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Keep yourself busy. I think you have to know why you have a negative mentality first, I think it's because you have entered a small society, and the ability of the people around you is either similar to you or better than you, so I have a kind of gap, if it is the kind of person with strong self-confidence and self-esteem, you may feel great pressure, and you will have jealousy, if you are the kind of person who is not good at relieving your emotions and will not release pressure, your mental condition will deteriorate, and you will become very negative. I don't have any interest in anything, and I'm not positive at all.
So, for different reasons, you have to treat it right. First of all, in terms of study, I have been instilled with the concept that as long as you don't fail the course, it is fine, but after the exam month, you will find that everyone is excellent, and you are passing, at this time I am very glad that I studied hard, because your grades are related to scholarships and other benefits.
So, don't give up because of your academic performance and feel negative, it's not too late to start, I mean before the junior year, because the freshman and sophomore years have finished the basics, and the junior year is going to prepare for the graduate school entrance examination, so take advantage of the time to be rich, hurry up and start making a study plan, and start to carry it out, and arrange your day to be full, so that when you come out of the library at night, there will be a sense of satisfaction and fulfillment, all so that you have the time to be negative?
There is also the negative attitude in interpersonal communication. There is only one person in our dormitory who has no department, every day, especially at the beginning and end of the semester, the five of us are super busy, only she is in the dormitory, and we have met a lot of people in a year, every college has, but she knows very few people, now I think she is a little negative about making friends, because she doesn't want to work hard to enter the department, this year's freshman year is coming, there will be new recruits, she can go but is not willing to go, saying that she has lost interest in these, and is downplayed.
I think she's just negative, because there has been no channel, so she's cowardly about interpersonal communication, this can't work, people can't live alone, otherwise there will be psychological problems, so you have to make friends, tens of thousands of people in a school, aren't you afraid of not making a few friends? You can participate in a lot of club activities, many club activities need outsiders, then you can go to sign up, participate in more activities, you can get to know people from different departments.
Regulate your negative mindset by being proactive, and don't wait for others to come to you.
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Now there are a lot of college students who don't tell me, I don't know what to do, when I was he was facing the matter of going to college negatively, that is not a good attitude, since it is going to school, you should be full of positive energy in your heart.
There is a saying that college is a place where gangsters can do it, I think what this classmate said is very wrong, and her kind of negative energy will affect his roommates or her classmates, you must know that college is a place to study, not a place for you to mess around, the reason why college is called university is because it is your last school, and it is also a school where you go to the highest grade, maybe the teacher is not particularly strict, but we have high self-discipline!
You can't leave the teacher alone, you just give up on yourself, besides, the teacher still wants to manage the students, but sometimes those bad students and teachers don't have so much effort to manage him, for example, I'm a sophomore now, I think my studies are still good, and my professional grades are still quite high, but do you know what I paid?
I really listened carefully in college, because it was different from high school, I was very fun-loving in high school, and now I went to a junior college, but now I have figured it out, if I don't study now, then I really don't have time to study, I will read books by myself almost every day when I come back, and sometimes I soak in the library alone for an afternoon, I feel that learning is sometimes really happy, when you learn, when you succeed in doing problems, it is really happy.
If you have this kind of negativity now, please remember to correct it, because you are spending your parents' money now, and you are now grown up, you are already an adult, you have to be responsible for what you do, learning this kind of thing is really up to you, I also believe that you can rely on your own changes and become not negative.
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First of all, you have to be confident, believe that you can do things well, and always talk to yourself in your heart and communicate with others.
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Since it is the main task of students is to study, negative emotions are nothing more than academic frustration and emotional frustration, the former generally think about how difficult it is for their parents, and they have to work hard to repay their emotions will be better, as for the latter, there is still time and opportunity to fall in love, and only when you have a good job in the future can you have the opportunity to win, and there are no regrets.
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Common negativity among college students. It's laziness and confusion about the future of life. Both of these are relatively common. I think the solution is to set what you want to achieve.
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