2010 was the year of widowhood Is it okay to get married and ask for help

Don't be superstitious, fate is in your own hands, if you decide to be together, you can cherish each other, if you don't even cherish yourself, it won't last long in good days. Bless you all.

This month is an auspicious month for the two of you to get married--excellent, no disadvantage for your opposition sun!

In March 2010, the auspicious day of the zodiac waiting for you two to get married is:

You can choose to avoid public holidays after the day).

2010-03-03 Wednesday 18th of the first lunar month Bingwu (Chong Ma)2010-03-06 Saturday 21st of the first lunar month Ji You (Chong Chicken)2010-03-09 Tuesday 24th of the first lunar month 壬子 (Chong Rat)2010-03-10 Wednesday 25th of the first lunar month 癸Chou (Chong Niu)2010-03-16 Tuesday 01 of the first lunar month Ji Wei (Chong Yang)2010-03-22 Monday 07 of the second lunar month 2010-03-25 Thursday 10th Lunar Month Wuchen (Chonglong)2010-03-27 Saturday 2010-02 12th Lunar Month Gengwu (Chongma)2010-03-30 Tuesday 15th Lunar Month (Chongji)I wish you all happiness!

If you like it, you can find any day.

It's useless for you to have two hearts looking for an auspicious day.

It's not a letter, and those who should come will always come, and no matter how much they count, they can't escape.

OK! Best to get married on 2013 1 4! Desirable!

Are all young people believing in these things every year?

Some local traditions in China call the "year of widows" and "blind years" the year of "no spring" and that this kind of year is not suitable for marriage, and this statement has no scientific basis. With the continuous development of social civilization, these superstitious sayings will be gradually abandoned by people.

"Spring" refers to the fact that there is no solar term of the beginning of spring in that year (lunar year), so how is "no spring" formed? According to astronomical researchers, the solar terms belong to the solar calendar category according to its essence, and are formulated by the law of the earth's revolution around the sun, and the earth's revolution is 360 degrees of ecliptic longitude, counting the sky, and when the earth reaches zero degrees of ecliptic longitude, it is determined as the vernal equinox, and then there is a solar term every 15 degrees, with a total of 24 solar terms. The lunar calendar is based on the law of the moon's waxing and waning, with a normal year of 12 months, a major month of 30 days, and a small month of 29 days, a total of 354 or 355 days in the year, about 11 days less than the solar year.

In order to harmonize the lunar seasons with the solar calendar, China has adopted the method of "seven leap months in 19 years" to "improve" the lunar calendar since the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, that is, 7 leap months are inserted in 19 years, so that the leap year of the lunar calendar has 383 days or 384 days, which is about 19 days more than the solar year. Therefore, all leap years in the lunar calendar have two beginning of spring (such as this year), and there may naturally be no "beginning of spring" in ordinary years. Therefore, whether it is "no spring", "double spring" or "single spring", it is only a "yin and yang error" between the lunar calendar and the solar calendar, which is caused by the different calendars formulated by human beings, and does not affect the cycle of the four seasons.

That's nonsense! Don't believe it!

So what does it matter, it's fine.

In 2010, there was no spring, which is known in China as the Year of the Widow, and was considered "unlucky" by those who were preparing to get married. Faced with the 2010 Year of the Widow, many Chinese parents began to be afraid, and a new round of "marriage urging" began.

Many young people are beginning to wonder if they have not decided to get married, but the countdown to the year of widowhood is approaching, should they rush to marry for the so-called "auspicious day for marriage". Bao is one of them, she said: "Our parents have already arranged the marriage for us, and we are waiting for the wine to be celebrated."

But I'm really worried, we haven't known each other for less than half a year, and we don't know each other well, plus we live and work separately, and I really don't know how to marry such a person. But the parents of both sides said that our family background, education, appearance, and all aspects of the conditions are comparable, and we will be a happy couple when we get married, and they feel that we are both almost 23 years old, and next year is the year of our birth, if we don't get married this year, at least we have to wait for two more years, which is too wasteful. So I'm hesitant now.

It's annoying, and it would be nice not to have the 'Year of the Widow'. At least I don't have that kind of psychological burden. ”

Many girls like Bao are currently annoyed at the end of the year: they are not going to get married, but they are going to be "married". In China, there have always been many people who have been "married" in the so-called "good years" and "bad years":

I didn't really want to get married, but I caught up with the double spring year, which was very auspicious, and I got married in a daze for this good luck; It's not that I really think it's time to get married, but the next year is the year of the widow, it's unlucky and unlucky, if you don't get married this year, you have to wait another year, hurry up and get married!

But every couple who gets married in a hurry always discovers a whole bunch of problems after marriage. Chinese women who are in a hurry to marry will always get married for all kinds of reasons that have nothing to do with them: if the friends around me are married, I have to get married; My relatives are urging me to get married, so I have to get married; For the sake of materiality, for luck, for the unpredictable future, I choose to get married and take a gamble!

The key to a happy marriage for a couple of men and women is to see whether both parties really understand what marriage is like and whether they have enough responsibility for their life after marriage. In addition, the so-called selection of the year to see the day, is just a psychological comfort, in the widow's year, may not have been married for a long time loving couple, for a good year, hurriedly to marry, this can be 10,000 times more hurtful than the widow's year!

Some local traditions in our country refer to the "no spring" year as "".

Year of the Widow. There is no scientific basis for the statement that this kind of year is not suitable for marriage. With.

Social civilization. These superstitious claims will gradually be discarded.

"Spring" refers to the fact that there is no solar term of the beginning of spring in that year (lunar year), so how is "no spring" formed? According to astronomical researchers, the solar terms belong to the solar calendar in essence, and are formulated according to the law of the earth's revolution around the sun, and the earth rotates.

One week for. Yellow meridian.

360 degrees, counting days, when the earth reaches zero degrees of yellow longitude, it is set as the vernal equinox, and then there is a solar term every 15 degrees, altogether.

Twenty-four solar terms.

The lunar calendar is formulated according to the law of the moon's waxing and waning, and it is a common year.

It is 12 months, with 30 days for the big month and 29 days for the small month, for a total of 354 or 355 days in the year, which is about 11 days less than the solar year. In order to harmonize the lunar seasons with the solar calendar, China has adopted the "seventeenth year seven" since the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period.

Leap month. The method of "improving" the lunar calendar, i.e. inserting 7 leap months in 19 years, so that the lunar calendar.

Leap year. That's 383 or 384 days, which is about the most than the Gregorian year.

19 days. Therefore, all leap years in the lunar calendar have two beginning of spring (such as this year), and there may naturally be no "beginning of spring" in ordinary years. Therefore, regardless of "no spring", ".

Double Spring. Or "single spring" is just a "yin and yang error" between the lunar calendar and the solar calendar, which is caused by different calendars formulated by human beings, and does not affect the cycle of the four seasons.

84 Jiazi Rat, 85 Yi Chou Niu.

According to Zhou Yi, marriage must be in the month of Dali, and the month of profit must be determined according to the woman's zodiac.

In ancient times, the month of marriage was very particular, and the following is a list of the months of marriage

Rats, horses, cattle and sheep, tigers, monkeys, chickens, rabbits, dragons, dogs, snakes, pigs.

Rio Month 3, 9

Matchmaker 2, 8

Aunt Weng 1, 7

Hinder the parents and the husband

Hindering the woman: The month of your marriage is in the lunar month.

12/12/16 Zodiac Sunday Sanhe Chong 6-year-old pig.

June 13, 4 Thursday, July 11, 11th of the solar calendar, rushed to the 22-year-old monkey.

On Wednesday 10 and 17, the 16-year-old tiger was rushed.

19 26 Friday 7-year-old pigs.

22 Monday 29 rush 4-year-old tiger.

December 8 January 8 Wednesday 21-year-old chicken.

11 11 Saturday 18-year-old rats.

19 19 Sunday 10-year-old monkey.

22 22nd Wednesday 7-year-old pigs.

These days are the best auspicious days for your month.

Wishing you all happiness and happiness!

As long as you truly love each other. It is the most ideal and auspicious!

Be yourself.

The first month of the new year is an auspicious day every day.

I sincerely wish you all a long time!

As long as two people love each other, then get married whenever you want, there are no taboos, I wish you happiness!

Don't believe in these things, get married when you need to get married.

There are many theories about the widow's year, but one of the most common is that the widow's year is not suitable for marriage. Folklore experts believe that the claim that the "Year of the Widow" is not suitable for marriage is absurd and has no scientific basis at all.

Folklore experts believe that the "widow's year" circulated in society refers to the year when there is no beginning of spring in the entire lunar year. To be precise, it is not that there was no beginning of spring in 2010, but that there was no beginning of spring in the year of Gengyin in the lunar calendar. It is also the year of Jichou and there are two springs, not 2009.

The beginning of spring is always on February 4 of the Gregorian calendar every year. The Chinese New Year is always around it. And when the Spring Festival is after the beginning of spring, it is possible that there will be no beginning of spring this year.

This is the relationship between the lunar calendar, and there is nothing good or bad. The widow's year "no beginning of spring" is only caused by the difference in time of different calendars, and it is impossible to affect the cycle of the four seasons, let alone affect personal life.

This year is the Year of the Ox, the Year of the Ox, the Year of the Double Spring, February 4, 2010, and the day is December 21, 2009. In this way, there is no solar term of the beginning of spring in the lunar tiger year. According to reports, the 24 solar terms are based on the change of the position of the sun on the ecliptic and the evolution order of the ground climate caused by the change of the position of the sun in the ecliptic during the year, and divide the year into 24 equal parts, and give each equal part a name.

The presence or absence of the beginning of spring is only caused by the different rules between the lunar and solar calendars. The Spring Festival is calculated according to the lunar calendar, the earliest appears on January 20, and the latest even on February 20, and the beginning of spring is usually fixed around February 4 every year, so it is not uncommon for the beginning of spring to appear before the Spring Festival, for example, the beginning of spring in 1999 and 2000 were before the Spring Festival. In order to adapt to the changes in cold and summer and to be consistent with the Gregorian calendar, the lunar calendar also adopts the method of adding 7 leap months in 19 years, so that 7 out of every 19 years are "no spring years" that lack the beginning of spring, 7 years are "double spring years", and the other 5 years are "single spring years".

Experts said that Qinglu, "widows should not marry" is just a superstitious saying in history, there is no scientific reason, everyone can laugh at it, and marriage is not wrong.

Please refer to the happiness of marriage has nothing to do with these, the key is to get along with two people.