What is it like to do what a couple would do, but not be a couple?

It depends on your attitude towards this person, if you are in the mentality of having fun, this is naturally a good thing for you, anyway, you don't have to be responsible; But if you are the one who really touches your heart, you can only say that you are more pitiful, in fact, when you are doing these things with him, you have already regarded him as your other half in your heart, and you feel that your relationship will further develop after this, but it backfires, and the gap in your heart must be very big.

I'm in your case too. We're off-site. In the first three years of college, every time we went back to our hometown, he would come to me:

Holding hands, kissing or something. In the last year of his senior year, he came to my city to look for me. I found that I resisted for four years and finally fell in love with him.

I thought I was his girlfriend since I had a relationship, but it turned out that he didn't think that way at all. Some time ago, I wrote him an email to break up. Reason told me I couldn't contact him anymore.

But I think about him 10,000 times a day. Now I can't live in pain every day, I don't know how to eat, and I can't sleep.

You like him, and hopefully he genuinely likes you. Mushroom Liang's heart is not resistant to doing these things with that man, and even has some expectations and likes. And all of this behavior is based on the fact that you want him to be serious.

Until this hope is disillusioned, everything seems gentle, sweet, beautiful and exciting. It's as if everything is moving in the right direction. But this fragile balance can be disrupted with a single grain of boogers.

That man was the one who picked his nose. This kind of ambiguous play will be broken off immediately if someone I know. The three obscene men who are unprincipled, moral, and irresponsible, have been identified.

I've known him for more than 20 days, and I've done everything between couples, except for rolling the sheets. He just broke up for more than two months, and he had a girlfriend for 3 years, and when I asked him what our relationship was, he would be very honest with me and tell me that he had just broken up, and now he just likes me a little, and asked me to give him time. I feel like he still hasn't let go of his ex-girlfriend in his heart, but he will kiss me a lot, and I don't even know what I should do.

Half a year ago, soon after meeting, he said that he wanted me to be his girlfriend, but I refused, and then I remained a couple for half a year, such as going out together every week, watching movies, singing, eating, and talking about all kinds of things, including his future plans and family affairs, and what happened around him, walking outside, hooking me, and occasionally calling me a baby. But I don't admit that the baby is calling me. And I usually call ** when I get up** give me an average of 3 ** a day, although it is not long, and there is nothing important to talk about.

In fact, many people do not go all the way to the end after becoming a couple, but many people's fate has not arrived, but I hope that everyone will go to the next step after finding the right person for themselves, otherwise they will hurt themselves or hurt each other.

In this way, I feel a lot of regret in my heart, after all, we used to exist as a couple, and then we were separated in the way of passers-by.

Personally, I still enjoy this kind of relationship, and if I find that it is really suitable, I can also end this relationship together. If the relationship becomes more and more boring, it is still possible to start other romances without moral constraints.

This is very regrettable, the biggest thing in life is regret, when two people did not go to the end, in fact, they are not reconciled, but they are very helpless.

This man's dead eyes are chasing after you. That's the mentality. You don't recognize him as your boyfriend, but he thinks you're his girlfriend.

Not as a couple, but doing what all couples do together, this is the mentality of treating each other as a spare tire.

The first is that the level of reason of these two people is relatively higher than that of ordinary people, and they need to have a considerable level of control over their own feelings. In other words, these two people have the ability to know exactly what they are doing at all times, as well as to have a clear understanding of the relationship. It will not easily develop into a couple in the traditional sense (if you become a couple quickly, then it does not meet the premise of an open relationship and the subject problem).

The second is that two people do not have sufficient emotional trust and complete dependence on each other. Hoping to challenge and test the other person's attitude through an open-ended relationship. At the same time, before you are unsure of your inner feelings for the other person, you can also use this relationship to distinguish and affirm.

At the same time, both of them may have had rich emotional experiences and have a better understanding of the various stages of the relationship and the problems that are prone to occur. Therefore, when facing a long-distance relationship, or when the timing of the encounter is not right, it tends to use an open relationship to delay the occurrence of problems.

Finally, and most importantly, both have a clear understanding of the relationship that is about to begin; It is a mature decision made by the two with absolutely independent thoughts, not accommodating one side or the other; And accept the problems and difficulties that are coming, as well as absolute transparency and honesty with the other person.

There can be many explanations for this situation, here are some possible reasons:

1.Friendship: Two people may just be good friends and they do all the things that couples do together because they have a deep friendship with each other, not because they are in a relationship.

2.Ambiguous relationship: Two people may be in the ambiguous stage, they are trying to build a more intimate relationship with each other, so they will do the things they do together as a couple, but they have not yet done the relationship with each other.

3.Experimental phase: Two people may be trying to see if it's appropriate for each other to be together, and they may be doing things together as a couple to test each other's feelings and mutual adaptability.

4.Fun together: Two people may do some of the things they do together as a couple just because they have common interests, but that doesn't mean they're in a relationship.

Either way, it needs to be judged on a case-by-case basis. If two people feel comfortable and natural together, then the relationship could be a healthy friendship or a potential romantic relationship. But if there is confusion or contradiction between two people, then the relationship may require more communication and understanding.

Because subconsciously, you think of him as your significant other.

In fact, I don't agree with this kind of behavior, I feel that this type of person may be enjoying the feeling of being cared for by others, but does not want to fulfill the responsibilities of a **couple. Ambiguity - is a very special relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend, which exists between friendship and is above friendship. Ambiguity is a little closer than a good friend, but a little farther away than a lover.

Ambiguity is to understand that there are too many helplessness in life, and there are too many restrictions in reality. You know it's impossible, but you're reluctant to let go. Ambiguity is the impulse to go further, but there is no further courage.

In fact, after work, everyone is more reluctant to this state. At present, this state is more in the student days, after all, people who come out to work are not wasting time on such things, and I feel that it is a waste of their energy and time. When I was a student, there were often such scandals between men and women.

often appear together, study together, go to and from school together, and when chatting, Gu Pan Shenghui is intimate, even if they themselves strongly deny it, they will be coaxed and encouraged by the masses.

In this kind of relationship, both men and women enjoy it very much, because it seems to have a partner by their side, and sometimes they don't really need to treat each other as a couple. So although both parties have a good impression of each other,But for some reason, it is inconvenient to make it public, or each other is waiting for the other to take that step。Those who are anxious to watch the play, or outsiders seem to be very entangled, but the parties enjoy it very much.

If you are in an ambiguous period, since you can start such a relationship, why not be together and then be responsible for each other? Many people don't like this feeling, as if they are deliberately avoiding their responsibilities.