Girls take the initiative to confess what boys should pay attention to

Let's find out if he has a girlfriend first. Pay attention to the boy's personality, if he belongs to the introverted type, don't be too straightforward, it's best to ask him out separately to confess. If you have a straight personality, it's easier to say, and it's generally not embarrassing to confess to this kind of boy.

You can start with what he likes, the average boy likes to tell others what he knows, and if you understand what he likes, the success rate of confession is still very large. ‍‍

We need to understand whether the other party is single, for girls, we don't know that our other half is engaged or has a girlfriend and go to fall in love with each other, I believe this is a very miserable thing, so, before confessing, we should know in advance whether the other party is single, and then it is more appropriate to date. ‍‍

Adolescent girls are prone to have a good impression of boys who are better than themselves or have special charms, such as school bully, the president of the basketball club, and the top ten singers on campus. But good feelings don't have to be likes, and likes don't have to be to the extent of confession. When a good feeling is generated, and you gradually like the other person more, and your inner thoughts are stronger after further understanding, then consider whether to take the initiative to confess. ‍‍

If you confess to a boy, it is recommended to be more tactful, not too explicit, but you will feel that it will make the boy think that you are not reserved enough.

Girls take the initiative to confess, boys should pay attention to themselves, don't be too arrogant, and don't think that they will succeed.

Confirm your inner thoughts, first of all, we need to understand whether we simply like each other or like each other, normally speaking, adolescent girls first have a good impression of a person, and then slowly like a person, and then go to a relationship, so, we have to see our hearts clearly.

Normally, the action of confession is to observe very carefully what a boy wants or is about to want at this moment, we can appropriately do what he likes, and then slowly contact him, and the number of meetings is more, it is easy to enter the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend. ‍‍

My experience: Tell your girlfriend in advance that when you are about to confess, we need to talk about this matter with your girlfriend first, so that your girlfriend can give you some ideas, if you can get their support, this will make us more confident, so that our plan will be more reliable, and the confession will be smoother. ‍‍

Avoid the rush mentality, after the confession, we don't want to urge the boy to give himself a reply, of course, if the boy gives himself a specific answer on the spot, of course this can be better, if the boy doesn't know how to reply at the time, we can say "This is my own inner thoughts, tell you today, I don't ask to give me an answer now, wait for you to have an answer in the next few days and then tell me", I believe, appropriate to say such a thing, but also to resolve a lot of embarrassing atmosphere.

The confession link is generous and decent, when confessing, we should wear a dress that we feel is very suitable for confession, for example, many girls like to wear dresses to confess, confession should be done, clean and tidy, neither humble nor arrogant, so that their mentality is kept in an optimal position, so that it is convenient to leave a good impression on boys.

Traditionally, men should be the active actors in relationships. The roots of this concept lie in historical, cultural, and other factors. However, with the development of society and the improvement of women's status, this idea has gradually been broken.

Emotionally, a guy doesn't have to be in the driver's seat all the time.

First of all, any relationship should be equal. Both men and women should have the right and opportunity to express their feelings. Therefore, in terms of feelings, we should not occupy an active or passive position, but should communicate and communicate equally and manage feelings together.

Second, men take the role of emotional initiative, which often means that they have to take on more responsibility and pressure. This kind of "man's responsibility" thinking is very unhealthy and will increase the mental burden of men. Correspondingly, women should not expect too much from men's performance.

We should accept each other's gifts, rights, and responsibilities, and work together to accompany and support each other.

In addition, the initiative in a relationship does not have to be played by a man. Women are just as emotionally abrasive and can take the initiative. They can make their own demands and expectations, express their feelings, and even take the initiative to pursue men.

Such relationships are more egalitarian and healthy, and can make both parties feel happy and satisfied.

Finally, we should understand that initiative in a relationship is not "initiative" in an absolute sense. In fact, in a relationship, women may use some more subtle ways to express their emotions instead of expressing them directly. Men also have a responsibility to pay attention to these signals and to pay attention to them.

Only in this way can both parties truly understand each other and build a relationship of mutual trust and respect.

In short, emotionally, boys don't have to be in the initiative all the time. We should adopt an equal and reciprocal approach to managing our relationships together. Men, like women, have the right and opportunity to express their feelings, and the relationship should be a process of mutual support and mutual growth.