What are the simple truths that you know that few people understand?

Crying children have milk to eat, and the simple and direct management methods of parents' children when they are young will make children have a pleasing personality, and they are extremely sensitive and have low self-esteem. If you see a child who is very sensible and like an adult, then he is this kind of person and did not run. Well, that's me, when I was a child, my family was not rich, and my family repeatedly taught me that my family had no money, and my parents worked hard to earn money, so don't spend money indiscriminately, don't make trouble, we are poor.

My parents have been working to make money, and I have become very "mature" and never ask my parents for this or that. Compared to my cousin, my aunt has been grinding for more than a month for a game machine, to be honest, I am very envious, not that I don't want it, because I know that my family has no money, and it is not easy for my parents to earn money, so I ran to his house to watch him play when I had nothing to do. And I never ask to play with me for a while, because I have low self-esteem.

So what leads to me now, a lot of things, if I find that I can't get it, my first reaction is not how to find a way to get him, but I don't want it anymore. I'm much more sensitive than a girl - I can tell a person's inner thoughts by the speed and tone of their voice, although I never know if I'm right or not, and even more so in a circle, I can easily tell who's acting and who's saying something insincere. The reaction to being criticized by the leader is that the leader is really a big fool, and I can really be sad for several days, instinctively caring about other people's attitudes, eyes, and other people's unintentional words can make me feel depressed for a long, long time.

I will never be vague about doing things for others, and I will blame myself if I don't do it well. Instinctively resist socializing but want to have a friend, but because it is easy to hurt inside, he will reject people thousands of miles away.

It is really undignified to wag your tail and beg for mercy in the process of pursuing girls, and girls often do not appreciate boys who have no self-esteem. I used to like a person, I always liked to work too hard, I wanted to open a WeChat chat every day, I wanted to ask her out to meet every day, I was always suspicious, she replied a little late, and she would feel that she didn't annoy her, and then quickly apologized, in fact, this is a sign of lack of confidence. In a normal and good romantic relationship, both men and women should be equal in personality and trust each other.

Begging can't get love, the right way should be to show your strengths, put yourself on an equal footing with her, and make her pay attention to you. Even if they chat and meet, they are not attacking the city alone, and the two sides are politely tempting each other. It's a pity that when I understand this truth, the girl who wanted not to marry her has lost contact.

Now I am a little cautious and do not dare to take the initiative to show favor, probably because I don't want to relive the feeling of losing my relationship and dignity together. I'd rather be single than beg for love anymore.

Occasionally, I read such a sentence in a book: "A good relationship is never when I walk ninety-nine steps and you stand still, but when I open my arms, you can run towards me." It is true that a good relationship should be mutual, but many people can't do it, they stumble in the relationship, but later found out that as long as they can echo each other, this relationship can stay together.

I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. An ancient saying that has been known since childhood, the richer the experience, the more you can recognize this sentence. Those who can say this sentence calmly are all well-thought-out, methodical, and strategic.

The corners of Jiang Wen's mouth rose to make up for the brain: "Let the bullets fly for a while!" Of course, making a fortune in silence is also a truth that the richer the experience, the more recognized it is; But if I say it here, in fact, I won't be "muffled", and I may not be able to make a fortune!

That is, the "muffled paradox"!

There is poetry and writing in the belly. If you think that you are not good-looking, with makeup and crippled hands, and all kinds of bad things, please remember this sentence! You must know that there is Yan Ruyu in the book, not blown, many people ask how the temperament comes, mine is to read books and see the world, but unfortunately many of us don't have the time to look at the time and increase experience.

It doesn't matter if you read a book (physical book), you have poetry and books in your belly, and books can give you not only a temperament but also an interesting soul.

Ordinary people are afraid of the fruit, and the bodhisattva is afraid of the cause. Before doing something, you should be aware of your own motivation, don't think about whether you need to do this thing with too much purpose, for the sake of a result, doing something may bring more negative effects, putting the cart before the horse.

When encountering things, you must be calm and calm, this principle is very simple but not easy to do.

For example, like this principle of not doing to others what you do not want to do to yourself, you should really know how to do it, you should learn more, how to get along with others, and so on.

If you are not afraid of slowness, you are afraid of standing. My mother taught me, and I wrote it on the table when I was in graduate school, in fact, my procrastination stems from ADHD, if I can quietly stick to what I should do, how slow can I be? It's still numb, write **, don't stop.

The daughter-in-law is always an outsider, do her duty and be nosy! In this way, there will be a lot less conflicts in the family! Live your own life at ease!

Regardless of age, appearance, and gender, everyone's IQ and EQ are almost the same. The basket of the person with high talent is particularly large, so the hero suffers a lot. The same goes for people with good family backgrounds.

I remember the sentence most clearly, that is, if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you, and you will not understand this sentence until you grow up.

The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait. When you were young, you didn't understand this, and by the time you do, it may be too late, so cherish the time when your parents are still there.

The easier it is to get, the less people tend to cherish it, and the more it can't get, the more people tend to want it.

Loneliness, explained in Chinese characters, lonely is the king, Dufan let the code is unique, the unique king must always accept loneliness, he does not need to accept anyone's recognition, let alone anyone's pity, the king can definitely walk alone in a very calm environment. Loneliness does not appear when you are depressed or in love, that feeling is just emptiness and loneliness, and it cannot be called loneliness. Loneliness is a state, a state of harmony, the real slippery loneliness is noble, lonely people are thinkers, when a person is lonely, his state which thoughts are free, he is facing the real self, all human thoughts come from here.

The lonely man, no matter what kind of environment he is in, he can make himself quiet, he can enjoy himself.

There is no absolute empathy in the world, only self-knowledge.

There are many unpleasant things in a person's life, but we must remember not to affect the happiness for a long time because of a moment of unhappiness.

When I have no worries, poverty for me is just the difference between eating steamed buns at night and eating steak, which does not affect my happiness, and when I fall in love with someone, I deeply feel the inferiority brought by poverty.

I'm not in a hurry to fall in love, because I want to be single for a long time and change to someone who has been together for a long, long time."

Objectively speaking, people live is to experience the process from birth to death, everyone is like this, subjectively speaking, according to your personal experience, environment, how you want to live, what you want to achieve, how your experience is, pain is the normal state of life, don't live in vain, suffering is life.

True love is the achievement of each other, not impulsive, love is not to make either party grovel, and it will not make you anxious and panic, because your joys, sorrows and sorrows can be shared with him You don't have to be afraid of loneliness You have to believe that she is always there This is love.

It is useless for a man to revolve around a woman all day long. Love is just a part of life, there are always people who think too highly of love, in fact, people have to establish their own spiritual world, so that others can rely on stability, rather than relying on others all day long. Life is precious, love is more valuable, if it is for freedom, both can be thrown.

Freedom: It is to do what you want to do, not to care about the opinions of the outside world, to follow your heart, and to work hard in what you believe in. Don't always put your mind on women, when you are attractive, someone will naturally love you.

Glamour and money are incompatible most of the time. Men always think that they are poor women who will leave them, but they don't know that they are not only poor but also useless. Affectionate drinking water is saying that women like men, not that men like women!

There is no reason because you are a man. You have to be independent, you have to make yourself a mountain for others to rely on, and you can't always tell where you are.

Understand some truths and live happily.

1.Good will be rewarded with good, evil will be rewarded with evil, it is not that it will not be reported, the time has not yet come.

2.We can't be the ones who make people celebrate, at least be kind people.

3.Don't do one set in front of the face and one on the back, be a person first.

4.There is nothing we can do to change the past, the only thing we can do is to take every step of the present.

5.Go to bed early and wake up early.

6.When necessary, give up something.

7.Every child comes from an angel.

8.Don't live in memories, no matter how beautiful the memories are, they are only the past.

9.To deny oneself is to learn to affirm oneself.

10.Live your life well, and everything is fine.

11.Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and we must learn to be tolerant.

12.If you can't get into the circle, don't think about how well you can mix in it.

13.Be a gentle person.

14.Life doesn't have to be black and white, and there's a lot we don't know.

15.Give a dog a bad name and hang him.

16.Gentlemen are harmonious but different.

17.My life is a little more exciting.

18.Seeing clearly that a person is easy to say, but difficult to say.

19.You have to admit that you are not good at some comprehensions, don't slap your swollen face and become fat, and make nonsense in the areas that others are good at.

20.Love yourself.

You still don't understand that people will be hungry if they don't eat, and when they are full, they wonder why they are hungry before eating. If so, I still don't understand.

If you haven't traveled the road, you don't understand how far away it will be. If you haven't seen the scenery, you don't understand how beautiful it will be. If you haven't gone through the ups and downs, you don't understand how much you want peace.

It will be a personal experience, a sincere understanding, and an accurate notification. Jiao Chun is young and not afraid of failure, and he has learned a lesson from failure, and he will know a little more truth. And, when people are old, there is one more memory.

People will always encounter a road that doesn't work, and occasionally they will enter a dead end, as long as they know how to quit, it's a big deal for Suiwu to choose a new path. As the saying goes, all roads lead to Rome, perhaps because the young mood is so anxious that they will feel that the road is too far away and give up easily. In fact, the days are quite long, as long as the direction is right, there will always be smooth sailing.

If you don't take your own steps firmly, when you get old, you will find yourself still in the same place. Even if you understand this truth, it will not help.

Being young and promising is the truth that should be understood the most.