What should I do if I find it difficult to socialize in college?

Everyone will think that university is actually a society, and we should learn to socialize in college, because it is very beneficial for us to enter the society later.

First of all, if you think it's hard to socialize, then the first step is definitely not good, because you're scared, so try your best to overcome such emotions. So you still have to convince yourself from the psychological level, you have to tell yourself that socialization is actually very useful for us, and the more social people are, the easier it is to succeed, it is a compulsory course for our success, so no matter what difficulties we encounter, we must overcome them first, not everyone is born to socialize, as us, we still have to try hard.

Secondly, it is from the action, all theories, all verbal exhortations to oneself must be put into action, so don't be afraid that you can't socialize at the beginning, or fail to socialize, try more, don't be afraid of failure.

Third, there are still some things to pay attention to when socializing with others, so as to better carry out effective socialization, such as observing other people's faces and acting, don't say things that shouldn't be said, control the rhythm of conversation, don't always be talking by yourself without giving others the opportunity to interject, or don't ask those embarrassing private things.

Fourth, read more books about social networking, these are other people's experiences, and they can still be used for reference. The book will teach you how to start socializing, and then slowly move forward, and finally you will grasp the essence and you will find that you are already very good at socializing.

All in all, don't be afraid to socialize and try hard! When you succeed in learning these skills, you'll discover how much fun socializing can be!

1. Neither humble nor arrogant The reason why many students are introverted is that they are not confident enough. We may come from the city, or we may come from the countryside; Maybe poverty, maybe abundance. But these should not be the reason for our inferiority or pride, all people are created equal, and we must be brave enough to take the first step in communication!

It is very difficult to improve communication skills if you are not able to go out bravely, and we have to learn this in ordinary times, in class or on the bus. The people around you, you have to dare to say a word to others, not to talk, but to say hello, and then tell others that you are more introverted, and now you are learning to say hello to strangers I hope you don't mind. We must face up to the problem of mentality.

In this case, what we need to do is to correct our mentality and think about how to change the status quo. 2. Enrich yourself Selected content copy Read more books and learn more, this is an indispensable step Through study, we can master a lot of theoretical knowledge and help us to apply. Learn to use your own knowledge, knowledge is never knowledge if you don't use it, just say what you know, and learn to observe the way people who have good interpersonal relationships and learn from them.

3. Empathy Dealing with people is the interaction between people, so if you want to know how to treat others, the most intuitive way is actually to think about how you want others to treat yourself, as the so-called "do not do to others what you do not want". In other words, in the process of empathy, you need to think about the way others behave and even their moral pursuits, not impose your own ways of behaving and moral pursuits on others In interpersonal relationships, no one is obligated to give to the other party without anything in return, even those who are helpful, they expect to receive a corresponding emotional response. No one likes to take your zeal for granted, and even if you yourself are such a person with no regrets, you will expect, demand, or even coerce others to treat you the same way.

Selected content copy 4, can stand the joke Friends play together, sometimes jokes will not notice, so don't always care, baht must be compared, that gives people the feeling that this person is angry. If you want to improve your relationships, you also need to learn to be generous. If you are a sensitive person, tell your friends when they are talking or when they are interacting with each other, and remind them what things you are more sensitive to.

Or you have to think about whether you need to be like this all the time, and whether you can face other people's jokes well.

I hope that the university can increase the number of social majors, so that students can better adapt to the development of society and bring adaptability to students' work.

1.In college, we need to communicate with people more, after all, social skills are not our innate skills, they are formed after tomorrow, and practice is the way to test the truth. We can participate in clubs that we are interested in, such as the debate club, where there will be a variety of talents, we can communicate on the topic of interest, the debate club will hold a debate competition every week, which can improve our thinking skills, language organization skills, exercise our communication skills, and improve our social skills.

2.Opportunities are not waiting for them, and friends will not be waiting for them, we need to take the initiative to communicate, show our most enthusiastic side, and naturally others will show their enthusiastic side, and naturally become friends. University is a place where we need to be good at discovering and observing, for example, some people can get a perfect score in mathematics, and some people can know a skill, we can take the initiative to communicate with them and develop towards topics that others are interested in.

Not only made friends, but also exercised social skills.

In short, college students should always remind themselves to work hard to improve their abilities in order to adapt to social development.

Personally, I've experienced some embarrassing large-scale social death scenes. It's just that when I go to college, I'm usually very panicked, and I'm a person who likes to get stuck in classes. At this time, there will be some corresponding mistakes, for example, when taking this class, because you remember the class wrongly, you will rush to someone else's class.

Then, after entering, you find that you don't want to do what you don't want, and you ...... implicitlyIf you go to the wrong class, you have to pretend to be calm and go out. But out of this class on their own.

After that, you will find that the students in the back will laugh because they know that they have gone to the wrong class to come to their class.

There are also some embarrassing large-scale social death scenes, that is, I clearly remember who this person is, but I can't remember his name since I was old. At this time, it will feel very embarrassing, and you must call ...... on this occasioncame out with a name, but it was obvious that Tan Zai himself would call the wrong name when he called it. But at this time, others will also feel particularly embarrassed, and everyone will also feel that they are not taken seriously when they are together.

Therefore, during our time in college, there were some more embarrassing scenes. In the process of speaking in public, due to excessive tension.

Zhang missaid the order of the sentences, and ended up making a big joke.

Therefore, we must pay attention to learning more with professional teachers, master the correct way of speech and communication with others, so that our language expression will be clearer and smoother, and it is important to pay attention to the correct way of communication.

1.Learn to empathize.

It's ...... to be a person and do everythingWhen we all know how to empathize, our tolerance will be effectively improved, and the chat will become more pleasant and efficient.