How to deal with people who show superiority in the circle of friends?

First of all, really good people don't bother to show because they are busy making themselves better. Is it possible that someone else unintentionally dresses and speaks, causing you to feel sensitive and inferior? Then, people who are not strong enough may pretend to fill their own lack of self-confidence.

Such a person can't be looked down on, so it's better to show him. If he just shows, doesn't hit, belittles you, why stop someone else from showing? That's his right.

If you can't get used to it, you can be less wordy, you can block the circle of friends, the best thing is to live a happier and higher quality of life, it's too late to work hard, how can you have time to refute others all day long.

Understand love to show off friends. Often the simpler the heart, the more accustomed they like to dress themselves up through other external materials. In fact, they are not bad, often such people are very kind at heart, you should be most careful of the kind of people who usually say hello to me and often praise you for no reason, this kind of person may also be the most insidious person.

He said that he had money and bought an iPhoneX, you can ask him, then why don't you buy a more expensive phone? He said that he went to see the paintings, and you said that you liked it so much, why didn't there be an appreciation of the paintings, and there were no paintings of you to exhibit. He said, he has money, you say it's your parents' money, how much money can you make.

Friend, the best counterattack of a man who shows superiority is to flatter him. For example, he said that he bought a headset of more than 2,000 headphones, and you say, oh my God, it's so good-looking, only this can set off your aristocratic temperament, rainbow fart learn, real people hear this kind of brainless touting, it's actually very difficult to accept. Next time, it is estimated that it will be difficult to blow in front of you.

Learn to praise others from the bottom of your heart. Regardless of whether the other party is deliberately showing off to you, but be optimistic about what the other party says, and express your praise sincerely and objectively. Only then will your friends last long.

Calm down, learn to use the other party's points to show off, try to use his points to show off once, if he is very bold to lend you, then this friend can continue to make friends. If he's just asking you to see, stay away from such friends as soon as possible.

When I encounter this kind of person, I block it directly, they just want to attract the attention of others and get the praise of others, the more they ignore it, the more anxious they are.

Such a person is just to show his ability, as long as he doesn't look at it, he will be treated as if he doesn't know, and it is enough to be himself.

There is no need to refute, look at his actual actions, look at a person, just look at his details to judge what will happen to his person. That's a little bit of my opinion.

I think this is a show off, and you can selectively ignore things that have nothing to do with you.

Some people love to show off what they lack more than they lack, while some people just share their daily life, but in the eyes of some people, it becomes showing off, because the more they lack something, the more they feel that others are showing off.

I don't think it matters if it's a show or not, maybe it's just the normal life of others, just treat it with a normal heart.

If your friend is always showing superiority and belittles you, you must take action at this time, otherwise it will be very uncomfortable for you to belittle you like this for a long time, and you will also indulge in his bad habits.

Say it clearly.

First of all, you should make it clear to him that you are very unhappy with his behavior. I think everyone is very unhappy when they start to be belittled, if you don't say it to him in the first place, he still thinks that you are silently accepting all this and admitting what he has done, so when you start to belittle you, you should say it to him face to face and stop him from doing this, this god is like this, even if he is good, he is embarrassed to belittle you again.

Keep your distance. Secondly, you can keep a certain distance from this friend. After all, she always thinks that she is very good, but he thinks it himself, maybe he is not so good, and he doesn't treat you as a friend at all, but just treats you as an object of ridicule, such a person is not worthy of long-term relationship with him, it is better to stay away from him.

Make yourself excellent too.

Third, maybe your friend is really good, if that's the case, you have to work harder, because as a friend, he can be excellent, why can't you? Even if you are not as good as him, you must make yourself harder and more progressive, so that even if there is a gap with others, you will have a clear conscience for yourself, because you have worked hard and struggled.

In fact, there are many people in this society who are not necessarily completely equal, some people are excellent, some people work hard, and some people are successful, so naturally there will be people who are lower, but if you are always belittled by them, it must be uncomfortable, so you must take corresponding measures yourself.

I once saw a very shocking experiment: the experimenter placed 32 pendulums with completely different frequencies, and after just a few minutes, they could naturally adjust the frequency to the same frequency.

In fact, everything in the world is connected, and so are people.

Thrushes and sparrows have different voices, and golden roosters and crows have different nests.

As Zeng Guofan said: "Life or failure is all about the merit of friends, and you must not be careless." ”

We don't have the right to decide where we come from, but we can choose who we are with.

I remember that there is such a record in "The World Speaks New Words".

Jia Pingwa once wrote in "Game World":

The circle of friends is actually the world of your life, and your struggle for fame and fortune is the history of your friends' good and bad. ”

Appreciating a person begins with appearance, respect for talent, character, kindness, and finally character.

Although the circle is small, it is good to be clean.

Really smart people know how to keep the circle of friends pure. Only in this way can we find mentors and helpful friends among thousands of people.

1. The number of visitors to the circle of friends is large.

2. The circle of friends can show our personality.

Everyone has a unique personality, and in the past, it was difficult for us to let others notice our personality and attitude towards life, but this is not the case with a circle of friends, because people can express their opinions to many people with just a finger touch. Some people learn about others through the circle of friends, and it is precisely because of this that the circle of friends is more important.

All in all, it is precisely because of the large number of visitors in the circle of friends that it can play a role in highlighting our personality and allowing us to meet more like-minded friends, so it is very important that we need to conceive words and sentences before we post on the circle of friends, so that others can understand our views on life or things more clearly.

If you want to start a business and do something but lack resources, having a good circle of friends can solve a series of problems, which can help you in the snow.

Because the excellent circle of friends makes others not seem bored, but also feel novel, and they will also have admiration for themselves.

Because people are greatly influenced by their surroundings, if your friends around you are very good, then it can motivate you and you become very good.

Because of the excellent circle of friends, you can understand the excellence of others, work hard to learn, and motivate yourself.