Why are guys reluctant to fall in love with a girl who has only had one boyfriend for a few years

There is a well-known classic line in "Journey to the West": "Once, there was a sincere love in front of me, I didn't cherish it, and I regretted it when I lost it, and the most painful thing in the world is nothing more painful." It is true that people always splurge when they have it and regret it when they lose it.

If you realize the importance of a relationship that is about to pass away, then take a look at the following methods to see if they work.

First of all, you need to make sure that you want to redeem her out of sincerity, not unwillingness to lose something that you have but are going to lose. Some people seem reluctant and miserable when the other person is leaving, not because they love the other person so much, but because they are afraid of losing and feel unwilling. It's like a toy that you didn't use when you were a child, even if you don't play with it, you don't want to be taken by others.

If you're genuine, then it's time to reflect on why you've let your girlfriend down and what you're not doing well enough. Usually a girl doesn't love someone for a moment, and when she decides to leave, she must have accumulated too much disappointment. The reason for this disappointment is obviously not a small matter, it is likely that even if you find it, it is difficult to get rid of it at once, which requires your firm determination and strong perseverance.

If you're ready for all of the above, go and apologize to your girlfriend sincerely and tell her about your decision and remorse. And let the other party give you a chance, if she agrees, you work hard to change, be a qualified boyfriend, and she will forgive you after seeing your change.

If she doesn't want to turn back, don't force it. During the period of separation, you can improve yourself, become better, and when you become a better person, you can get your girlfriend back, and when she sees a new you, she will naturally have a good impression of you.

Usually girls are disappointed and want to leave, and they will not easily turn back because of your few words, which can be a long-term tug-of-war, so if you are determined to redeem it, you must be mentally prepared and do not let it go easily.

Because such girls feel that the requirements for falling in love are relatively high, and boys will feel unworthy.

This is just a few people's mentality, abuse is not necessarily not single-minded, single-mindedness is not necessarily not abusive, if you meet the right person, you will be together with your heart.

Maybe think you're a good girl and afraid to hurt you.

In this case, there can be many reasons why a guy has a girlfriend but says to another girl that he doesn't fall in love, and here are some possible explanations:

The guy has a crush on another girl, but doesn't want to admit that he has a girlfriend. He may want to make another girl think that he is hungry in a single hole, so that he can get close to her or try to develop a relationship with her.

The boy's girlfriend does not know that he is having an affair or dating with another girl, so he claims to be single in front of the other girl to avoid arousing his girlfriend's jealousy or causing unnecessary quarrels.

The relationship between the guy and his girlfriend has become estranged or problematic, and he may want to try to develop a new Najan relationship with another girl, so he claims to be single in front of the other girl.

In either case, a guy saying to another limb girl that he is not in a relationship can have a negative impact on the relationship. If he already has a girlfriend but lies to other girls, this behavior is usually immoral and irresponsible, and can hurt the feelings of multiple people.

It can only show that this boy is very attentive, obviously he already has a girlfriend, and he also said that he doesn't have a noisy girlfriend, what does he look like, he is very hypocritical, a very flowery person, only Lu Neng said this about him.

Because, growing up with him may hurt himself, whether it is a boy or a girl, the first time you fall in love, you will always be very nervous, just like a student exam, the first exam is always very nervous, and you will not be nervous if you get more exams, no matter how you take the exam, you will show a light and breezy look.

Love is the best school, which can exercise a person's emotional intelligence and adaptability, so boys and girls will always say that they will meet you later, and you will be you for the rest of their lives. How nice it would be to practice with someone you don't love so much before you fall in love with someone you love.

The difference between a person who has been in love and who has not been in love, look at these five points:

1.People who have been in love will be generous with each other; People who have never been in a relationship will be nervous and shy with each other.

2.People who have been in love will not care too much about the physical contact between two people, and people who have not been in love will have a different feeling once they accidentally touch each other's limbs.

3.People who have been in love are more likely to coax people when they see each other angry, and people who have not been in love will feel helpless when they see each other angry, and they will not understand why the other person is so angry.

4.People who have been in love will pay more attention to their appearance, girls will dress themselves up more exquisitely, and boys will make themselves look stylish; People who have never been in a relationship don't pay attention to dressing themselves, girls dress ordinary, and boys dress casually.

5.People who have been in love are more rational and pay attention to the feeling of two people together; People who have never been in a relationship are more concerned about their feelings and tend to do things that move them at all costs.

1. Boys who have never been in love are more wooden. Second, I won't feel sorry for others. Third, it is more boring to be together. Fourth, I don't know what to do when I go out. Fifth, he generally doesn't please girls.

Because people have to go through some things to mature, they have never been in love, just a stunned boy, they don't understand the minds of girls, they only know how to love blindly, and they don't know how to please girls.

After a guy has been in love many times, he will not be unconcerned about his next girlfriend, because the previous girlfriends are in the past. Because of previous experiences and lessons, boys are doubly friendly to current women.

There is a real possibility. After all, everyone's energy is limited, and if he pays too much in the previous relationship, he may indeed be a little overwhelmed and easily tired in the next relationship.

Yes, because after falling out of love many times, you will doubt your feelings, stop being so serious, and don't want to give too much.

That's for sure, the first time I talked about it many times, it shows that this person is just playing with feelings, and he doesn't care about it.

You're definitely not the only one, there are still a lot of boys who don't want to fall in love, and I'm one of them, without financial support, I can't afford to fall in love.

There are many boys who don't want to fall in love, most of them are busy with their work and careers, and they don't have extra time to fall in love, or they think that falling in love is a waste of time and will affect their work or career. So you don't have to make a fuss, it's normal.

Not necessarily, some boys have low self-esteem because of poor economic conditions, and they don't want to fall in love.

Do you feel like you can't afford it? Or do you just have a dislike for girls? I think you're a bit of a bad idea.

You won't be the only one. Many people find it troublesome to fall in love and don't want to talk about it? There are such people.

Personal circumstances are different, and there are many people who don't want to fall in love.

No, there are a lot of boys who don't want to fall in love, how fun the game is.

No, many boys don't like to fall in love now, and they still haven't met the person who makes your eyes light up.

Why do so many guys not like to be in a relationship now? It's because the cost of boys pursuing girls is gradually rising. Because there are too many places to spend money in love, you have to send cosmetics for girls, and you have to prepare a "520" red envelope for the Qixi Festival......There are so many such expenses.

Therefore, the more these boys give, the more worried they are about not getting something in return, and even lose everything for the girls, but the girls end up holding hands with others. In this way, the boy's past effort has become an irreparable loss.

Boys who have been hurt like this or who have friends around them who have had such an experience unconsciously begin to get used to working and studying quietly alone, and do not want to be disturbed by the so-called sad love, and do not want to be disturbed by a quiet life. When these boys are used to being alone, it is a challenge for them to fall in love or get along with girls.

There should be a lot of guys who don't want to fall in love, and they don't find the right one, so for sure, don't talk about it.

My girl has always been single, it's not that she doesn't want to talk, it's that she hasn't met someone she likes, how can you not want to meet someone you like? I just didn't meet the one that made you feel it.

And me, I don't want to fall in love, either I can't find it or I don't want to, I don't want my girlfriend to spend my money, etc.

This is not necessarily. There are many reasons why guys don't want to fall in love, and you won't be the only one.

It's good to be alone, I feel like it's a waste of time to fall in love haha.

There may be a lot of people who don't want to be tied down by love.

There are a lot of people who don't want to fall in love, and sometimes it's good to be single.

No, if you want to fall in love, you can take a break when you want to fall in love, and you may wait for a girl.

Guys don't want to fall in love, you're not the only one, there are a lot.

No, many boys don't really want to fall in love, one is because they want to devote themselves to their careers, and the other thinks that they are fine alone.

There are a lot of people who don't want to fall in love, and it's better to be single if you don't have time and energy.

She just wants to find the feeling of being in love, she lacks love, but she doesn't really love you, she is very conflicted, but she can't do without the original partner, she is very selfish, she is looking for the love she is missing, you are just a substitute. As a boy, you have to understand that there will be no result, don't be sad, choose to leave, and find your own happiness!

If you don't fall in love, you get married, right, slowly corrupt it, how about it I don't need to say.

will think that the girl is unreliable and flowery.

The possibilities are:

1. With the mentality of having fun, accompany the spare tire first. At the same time, pay attention to finding a marriage partner.

2. I thought I would influence the girl, so I paid silently. As for whether it will be able to hold on, it is unknown.

3. I feel that I can't waste my precious youth on a hopeless goal, so I turn around and leave.

4. You may think in your heart, "Maybe the girl said this to let herself fall in love without pressure?" Then get along for a while? ”

It is estimated that the feelings are in place, but the family background is not in place.

She plays with me! Or the boy will think that this could be a test.