What is it like to live with the elderly? What is it like to live with seniors?

I feel quite happy, and it is a meaningful life to be able to spend their old age with the elderly.

My mother-in-law can't afford to buy a house for my husband as a wedding house, so I can only live with my mother-in-law in a small house, and I'm not unhappy.

When you meet a sensible mother-in-law to live together, you can support and help each other, and when you meet a bad mother-in-law, that is the beginning of a nightmare.

I think it's good to live with the elderly, after all, they tell us every day to go to bed early and wake up early.

After getting married, I lived with my grandmother for 20 years, my grandmother was a hardworking person, she was very good to me and my husband, she cooked meals every day and waited for us to come back from work to eat, and she didn't even let us wash the bowls after eating. My husband's socks and grandmothers washed them, saying that I didn't wash them cleanly, so I had to wash both the front and back, so I just made do with it. Grandma didn't say anything when she saw it, so she washed it herself.

When it's cold, we change the thick quilt, take out the thin quilt when it's hot, and when we come back from work, we see that the sheets have been changed and washed. The fruit was cut into pieces and divided into two bowls, I was afraid that I would eat them all and not leave them for my husband. It's really happy to think about it, she left last year, 94 years old, but she was too old, and she didn't feel wronged or guilty when she left.

Everyone persuaded me that my grandmother was already long-lived, and I knew it, but I really couldn't bear her. Miss her, especially think.

I can only say that the relationship was very good, but now I basically don't speak, I just sleep together at night, play with my own mobile phone, man, always with his parents, he won't stand in your position and think, and I don't want to quarrel anymore.

I grew up with my grandparents, and although they love me very much, I still want to complain about them. One time I bought ripped jeans and put them on the couch at home, and then I went to sleep, and when I woke up, I found my grandmother sitting on the couch and helped me get a pair of ripped jeans, and he saw me and told me that if I can't do it, we will buy a new one.

Grandparents live together, and they have been instilled with the idea of being diligent and thrifty since childhood, so they are reluctant to buy anything new. Mom and Dad, uncles and aunts bought them new things, and they were reluctant to use them. It's a big room full of stuff right now.

Let them make them reluctant.

After my husband got married, I lived with my parents-in-law, we were still young, we had no children, we slept late at night, and we got up late in the morning, and my parents-in-law were very unhappy and thought that I was not a good daughter-in-law. I don't get up early every day and cook breakfast for my husband, they have a very serious feudal mentality, and I feel very distressed now.

Living with my in-laws, depressed, and finding various reasons to stay after work every day, I just don't want to go home.

I was pregnant until the child was two years old, and my mother-in-law lived with us I felt that I couldn't go on and wanted to divorce, but no one in their family refused to take the child, but because it was a boy, their family refused to let go, so it dragged on Those three years were the most painful three years in my 26 years, my mother-in-law was strong and unreasonable, and she loved to provoke us husband and wife, and she talked every day with thorns and soundproofers, no matter how good she was, it would only take an inch, and everything would be said to be lazy, just because I couldn't smell the smell of oil smoke and couldn't cook, everything depended on me, including her ** disease, and my husband also became a mother's treasure Because my mother-in-law said bad things about me outside again, I was angry and didn't want to talk My husband forced me to quarrel with me until my stomach hurt and he didn't react until I had a stomachache I have a big belly Now I don't have any feelings for my husband It's just that the child is small and I can't work, and he refuses to divorce, so he drags it out Because my mother-in-law doesn't care much about my hometown in our hometown, my grandfather in his eighties is now paralyzed Mother-in-law will go back to my hometown Our small family has a little temperature It's just cold and I don't want to cultivate a relationship with him Now my mother-in-law is looking forward to her father's death as soon as possible Her father's death Mother-in-law will definitely come to settle with us It was also the time when we divorced, and my mother-in-law and I couldn't live under the same roof, and if she was too old to move, or sick, we could live together, but she was less than fifty, and I didn't want to get depression anymore.

My parents are busy at work, and I usually live with my grandparents, who spoil me very much, and my grandparents will satisfy me whatever I want. My grandparents' house was full of my toys and clothes, and although I didn't use some of them, they would buy them for me as long as I liked them.

My grandparents have loved me since I was a child, and my grandfather was a reader who liked to watch the news and political stuff. But as a female college student, I like to watch TV dramas very much, and every time I watch TV dramas, my grandfather is very unhappy, and I teach not to watch these useless things, but to watch more news, facts, or something.

It's not very good, it's a little stressful, but I don't have to do housework and cooking, but I don't have the comfort of going home, I always feel like I'm living in someone else's house

My grandfather left, leaving my grandmother alone, I began to live with my grandmother, at the beginning there were a lot of uncomfortable places, for example, my grandmother washed dishes without detergent, just put it in the water bubbles, rub it with my hands and take it out, I used dish soap to wash the dishes grandma is a waste.

It feels good to live together with more people and lively, if you live with your husband a day to work and the baby is so lonely at home,

After I went to college, I began to love dressing up, I put on makeup and went out every day, I don't know why my grandfather hated me wearing makeup, every time he saw me put on makeup, he would say that I was going to take off my makeup, and as soon as I got home, he asked me to take off my makeup. He said that the smell of cosmetics was very choking, and told me to stay away from him.

Because the house price is too expensive, my husband and I have not bought a new house, renting a house everywhere to live, my parents-in-law know, very distressed, we let us live with them, to my parents-in-law's house, they are very good to me, I also do housework, they stop me from hurting me and treat me like my own daughter.

I think it's trendy, very fashionable, they think it's ugly, and they're always willing to buy it for me, the kind of red dress with big flowers. I thought it was very ugly, and they said I didn't understand aesthetics.

Living with my grandparents, they always go to bed early and rest at eight o'clock every day, but as a college student, I usually don't get out of class until after eight o'clock, how can I sleep so early. But my grandfather always asked me to have the same schedule as hers. They let me sleep with them when they slept.

I had no choice but to hide under the covers and secretly play with my phone.

It depends on what kind of person it is.

The old man can, and the in-laws will forget it first.

The urine does not flush the toilet, and sometimes the brush is full of

It's a little annoying when I'm there, but it's endless thoughts when I'm gone.

The experience of living with the elderly.

In recent years, due to the increasingly serious trend of social aging in China, the phenomenon of the elderly and the young living together has appeared in many families. While living with the elderly brings many benefits, there are also some inconveniences and confusions.

Living with seniors comes with a lot of benefits. First of all, in family life, the experience and wisdom of the elderly can help the young people to face the problems of life better. Secondly, although the elderly are not as physically as good as the young, they tend to pay more attention to a healthy diet and lifestyle, which is conducive to the health of the whole family.

In addition, living with the elderly is also conducive to the emotional exchange and communication of family members, which can increase the affection between family members.

However, there are also some inconveniences and confusions about living with the elderly who are poor at the skin. First of all, in daily life, older people may sometimes feel incomprehensible about the lifestyle and habits of young people, and may often educate or guide young people. In addition, the physical health and self-care ability of the elderly will gradually weaken with age, and they need the care and attention of family members.

Overall, there are many benefits to living with older people, but at the same time, more understanding and patience are required. We should respect the lifestyle and concept of the elderly, and we should also communicate with them, so that they can feel our respect and care, and work together to create a harmonious and happy family.

In fact, I think that after marriage, I should be independent and should not live with my parents, I think it will seriously affect our lifestyle, because young people and parents have different ideas, and there will be differences on many things, such as daily diet and daily life, as well as the education of children There will be serious conflicts, so I did not live with my parents.

1. There is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law generally occur after marriage and live under the same roof. Of course, the place where the man grew up in turn is not unfamiliar, but the woman is different.

When the new daughter-in-law comes to this strange family, she must be familiar with the environment, because she is not in her own home, and she cannot be unrestrained. If you get used to it as you like, you will be said by your mother-in-law more or less.

For example, I finally waited until Sunday to rest and wanted to sleep in the morning. If you used to be at home and wanted to sleep lazy, your parents should at most explain that you remember to have breakfast, and you won't talk about it behind your back.

And now in the other party's house, the mother-in-law will feel that she is too lazy, so she will know that she is too lazy to sleep, and she may also tell her relatives that she is not.

Second, the concept of children's education is inconsistent.

Living with your parents will always cause conflicts of one kind or another. After having a child, because of the difference in ideology between the two parties, there will be some problems in educating the child.

For example, as a child's mother or father, the child is required to finish his homework after returning home to play, and as the child's grandmother or grandfather, what they are most looking forward to is that their grandchildren and granddaughters come home from school.

As for children, they can't hold back when they play, they don't want to do their homework, and they don't have autonomy in learning. In this way, the child naturally develops bad habits. As a parent of a child, I can't stand it, although I know that the elders love the child, but I can't spoil it.

Parents are well aware of the importance of homeschooling, and bad habits are difficult to break once they are formed. If the concept of education is not consistent, the two sides will have conflicts when they live together.