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Look at this from a different angle.
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It would be nice to read more books since childhood.
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When setbacks are encountered, the practice is as follows:
1. It's normal to accept setbacks: Setbacks are an inevitable part of life and everyone experiences them. Accept this fact and don't blame yourself or complain too much.
Understand your emotions and allow yourself to feel these negative emotions, but don't allow yourself to be controlled by them.
2. Seek support and advice: Share your plight with trusted friends, family or professionals and listen to their advice and support. They may provide new perspectives and perspectives that help you see the other side of the problem.
3. Re-examine the remaining hidden goals: The frustration may be that the goals you set are too high or unrealistic. Revisit your goals and consider whether they need to be adjusted or changed. Choosing more realistic and achievable goals can reduce frustration.
4. Find a solution: When facing a setback, try to find a solution to the problem, instead of blindly feeling frustrated. Analyze the cause of the problem, think of possible solutions, and try to put it into action.
5. Focus on self-care: Don't forget to pay attention to your physical and mental health when facing setbacks. Give yourself some time and space for self-care, such as exercising, relaxing, and adjusting to your heart-wrenching mood.
Taking care of your physical and mental health can help improve your self-confidence and ability to cope with difficulties.
6. Develop a positive mindset: A positive mindset is very important for coping with setbacks. Try to see the other side of the problem and look for opportunities to learn and grow. Believe in your ability to overcome difficulties and take positive actions to achieve your goals.
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Everyone may react and deal with setbacks differently, but in general, here are some suggestions for coping with setbacks:
Accept the reality: Recognize that setbacks are a pervasive part of growing up, and don't see setbacks as personal failures or flaws. Accept the reality, face the setbacks, and learn from them so that you can grow and develop better. Keep an eye on it.
Analyze the causes: Analyze the causes and effects of setbacks in a timely manner and think about how to solve them. Sometimes, setbacks can be just temporary losses that can be overcome by identifying the problems in them and taking appropriate measures.
Adjust your mindset: When you encounter setbacks, your mood will fluctuate, and you need to actively adjust your mindset and maintain an optimistic state of mind in order to better cope with stress and difficulties.
Seek support: Seek help and support from a friend, family or professional during a difficult time to share your feelings and confusion and gain emotional comfort and guidance.
Learn to relax: In the process of coping with setbacks, you also need to learn to relax and relieve stress, such as playing sports, meditating, listening to the key**, etc.
In conclusion, when encountering setbacks, the most important thing is to maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, analyze the causes, and take appropriate measures in a timely manner. At the same time, it is also necessary to realize that setbacks are the only way to grow up, and you can exercise your will and ability through setbacks to become stronger and more resilient.
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I will take a walk, feel the beauty of nature, listen to the sound of the wind, look up and watch the moon climb up, and enjoy the world.
When you encounter setbacks, don't panic Qingchun, don't blindly get angry, and don't have dangerous good thoughts. Think more about the people behind you, your friends, your family, ......Think about how to solve it. Because there are always many ways in this world. Come on!
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Setbacks are something we don't want to face, but they are inevitable in our lives. Only when we encounter setbacks will our lives be more meaningful, and only when we overcome setbacks will we continue to improve. This is a setback I encountered.
It was the tense time to hand out the exam papers again, and when the papers came to my hands, I couldn't help but be stunned by the scores in front of me. I was full of confidence, but what I saw was a dazzling score - 80. The original good mood suddenly disappeared without a trace.
After school, I walked home dejectedly. The blue sky had turned gray to my eyes, and the gentle song of the birds had become terrible to my ears.
When I got home and sat at my desk, I was devastated and frustrated. Grab a book and pass away your worries. I saw this story:
A young man loves to sing very much, but not only is his voice not melodious, but also his sense of musicality is not strong. He wanted to learn from his teacher, but every teacher who came into contact with him was unwilling to take him as an apprentice. He decided to study on his own.
The people around him laughed at him, thinking that it was simply impossible. But he kept listening to the ** tape and practicing vocalization. While others were resting, he was practicing hard.
When he found a ** teacher again, the teacher immediately agreed to take him as an apprentice. Later, he became a famous singer.
After reading this story, a trace of admiration rose in my heart. Think about yourself, what is this little frustration of mine compared to this young man? There will be many stumbling blocks on the road of life, as long as you have a dream, you can meet success.
So, I regained my spirits and worked hard to achieve my dream!
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People will experience a lot of setbacks and difficulties in their lives, and I have also encountered setbacks and difficulties in my study and life, but I have learned some truths from them.
I remember that time when the math midterm test was sent out, the students were nervously staring at the test paper in the teacher's hand, the teacher read it while sending it, many students got good grades, and even the students who were not good at studying also scored more than 90 points. I looked at the test papers in the teacher's hand worriedly, and watched the students get good grades, and I comforted myself: You see that other students have got good grades, and you will also get good grades.
At this moment, the teacher shouted, "Zhang Qi, 68 points." My heart rose to my throat again, and I held the scroll, and a bright red number was written on it, and my heart seemed to be struck hard with a hammer.
I was so uncomfortable that I lowered my head and didn't dare to look at my classmates, they all looked at me, and I felt that their eyes were laughing at me and mocking me. I returned to my seat with heavy steps, and at that moment I felt like I was a failure, the dumbest person in the world. I was so disappointed that my heart was not in the class for a single class, but I blamed myself deeply.
I went home, lay on my desk, stared blankly at my exam papers, and thought: Give up math, you've failed. But I want to think again
You used to love math the most, if you had to give up, how would you grow up to achieve your dreams? What to do? While I was distressed, suddenly, I heard someone say:
Failure is the mother of success, setbacks are indispensable in life, and people can only go to the next level on the basis of failure. Don't be too pessimistic because of setbacks and failures, how can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain. I looked up and it was my mother, and she smiled and said
It doesn't matter, failure is not terrible, what is the use of always blaming yourself? Hearing this, I began to feel less uncomfortable, and I said to myself: "Be strong, there is no smooth sailing in a person's life, be strong!"
In the face of setbacks, we must be strong, we must have perseverance, we must have self-confidence, and we must have the spirit of striving for progress. This setback made me truly feel that we must be strong, do not retreat when encountering setbacks, and be brave to overcome them, which I can't only experience from books.
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Life is like a play, some people say that it is sour; Some say it's cake, sweet; Some say it's medicinal, bitter; Someone.
Say it's chili, spicy ......Life will inevitably encounter setbacks.
In the spring of that year, there was a research exam at the school. The test papers were sent down, and I saw that the questions were so simple, so I didn't care about the three.
Seventy-twenty-one, I wrote the answer up, and I didn't check whether it was right or not. I quickly finished the test paper and looked around, and my classmates were all writing it, obviously not doing it well. I can't help but feel complacent. After the students do a good job, they are all serious.
I'm the only one who is checking my eraser.
When the time came, the exam papers were put away, and I rushed out of the classroom as if I was liberated, while the other students were discussing their answers, whether they were right or not.
I walked home in the spring light, walked briskly, threw my heavy schoolbag on the sofa, and sat on the sofa to watch TV.
The next day, the exam papers came first, and the teacher said that the full score and more than 90 points, and then reported more than 80 points, but there was never.
My name. "Dai Xingying, 76 points", I froze, this is the first time I have done so badly in the exam, and I feel sad.
I forgot to take the exam paper. "Dai Xingying, 76 points, please come up and get the test paper" The teacher said again, and I woke up and put Shu.
The volume was taken back. After class, my classmates were talking about me, saying that even the poor students in my class were better than me in the exams, and other things that made me sad.
On the way home, I thought to myself, "No one refuses to drink because the water is bland, and no one is frustrated."
And give up life. I must cheer up, I did a bad job in this exam, and I must make up for the lost marks next time! ”
So, I studied hard, and in the next exam, I got a score that I was satisfied with, which is what I worked hard for.
What a result! It's not terrible to encounter setbacks, but what is terrible is that you don't have the heart to overcome setbacks!
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"Only a confident person can confidently immerse himself in life and fulfill his will anywhere. ”
Inscription. Self-confidence, a feeling that has been lost in the past. Now when I have it again, I realize that it is so important, so beautiful.
Since I was a child, I was a bold girl, curious about anything, willing to try, daring to try. As I grew older and frustrated increased, I finally began to doubt myself in the failures again and again, am I really as good as I imagined? Gradually, I became more suspicious of myself, less affirmative, a little more evasive, and a little less courageous.
In this way, with the accumulation of self-esteem, I really fell into the abyss of inferiority. Since then, I have been missing my fluent in the classroom, and I have been actively participating in the activities, and I have fallen into this swamp, like a lamb, struggling, but I can no longer go back to the past.
Come on, get out of the shadow of inferiority, you will always be a success! "Cheer up, overcome low self-esteem, and diligence can make up for your clumsiness." "If you believe that you are multi-capable, then many things are possible.
…The encouragement of friends, the comfort of elders, the advice of teachers, and the bitter hearts of all people made me understand that inferiority is a negative attitude, the so-called "gold is not enough, no one is perfect", stupid birds fly first, redoubling efforts is the best policy, and secretly sad, sighing that it is better to just be useless, not to mention that "I am born to be useful", I must believe that my existence is meaningful.
Another exam, I walked into the examination room with confidence, my heart told me that I can do it, I turned this drum of confidence into motivation, poured into this first test of my rebirth, when I encountered difficulties, confidence made me calm, when it was smooth sailing, confidence made me serious and careful. Needless to say, I have the confidence to be a strong backing this time, and the results are of course exceptional.
George Bernard Shaw said, "A man of faith can turn smallness into greatness, and mediocrity into magic." "Faith is such a magical motivator.
Hua Luogeng once pointed out the mistake of mathematics professor Su Jiaju and made the decision to get the axe of the class, if there was no confidence to support it, how could he publish an article on the solution of the fifth equation to refute the authoritative professor at that time? It can be seen that faith has helped him a lot. "The sea is wide and the fish jumps, and the sky is high and the birds fly", let us use the motivation of confidence to create more success!
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I overcame the setbacks.
In everyone's life, the road taken cannot always be smooth, and everyone is bound to encounter difficulties and setbacks. When you face difficulties and setbacks, you must not be timid, you must not retreat, you must face them bravely, find a way to overcome, and overcome, so that you are equal to defeating yourself.
I had this experience once.
One day, our teacher asked us to make a test paper from the teacher himself, and I easily completed the first few questions, but only the last question stumped me, I thought about it again, and the method asked me to hit it back, and I thought about it again, and the method asked me to hit it back, and I tried all the methods, racked my brains, and didn't come up with the solution to this problem for a long time. Ten minutes passed, twenty minutes passed, thirty minutes passed, thirty-five minutes passed, ...... thirty-five minutes passed
Seeing that there are still five minutes to wrap up, what should I do? Just when I was about to give up, I remembered what my mother said to me: "Don't give up easily, just stick to the end and you're the best."
So I started a war of heads again. Finally, in the last few minutes, my eyes suddenly lit up, and I found a solution to this problem. At the time I thought:
Isn't this right in front of my eyes? Why didn't I see it? Coincidentally, I had just finished that question, and the teacher asked us to hand in the paper, and after going down, I knew that "everything in the world is afraid of this serious word".
In this question, I learned a truth, no matter what you do, as long as you are serious, you will definitely overcome the difficulties in front of you, and you will not let him give the avenue, and go to a more difficult road.
Students, please believe that although the road ahead is more difficult and more bumpy, as long as you take everything seriously and do everything seriously, start with carefulness and end with seriousness, there is nothing you can't do badly, as long as you have the word "serious", then you can overcome all difficulties, overcome all difficulties, repel all obstacles on the road of life, and make your life more meaningful.
I was cheated of my living expenses for three months, and I didn't dare to tell my mother, and then I went to work by myself, and I was tired to death when I returned to the dormitory at night in addition to class. Relying on his strong perseverance and the help of friends, he got through the muddy half of the semester.
Yes. I have suffered and am still suffering. It's painful. >>>More
It's because of illness, I fell behind a month's course, that is the second year of high school, I am talking about important knowledge, I am very stressed, and others fell behind a month's course, I began to borrow other people's notes to write, and then little by little I learned by myself, I didn't understand to ask my classmates and teachers, I stayed up late at night to study, got up early in the morning to memorize, after two months of make-up classes, I finally made up for it, I felt that I had great potential, and then insisted on learning like this, and was also admitted to a university that I was satisfied with.
I would tell myself, "How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain?" How can you succeed casually without experiencing failure? "It's not terrible to encounter setbacks, but it's terrible to lose confidence and fighting spirit.
At that time, I was a little depressed, but then I read books, kept reading, and improved my mental maturity, just like playing ball to play with a master, it doesn't matter if you have your own understanding, it doesn't matter if you don't understand, be sincere to others, and live up to yourself, and become much happier every day.