Do you want your wife to die first or yourself when you get old?

I am a rural person, according to the experience of the countryside, the person who left first walked very beautifully, and when he died, everyone cried very sadly, and the other person who stayed, life was not very good, and some were very embarrassed, the old couple was one, and the old wife left first, so half of this everyone was scattered, and the children had another attitude towards the other.

My grandma left first, and my grandparents were all there at that time, and my mother went to my grandma's house very lively, but when my grandma had diabetes.

When I left, my grandfather was left alone, without my grandmother, the family became no longer lively, my grandfather is old, and my uncle's family is not doing well, it can be said in such a sentence, it is really a crime to live!

Another example is my uncle.

And Ma Ma thing, Ma Ma also left early, it was originally a very complete and happy family, now my uncle is left alone, and my brother can't stay together, alone, there is no one to talk to all day long, now when the body can still move, I have to buy vegetables every day, those children don't come often, people are really old and old.

Also, my grandmother passed away first, and my grandfather was left at home alone, and I was looking for a job outside at that time, maybe my grandfather felt that he was very lonely and left alone, and we were always looking for it, but we couldn't find it again, which left an eternal pain in my heart.

An old couple next door, the old wife left early, although the old man has a retirement salary, but what can he do if he has money? The children are not short of money, they found him a nanny to live like this, and soon left, if the old man has a second marriage, there will be more contradictions, and now the children can't see it, alas! It's pitiful to be old.

But you have to ask me, do you want myself to go first, or do you want my wife to go first? I really don't know how, of course, the best result is to walk with two people, but that's impossible, people may think differently when they get old, how old they live is enough! In fact, as long as the two of them can grow old together, it is a very happy thing, as for who goes first, let it be fate!

Birth, old age, sickness and death are also the norm of life, and in the end, no matter who leaves first, there is always someone who is sad about it. If you want your wife to live longer than you and can endure your wife's grief for you, then go first. But some people can't bear to leave their wives alone, and would rather be the last to go.

Die first. When my wife dies first, what I leave to me is loneliness, loneliness and helplessness, and I won't have so many problems if I die first.

Let's hope I die first. For the elderly, the person who dies first is actually less painful, and the pain is that the person who stays has no companion, is sad and uncomfortable, and there is no one to take care of him when he is sick.

Die first. I wish I had died first, so that I would not be so sad and not so lonely.

There is no way to live, grow old, sickness and die, but if I had to choose.

1. If my wife dies first, I will commit suicide, he is the person who has accompanied me all my life, he is gone, and I have nothing to be nostalgic for.

2. If I die first, I hope he will live well, and then accompany his children, and when the time comes, we will meet in heaven.

3. I actually prefer to die together and be buried together, hoping to meet him in the next life.