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In fact, it is better for people to live actively, a good attitude can be that we are physically and mentally healthy, so a decadent mentality is still not advisable, the more decadent, the more you will find that the world is not interesting, sometimes how you treat life, life will treat you.
So when you feel decadent, you have to adjust your mentality, because if you have always been in this state of mind, you will be hinted in your heart and hypnotized that you will always be in such a decadent state, and there is no help. So you have to change your thinking and look at life with a positive and optimistic attitude, life is so beautiful, how can you be decadent? A good life still needs you to work hard for.
If you feel that you are not motivated, you go and see how your friends work hard for your dreams, you look at how your parents work hard for you, do you dare to be decadent? For the sake of them, cheer them up, give them a good life, don't let them worry, and aim for the people around you, and you will find that compared to them, you really didn't do anything, so take action.
Then the next thing you have to find something to do, decadence is probably no own thing, no goal, then set a goal for yourself, arrange your own life, there is something to do, how beautiful it is, so don't think too much, roll up your sleeves and do it!
In short, people cannot be decadent! Decadence makes people backward, only by constantly forging ahead, can we live a better life! When you slowly get rid of the mood of decadence, you will find that there are many people in this world who accompany you to work hard for life!
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In today's era, work pressure, study pressure, family pressure, etc. make some young people's spirits become very depressed and decadent, and over time, they will have a tendency to depression. Therefore, in today's material age, how to reduce one's sense of decadence is an important science.
First of all, your sense of decadence is due to family factors, work and study reasons, or environmental factors, you must be clear yourself. You know that your sense of decadence comes from **, you can prescribe the right medicine, deal with it from the root, and have the courage to face these difficulties.
Then, you're super decadent, which means that your mood and mood are extremely bad, and I think exercising is a great way to do it. You have time to go to the gym and don't have time to do exercises at home. You can do push-ups, sit-ups, squats, etc., and do it with your heart, sweat and forget about your worries.
In this way, your mood can become happy and your mind will become clear. Going for a hot bath can relieve your stress and also exercise your body. Stick to it every day, don't heat it for three minutes.
Second, you can do something that interests you, such as reading a book, writing an article, or drawing. When you focus on what interests you, you will forget your worries and your spirit will not become sluggish. There are things that interest you and can also increase your motivation.
You can also talk to friends or go out for a walk with them to relax and not let your mind become depressed.
Finally, I would like to say that you don't get even more decadent because of decadence. You must have a strong psychological quality and ability to resist pressure, face everything optimistically, see a little bit, there is nothing that you can't pass, and believe in yourself.
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If you are a super decadent person, then you must be very distressed and lonely inside. When you are facing decadence, how can you improve it? I think you should be gregarious, don't go alone, don't do something alone, take the initiative to hang out with your classmates, do things with everyone, and cultivate this relaxed mood first.
When a person feels super decadent, the mood is very important at this time. Because I want to change my mood, let myself feel that I am not so decadent, I have faith and goals. So at this time, you have to go out with your classmates, let those people around you who have positive energy and thoughts influence you, and let you slowly come out of that darkness.
Because the friends around you are basically more thoughtful, more ambitious, and more active than you. Then at this time, you should take the initiative to communicate with your classmates and play with everyone. In the process of playing, you will find that it is a very painful thing to be so decadent before.
Everything I do now is something that I am very happy about, and you will feel very happy in life.
If you persist in this way for a while, you will find that in fact, life is still full of brilliance. Then you will slowly come out of the darkness before, step by step become sunny, become confident, become positive, become positive, and then you will have your own pursuit and the life you want. Everyone has a time when they are confused, and when a person is too confused, he will become decadent, so we have to come out of that darkness at this time.
We will slowly become a different kind of person, a person with pursuits, goals, and ideals.
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If it were me, I would have been running on the playground until I was tired and fell to the ground, and then I would have been relieved of the pressure and my heart would be so calm that I would ask myself to think about my future direction, and immediately set off to sweep away the decadence.
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Cheer up, often encourage yourself in the mirror, you can go out and relax on a trip.
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Being alive --- is the process from birth to death. The living subject is ourselves, and in the process we can enjoy different states: depressed, numb, warm, active, dazed, false, bland, real.
Enjoying these states is our life, and we can use different emotional experiences to complete the process of being alive. As long as we have feelings, there is meaning in living, and the meaning of it is that we have experienced the process. No matter what kind of life goal you have, you are completing a life experience.
If you don't have a clear goal in life, you are fulfilling another life experience. No matter what kind of life experience it is, its uninterrupted nature is our life. Our lives can change from one state to another, and this is what gives us a taste of different lives.
Then, any state actually has its process and continuity. Its procedural nature lies in the fact that it will have a period of time in which we will enjoy pain, happiness, blandness, and fulfillment. Its continuity can be compared to the inertia in physics, although the state has changed, but it still has a certain impact Just like the waves in the sea, although the surface is calm after it disappears, the power is still there, and when it hits the reef, it will still make waves If we understand the concept of living, we will find that no matter what kind of way of life, it will become the past, and what remains is only the memory of life experience in our hearts If we trap ourselves in this process, we become servants of the process, passive joy, Passive worry, helplessness, excitement, excitement, and confusion.
Perhaps, we should look at this process with a transcendent eye, because only transcendence can turn the illusory into the real and the numbness into the full. Only in this way will we become the masters of the process and enjoy every state of life with an active mindset. If we can understand the above content and take the initiative to adjust our mentality and concepts, we will find that life is full of sunshine.
When we discover the sunshine, our hearts are no longer empty, but full and happy.
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