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If you want to let yourself not cry when you encounter anything, the first thing is to hone your will in ordinary life, to let yourself learn to be really strong, and at the same time, to let yourself understand that when you encounter difficulties, you can only rely on yourself to be able to really solve the problem, at this time, crying is just a sign of weakness, and will not play any role in helping yourself.
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Let yourself not cry when you encounter anything, generally speaking, it is difficult to do, only if you have experienced a lot of things, and then you are open-minded and become optimistic and open-minded, you will be able to look down on many things, and it is possible to reach the level of not being happy with things and not being sad with yourself.
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Take things lightly, don't get into the horns when you encounter things, look a little away, and make yourself stronger, so that it is not easy to shed tears when you encounter things.
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The first thing to do is to make yourself strong. Don't let your emotions be influenced by your environment. Stay sane at all times. In this way, I will not cry when I encounter anything.
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If you want to let yourself not cry when you encounter anything, you must first have a good attitude, you must have a strong heart, you must know that everything is a tempering for yourself, and if you want to look down, then you will become strong from the heart.
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With more experience, more reading, and more experience, some people broaden their horizons, improve their cognition, and tell themselves that crying can't solve any problems.
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I think that only by making myself strong and no longer relying on others can I endure things when I encounter them, but when I am in a bad mood, I should vent or vent.
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Make yourself stronger, there seems to be no other way than this, your emotions can only be adjusted by yourself, the more you will be stronger, tougher, calm and calm, take your time.
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Strengthen your heart, you can buy more spiritual books to read, so that you can open your heart, truly understand yourself, and make yourself stronger.
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I don't think it's necessary to let myself not cry when I encounter anything, crying is originally a way for people to express their feelings, I can only say that I can make myself strong and not cry for a little thing.
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Then make yourself a little stronger and read some mentally strong books.
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Go through things a lot, cry a few more times, and gradually harden your heart and stop crying anymore.
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I'm afraid that only by making myself stronger, only if I am strong, no matter what happens, I will definitely not cry.
If you are too fragile and weak, you will definitely want to cry when you encounter something.
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Go for a crazy day on the street with your friends, do what you like best, sleep with your head covered when you're tired of playing, and wake up naturally.
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I think that means that first of all, you have to improve your ability to resist stress, because a lot of times, it's because your own ability to resist pressure is too low, and you cry.
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It's really uncomfortable, it's good to cry, don't suppress your emotions too much. But most people will show their vulnerable side in front of those who love them or those they love.
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This brings us to the question of being strong, and to be strong, you still have to encounter a lot of setbacks to make yourself strong.
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Why hold back your tears? Crying is sometimes a way of catharsis, everyone's tears are different, don't force yourself, if you encounter something really sad, then cry.
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You have to learn to be strong, and crying won't solve any problems. Do you cry when you encounter something and let others see the joke? Be strong!
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This is to make yourself strong enough in your heart. So I have the ability to settle all difficulties. In this way, you will not only know how to cry when you encounter problems, and you will not embarrass yourself to cry when you can solve problems.
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Then you have to make yourself strong. Experience more, temper more, don't be afraid to experience some difficulties and setbacks, no one is born strong, it's just a hard shoulder, the ordeal has made us bruised, but slowly, those scabs will become the most tenacious place in our lives, only experience again and again can make us stronger and braver.
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If you want to let yourself not cry when you encounter anything, you need to control your emotions, but crying is actually a kind of pressure and emotional release, there is no need to suppress your crying, but don't face everything with crying to solve. Therefore, you should usually learn to exercise your mentality, take a deep breath when you encounter something, and slowly calm down, so that you will not have an emotional breakdown after experiencing more times.
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That is, when you encounter any very difficult time, you don't deliberately care about it, you will definitely be very aggrieved and feel a lot of pressure, you can vent this in another way, because when you cry, you are also releasing pressure.
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If you want to make yourself not cry when you encounter anything, then you can only be strong in your heart, and after experiencing a lot of things, your mind has become open-minded and open-minded, and you will not cry anymore when you encounter things.
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Strong determination, can only be in front of things, appear particularly calm, we don't panic, calmly deal with things, one by one, deal with it will not feel wronged.
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Try to be strong! Believe in yourself, your mental capacity is far stronger than you think!! Learn to encourage yourself! Believe in yourself!
Don't care too much about what others think. Maybe it's a little difficult to adapt at first, but you have to learn to adjust your mentality in a timely manner, tell yourself that what you do is not for others to see, but for yourself, and if you are satisfied, it's okay, life is your own, what others say is his business, if he thinks something is bad, it only represents his own point of view, and there will always be someone to support you! He can't live in this world for you!
So, he doesn't have to care too much about his thoughts!
Also, there are times when you need to "endure"! Maybe you are sad, but you have to learn to keep your tears in your eyes, and these tears can be vented when no one is around!
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It shows that you are careful, emotional, and psychologically bearable, and it is good to experience more things, don't take everything too seriously, sometimes sloppy treatment is a good choice.
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This shows that you are not mature enough, I used to be like this when I went to school, and I cried a lot when the teacher criticized me. I cry when I get along with my friends, and if there is a conflict. But now it's not like this, I have experienced a lot of things, I feel so stupid at that time, it is not worth crying at all, I was still young and immature at that time.
As we age, there will be fewer and fewer tears.
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Now when others talk about you, don't hear it, don't think about it.
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Take a deep breath and hold it.
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People can't always be in a good mood, since there are setbacks and troubles in life, there will be negative emotions. A psychologically mature person is not a person who does not have negative emotions, but someone who is good at regulating and controlling his emotions. There are many ways to deal with emotions, but keeping an eye on them is the most important and crucial.
Most people are confused and miserable because they are unaware, they can't see themselves clearly, they can't understand others, so they are confused and uneasy. But looking at yourself is also the most difficult thing to do, because the ego is bigger than the sky, and it is difficult for you to let go and become humble. The source of negative emotions can be negative experiences, and it can also be said to be negative inertia, and the events that evoke your negative experiences are just borrowed catalysts.
If the emotions are beyond the scope of one's control, the best way is not to release or suppress them, but to do nothing, learn to focus first, because when the negative energy is too large, you may not even be able to bear it if you release it indiscriminately, and it is easy to affect others. Repression is absolutely impossible, because the source of the problem is repression. If you are disturbed, you must first fix your mind, take care of your emotions, disagree, don't judge, let it appear, put your feelings in your heart, and keep your eyes and tears in your eyes, and your breathing is still chaotic.
The heart is the largest emotional control center, and in order to stabilize emotions, we must start from the heart and learn the method of centering. As for the method, everyone has to find it on their own. There are many, many Dharmas, and the key is not in the Dharma, but in your intentions and willingness.
I believe that I have the ability to open up the sea and the sky. We have to be the masters of our emotions and refuse to be controlled. Emotions are not the same as events.
It is the emotions that move and break, not the events themselves. We just don't understand, we agree that I am the whole emotional state, asking for hardships, pleasing emotions and impulses, but losing ourselves. We can calm our emotions and stay awake and autonomous through self-control, which is mature mind management.
Self-control is not the same as repression, because the former is an action after awakening, and the latter is a reaction of disorientation. The so-called self-control is to learn a set of emotional processing methods suitable for yourself, once you see that you are attacked by emotions, you have to protect yourself immediately, remind yourself that it is just to use weakness to defeat the pure thinking inertia of reason, and find appropriate ways to disperse the concentration of negative emotions, such as exercise, meditation, yoga, watching movies, volunteering, creating, talking to confidants, doing a spa, dressing up, etc., to bring out all the positive energy. Helping oneself requires determination and perseverance, and it must be a path that is walked and completed alone, as well as a responsibility for growth.
Self-treatment is always the most practical and practical method of self-protection, and no one can rely on it.
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Relax your mood, treat everything calmly, think about the good side of troubles, try your best to enlighten yourself when you encounter anything, don't let yourself be too fragile, and be strong in the face of everything.
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Face anything bravely! If it's really hard to face, you can drink a bar, and when you get delirious, you don't even know how to cry.
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Summary. We need to hone in many aspects, which is very important, so we should try to hone ourselves as deliberately as possible, including honing our will, so that we can withstand the test and not shed tears easily.
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Hello, learn to be self-conscious and believe in everything that is unknowable and uncontrollable, and this is growth. Don't be afraid, people will always grow up slowly. Every drop of tears in the eyes takes away cowardice. Bitter memories will also be gentle. I hope mine is helpful to you.
Hello, we should make our heart and mind become stronger, in fact, many times, if the psychological quality is not good, encounter some difficulties will be unbearable, so, try not to let yourself cry easily.
We need to hone in many aspects, which is very important, so we should try to hone ourselves as deliberately as possible, including grinding the Sui clan to practice our own intentions and fortunes, so that we can withstand the test of feasting and tearing easily.
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