my ex-friend's QQ, and I didn't agree at first, so the two of them had an awkward quarrel for a few days, and then he didn't mention it again. It wasn't until he mentioned it again a long time later that I thought about it and deleted him. It's said that it's an ex-boyfriend, so don't have any nostalgia, it's not a matter of despair.

    If you quarrel with your boyfriend, your first reaction is to find your ex-boyfriend, then you should think about it, the relationship between the two people should slowly run in, if you find your ex-boyfriend every time, then what is your husband? It's not a question of whether he believes you or not, and besides, if you really love your husband, what if you delete a QQ? Think about it, what would you do if your husband contacted his ex-girlfriend again and again?

    Feel free to get them in touch? You are used to deleting chat records in the eyes of your husband, and it is a bit of a thief to say that it doesn't sound good!

    I hope you are happy

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you watch a TV series, your situation is like a Hong Kong drama.

    If it's mine, cut it off, resolutely.

    You can't be too greedy, you will gain and lose.

    I think that if your husband is not disgusted by your behavior, it means that he ...... youof tendencies.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, you already have the answer in your heart, but you are still hesitating. Personally, I think you should pay more attention to your husband's feelings, no matter how big a man is, there are times when he is small. After all, it is your husband who lives with you, and it is the two of you who are happy and happy together to create a new life.

    Let him pass in style.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You should be fine.

    Bai cherishes the happiness now, and Du is your husband zhi This is your one.

    The most important person in the life of the dao, he is the person who accompanies him in the second half of his life, the priorities should be clear, the husband he cares very much, saying that he doesn't know how to love you, this is an early warning, don't care, girl, when he really dies, it's too late. I advise you not to contact you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Go with the flow, bai don't deliberately go to find your ex-boyfriend, zhi or deliberately cut off contact, just dao like you said that you are already a normal friend, you are not afraid of shadows, you can communicate well with your husband, say what you really think, if he still cares a lot, then you don't want to contact your ex-boyfriend, just let time dilute everything!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Cut off a man who understands a little bit if you love someone else and empathizes.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    For now, don't contact it, after all, it is your current husband who accompanies you now, which is the most important thing, cherish your current husband. The ex-boyfriend can be friends if he has the opportunity in the future, because he is immature now.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think it should be deleted,**,QQ should be deleted,Don't stay,Don't leave anything,Cherish the person in front of you,He's not disbelieving,You should also give him enough security,Men also need it.,This is what you need to do.。

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can't be friends when you break up, because you've hurt each other, and you can't be enemies because you've hurt before. If the ex-boyfriend really loves him so much, then why did he go earlier, he should look forward when he has a new beginning, after all, his current life is so hard to cherish is the most real.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If it's really just an ex-boyfriend who is no longer nostalgic, what's the point of keeping in touch if your husband doesn't mind it, and now that he's dissatisfied, what's there to hesitate about Is it necessary to make your current lover unhappy for someone who is no longer important to your life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Everyone is selfish in love, your husband asks you not to contact because he cares about you, imagine if your husband contacts his former girlfriend, will you be angry? I still agree with your husband's point of view, and it's better to cut off contact.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If your husband keeps contacting your ex-girlfriend, are you going crazy? The current is the biggest, if you have feelings for your ex, you shouldn't contact, if you don't have feelings, then there's no need to contact.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you care about your husband's feelings, you should cut off the relationship.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    After reading so many replies, I have said everything, but I think it's not that your husband doesn't trust you, but that he lacks self-confidence.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Now that you've let go, don't let the other person appear in your life anymore. Compare your heart to heart, and you will understand your husband's mentality.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    How can someone want you to be a rotten person like you In fact, your truest idea is to live between several men Spend the night with him tonight and your husband tomorrow night. If I marry you, I'll beat you to the point of begging for mercy in divorcing you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I feel that you are duplicitous, and everything comes from the restlessness of your heart.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You should cut off contact with your ex-boyfriend to avoid misunderstandings.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Since she has a new life, she shouldn't have more contact with the past, doesn't her ex-boyfriend understand that she is married? If you understand, you shouldn't seduce your wife like this anymore, you should find out the man and talk to you alone, tell him that she is married, don't disturb your life anymore, and remember not to do anything. Your wife is kind and can't bear to refuse, so you go.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Personal advice, contact is not necessary. If you have your own life, you should run it yourself. Even if you are friends, you will sometimes have other troubles because of all kinds of things. Sometimes incompleteness is also a kind of beauty.

    Brother, you're panting for breath. The question you mentioned was not very specific, but from your above situation, don't always objectively think that which man is how bad it is, there is a good saying, a slap can't make a sound. Your wife agrees to you every time, but every time she still contacts, sometimes it may not be the man who contacts your wife, or your wife contacts him, which is not good.

    Although it is a manifestation of a woman's soft-heartedness. But it seems to me that there are also a lot of disagreements between the two of you. Maybe she has been with his ex for a long time, so she feels like a relative.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    When the interruption continues, you will suffer from it He doesn't care about your feelings, do you feel the need to continue? You should give the other party a right to solve it, let him choose, don't force him, you must go through it, you love him, love is selfish, and it's not good for anyone to be disconnected like this.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    After the breakup, you should no longer contact you, and the disconnection will affect your life.

    The key to this matter lies with your wife, if your wife's attitude is resolute, her ex-boyfriend will not come to her again.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If the above is true, then simply separate. If you love her, love very much. Then wait for her to understand.

    Separation is the best way to go. She can leave you and be free with that man. But the ending is by no means good.

    If you can't stand it. Let's divide it directly. There are others in my heart, and they are so obvious.

    Obviously higher than family with you. Then break it. Whoever said good was not waiting for you.

    Whoever departs from whom, the earth turns in the same way. Each cherishes the most important thing.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's better not to, it's a pit to be friends after a breakup, and you have to break it completely.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's better not to have broken up already. Don't be because of the past; Affect your future well-being.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Brother and you are connected by the same fate! This matter has to be told to make a decision, with you and without him! Adopt it, bro!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Yes, if you don't get in touch, people will think you haven't let go yet.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If your wife is unfaithful to you, then separate.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    First of all, this woman has a problem, let it go.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I think I'll think about it once in a while, and I'll wonder if he's doing now. After all, I loved it so much. Will bless him. However, he will try his best to restrain his feelings, and he should be responsible for his current relationship when he has a new love.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    No, because after I broke up. It's the kind of person who will live happily. Once loved deeply, it was also once. The future is my way. After I broke up, even my friends wouldn't do it.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Will think. If you pay attention, you shouldn't take the initiative to pay attention. If someone mentions his life and situation occasionally, I'm more willing to listen!!

    I guess, I still have feelings if I want to listen, and I can't treat it like a stranger!! However, I divided it a long time ago! I don't think about it basically!!

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Dreaming of getting back together with your ex-boyfriend means that you have thought about your ex-boyfriend, and it is not necessarily that you have a conflict with your current boyfriend, and you will have such a dream, and you can't let go, and you are afraid that he will do something you don't want to see, resulting in confusion, bad mood, and poor sleep.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Dreaming of a former man.

    Friend, as you said, you have a problem now. And you're now finding your ex-boyfriend good. Or break up with your ex-boyfriend, you have a genus of regret or guilt.

    Dreaming that your current boyfriend has a girlfriend may be true, at least you are so suspicious. If you haven't found out yet. Then you have to pay attention, this is your subconscious mind to remind you again.

    The key also shows that you don't take him to heart anymore.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Love is the grave of marriage, think about it.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    What do you mean, is it to interpret dreams?

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Completely devote yourself to studying,,, there is always a goal for the college entrance examination. When the college entrance examination is more important than everything, you won't be bothered by other things.

    I also fell out of love in my junior year of high school. Hehe..

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    What should be given up is helplessness, and what should not be given up is incompetence; Don't give up.

    What should be given up is ignorance, and what should not be given up is attachment.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Don't think about anything else just yet, let's talk about getting into college.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Just ignore him ruthlessly, time will dilute everything, and concentrate on learning to divert attention.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Don't think about anything, just study hard.

    When a person is serious, he can really forget everything around him.

    The more you try to forget about him.

    When you're lonely, you still think of him.

    Because I loved so much at the beginning.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Time, time can dilute everything, if not, then try to transfer the object, not ask you to find someone to replace you, that will only make you more unforgettable; Instead, I tell you to find someone who loves you, love seriously, so that maybe you can also forget, believe in yourself, you must be able to!

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Love has nothing to do with horoscopes. Since you also find out that he doesn't like him very much, and he just wants to take advantage of you, why hurt yourself like this? The college entrance examination is a very important turning point in my life, and I must grasp it well.

    I just missed it, and now it's hard to go back. I hope you're going to be cautious.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Bury your heart and don't feel anything.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    That kind of boy, it's not called a boy anymore.

    If you're pretty enough.

    You can find a boyfriend and settle him.

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