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Nervousness is often due to too much care. If the same thing happens to someone else, you won't be nervous. Because, it doesn't matter to you whether the person is your sibling or a friend.
However, if you confess your failure, or keep it, it may affect your whole life. Perhaps, for now, you can't afford to do that.
The reason is actually very simple, it is like when we go to take a driver's license test, the fifth time we take the test is often more nervous and uneasy than when we take the first test. Because the fifth exam will be the last chance to take the exam, if we can't pass it yet, then we can only re-register for the exam. Whether it is the cost of time or money, we are more concerned.
So how do we adjust to such a situation?
1. Lower psychological expectations.
In life, we often hear such self-comfort, "If you don't expect, you won't be disappointed." When a person has no expectations, success or not becomes irrelevant to him. Success is gratifying, but failure doesn't deter him.
When my mental expectations are lowered, all the results will be expected. Then, we won't be able to afford the expected results.
2. Give yourself positive psychological cues.
Powerful psychological cues can move things in the direction we want. When a person imagines that he has confessed success and retains the other person's success, things can often develop in the desired direction. Because when a person is thinking positively, his mental state, thinking, and mental outlook are also positive.
Positive people,
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How do you express what you like with data? Girlfriends have me feeling. There is a time for a clever smile and beautiful eyes.
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1. Song Dynasty: Qin Guan "Queqiao Immortal Xianyun Trick".
The clouds are clever, the flying stars spread hatred, and the silver man is dark.
As soon as the golden wind and jade dew meet, they will win countless in the world.
Tenderness is like water, the best period is like a dream, and you can endure the return of the Magpie Bridge. If the two love for a long time, how can it be in the morning and twilight?
2. Song Dynasty: Zhang Xian's "Thousand Autumn Years, Several Voices of Birds".
A few squirts, and then a good rest. Cherish the spring and fold the remnants of red. The rain is light and windy, and the plum is green. Yongfeng willow, no one ends the sun and snow.
Don't pluck the strings, complaining about the strings can be said. The sky is not old, and the love is indescribable. The heart is like a double wire net, and there are thousands of knots in it. The night has passed, and the east window has not been white.
3. Song Dynasty: Yan Shu "Qingping Le, Red Notes".
Small print on red note. Let's talk about business. The wild goose is in the cloud, and the fish is in the water. It's hard to send melancholy.
The slanting sun leans alone on the west building. The remote mountain is just right for the curtain hook. The face of the person is unknown, and the green wave is still flowing eastward.
4. Song Dynasty: Yan Shu "Mountain Pavilion Willow Song Giver".
He lives in Xiqin. The art of gambling is carried with you. The flowers are willow and the tip of the bucket is new. Occasionally learn to read the slave tone, and sometimes the high curb the clouds. Shu brocade is entangled in countless heads, and it lives up to its hard work.
For several years, I have been going to Xianjing Road, and the remnants of the cup have been cold and scorching. Heartfelt matter, who to entrust. If you have a bosom friend, you will sing Yangchun all over again. A song is a feast and tears, and the scarf is covered again.
5. Song Dynasty: Liu Yong's "Butterfly Love Flowers, Leaning on the Dangerous Building".
Leaning on the dangerous building, the wind is fine, looking at the extreme spring sorrow, and the sky is gloomy. In the afterglow of the grass-colored smoke, there is no one who will rely on his will.
I plan to get drunk with a crazy picture, and I sing about wine, and I have no taste for it. The belt gradually widened and did not regret it, and it made people haggard for Yi.
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1,。If the two love for a long time, how can it be in the morning and twilight?
2, as soon as the golden phoenix and jade dew meet, they will win countless in the world.
3. I want to know you and live a long life.
4. I will not regret the gradual widening of the clothes belt, and I will make people haggard for Yi.
5. When do you know when you will see each other? It's hard to feel the night at this point. - Li Bai 6, the sky is not old, and the love is inexorable. The heart is like a double wire net, and there are thousands of knots in it.
7. There are no colorful phoenix wings, and the heart is clear.
8. Enter my lovesick door, know that I am lovesick, long-term lovesickness, long-term memory, and short-term lovesickness. ——Li Bai 9The wild goose is in the cloud, the fish is in the water, and it is difficult to send this feeling.
10. If you have a bosom friend, you will sing Yangchun all over again.
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The hands are like soft wattles, the skin is like clotted fat, the collar is like a grub, the teeth are like a rhinoceros, the head of the mantis is like a moth eyebrows, the smile is clever, and the eyes are beautiful. - The Book of Poetry: Shuoren
Luo Fu likes sericulture, the south corner of the city. The green silk is the cage system, and the cinnamon branch is the cage hook. There is a bun on his head and a bright moon pearl in his ears.
The silk is the lower skirt, and the purple qi is the upper skirt. When the walker saw Luo Fu, he took his beard and beard. When the young man saw Luo Fu, he took off his hat and put on his head.
The ploughman forgets his plow, and the hoe forgets his hoe. Come and return to resent, but sit and watch Luofu. - Mo Shang Sang".
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The shadow is sparse and the water is shallow, and the dark fragrance floats in the dusk of the moon.
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The spring breeze is ten miles of Yangzhou Road, and it is better to roll up the bead curtain.
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If you don't see the true face of the jade person, how can you be sad.
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There are beautiful women in the north, peerless and independent. One look at the city, and then look at the country.
Rather than know the city and the country? Beautiful women are hard to come by. Three thousand weak water, take only one scoop to drink.
My girlfriend is not only beautiful, but also has a very good personality, knows how to take care of others, never cares about others for some trivial things, the best thing in this life is to meet her and fall in love!
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"Looking back and smiling, the six palaces have no color" Tang Bai Juyi's "Song of Long Hatred".
It is said that Xi Shi is in the eyes of a lover, so she is naturally comparable to Xi Shi in my eyes, so I think this is the only sentence in Tang poetry that can be used to describe her, she is so beautiful!
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That's it, I like it, and he likes it. We have been together for a long time, and I want to say to him, for the rest of your life, please advise more.
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My Fair Lady, Gentleman. This sentence is perfect to describe my girlfriend, my girlfriend is not only kind-hearted and helpful, but also quite beautiful and has a super body, so I fell in love with her at first sight when I first met her, and I was really satisfied to be able to get together with her! I will also cherish the relationship between us even more!
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Its shape is also, fluttering like a frightening Hong, graceful like a swimming dragon, Rong Yao autumn chrysanthemum, Huamao spring pine.
The hair is like the moon covered by light clouds, and the fluttering is like the snow of the flowing wind.
Looking at it from afar, it is as bright as the sun rising in the morning glow. Forced to observe it, the scorching waves appeared.
The fiber is heartfelt, and the fit is shortened. If the shoulders are cut, the waist is as plain.
Stretch the neck of the show, the quality of the dew, the fragrance is not added, the lead Huafu Yu. The clouds are elegant, the eyebrows are trimmed, the lips are long, and the teeth are fresh. Bright eyes are good, Jing assists in inheriting power, is beautiful, and is quiet and leisurely.
Tenderness and flattery in words. The strange clothes are magnificent, and the bone image should be drawn. The brilliance of the cloth, the brilliance of the Yaobi. Wear gold and emerald jewelry, embellished with pearls to show off your body. Practice the literature of the long journey, and drag the light of the fog.
The fragrance of the faint orchid is beautiful, and it hesitates in the corner of the mountain. So he suddenly indulged in the body, in order to play. Leaning on the left and picking the flag, the right shade the laurel flag. Hold your wrist in the gods and pick the turbulent Xuanzhi.
With "Luo Shen Fu" with a girlfriend, excellent.
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Li Bai's "Clear Water Out of Hibiscus, Natural Carving", I think this is most in line with my girlfriend's temperament, my girlfriend looks like she really has a temperament that is not stained by mud, her temperament is like a lotus, her appearance is like a lotus, and her face is also beautiful without makeup, which gives me the feeling that she is a clear water hibiscus.
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