How about dealing with neighbors who ask for your help over a small matter?

1.Communicate patiently: First, we can try to communicate patiently with our neighbors to understand why they need help and if we can find other solutions to solve the problem.

3.Provide guidance: Sometimes, neighbors may not know how to deal with certain issues, and we can provide some guidance and advice to help them solve the problem on their own.

4.Seek help from a third party: If the above strategies do not resolve the issue, we may seek help from a third party, such as a property management company or community leader, to coordinate the resolution.

In conclusion, we need to communicate with our neighbors patiently and politely and find the best way to solve the problem as much as possible.

Don't always respond to requests, from now on, refuse a few times, and he will be restrained in the future, and he will not let you help you in everything, after all, he will not think of you if he always helps.

I feel very good, it shows that people trust you, as the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and you can help if you can.

A matter of personal mentality. If you can help, you can help, if you can't help, you can refuse, for example, I haven't finished the work at home, can you wait for me to finish it first?

Let's start small:

1. Send a smile when you meet him to make him feel good.

2. When you meet a neighbor holding a child or something in the elevator, help him press the elevator.

If you meet a neighbor in the elevator who is holding a child or carrying something, you can help him press a button.

Everyone says that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and if you have a better relationship with your neighbors, life is really very convenient. But there are many people who have some doubts, neighbors often call for help, don't want to help anymore, what should I do? Nowadays, there are many young people who will not refuse others, even if they are very unhappy, they will still help others.

If you directly choose to refuseIf your neighbor always asks you to do this and that, and feels that it disturbs your time, then we can directly explain it to our neighbor. And we shouldn't have been used to helping us when we first started. If we often help these people, then when we don't help them, they will feel that we have changed, as if we take it for granted.

And if we don't help them for a long time, and if we help them once in a while, then they will be very grateful to themselves.

Don't be so talkative, and it can be seen from here that most people don't do such thankless things anymore. If we are faced with a neighbor who is in urgent need of help, we can choose to lend a helping hand, but if the neighbor often asks himself to help them. And if the neighbor himself can do these things alone, then we can tell them that we have something urgent to do first.

I don't take it for granted that I should help them, but in fact, I can find that this phenomenon is still very rare, because most of the people live in the community now, maybe we have lived in this place for a few years, and we can't even remember the appearance of our neighbors. And now most people don't choose to trouble others, if their neighbors always trouble themselves, then they can choose to refuse. In addition, most people don't know how to always open their mouths to trouble others because of some trivial things.

Choosing to reject directly does not need to beat around the bush, if we always beat around the bush, it will also make others think that we have some hypocrisy.

The leader often calls you to help her, and if you don't want to help, then you keep yourself busy with work, so that when you are busy, he is embarrassed to look for you, and after a few times, he will understand what it means.

Tell him directly: "I'm very busy, please find someone else for something, you still have a lot of work to do, and you don't have extra energy to help him do these things", I think for those who always ask for help, don't take the initiative to be direct, otherwise people will really get an inch.

It can be said that it is inconvenient to help now, or there are other arrangements now. It's okay to be tactful, because after all, it's a neighbor, and you can't look up and see you down.

Summary. Kiss, deal with the neighbor who is unreasonable or has had a holiday with your family is more unreasonable than him and overwhelms him, now it is a legal society, if they do too much, you can go to the village party secretary or call the police.

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Good evening tonight, if you want to deal with a neighbor who doesn't care about you, then I have to see what you think in a row, do you want to have a good relationship with your neighbor or do you want to retort that he doesn't care about you?

I want to fight back.

If you are angry that your neighbor doesn't pay much attention to you, you can ignore him, because ignoring is the biggest indifference to a person, since you are a neighbor, then the other party will definitely have a time when they want to you, then you will also show an attitude of ignoring him, so that he will understand what you mean, just ignore him.

Or do you have any holidays with your neighbors?

Dear, because you gave me less information, so my answer is also relatively limited, you can tell me in detail, and then I will give you an analysis and answer.

Usually there is hatred.

Can you give me an example? What are your reasons for the conflict? I'll tell you how to solve it, or how to deal with your neighbors.

Kiss, deal with the neighbor who is unreasonable or has had a holiday with your family is more unreasonable than him and overwhelms him, now it is a legal society, if they do too much, you can go to the village party secretary or call the police.

Because people are good and are bullied, sometimes the more humble they are, the more presumptuous the other party may be.