What should I do if I like someone very seriously, but the other person doesn t value me?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-09
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    First of all, your seriousness is very worthy of sympathy in your eyes, but others, why should others value you.

    First of all, liking a person will be humbled to the dust, you like him, no matter how much you like him, but there is no unspoken like, how do you let people know, not everyone understands you, love to say it out loud, if you don't say it, no matter how much you like him, it is your own wishful thinking here.

    If you want people to value you, first of all, you have to establish a relationship between the two of you, maybe after you confess to him, he will feel your seriousness, even if he rejects you, you don't have to waste time with someone who doesn't like you, so it's a relief for both of you. <>

    Therefore, if you like someone, you should say it out loud, and you should not love someone silently and seriously in a corner, which will make you fall deeper and deeper, and when you can't extricate yourself, it is often yourself who is hurt. If you want to do something out of the ordinary, it is also a burden for the other party, because people are implicated in it for no reason and without warning, which is also an extremely irresponsible behavior.

    If you want people to pay attention to you, you must first value yourself, you can't just blindly give, and the other party doesn't know, so it's also for yourself, let him understand your love for him, and tell him that you are also worthy of respect, and you also deserve to be loved seriously.

    People who fall in love attach great importance to each other's feelings, and can neither make the other person feel that they are not serious, nor can they let themselves love too humblely.

    May everyone have someone worthy of their love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you don't get a response, you have to stop in moderation, since the other party doesn't value you, don't pay stupidly, there is no result.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Maybe it's because this person doesn't have a good impression of you, after all, not every effort can be rewarded, and if there is no result, choose to give up.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Do you like him so that he values you?

    In my view of love, I like her, this is my own business, I like her not because of how she is, but when I like her, my own way, my feeling, when I know this, even if the other party has no feedback, I just want to be good to her, at the same time, I will make myself better and better, stronger and stronger, and finally one day she will feel your like, at this time you will be better... If she's not so disgusted, it's a good sign ...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello, I've been struggling with this question for a long time.

    I'm obsessed with self-mastery and mastery at home.

    Yu Wei likes his home and can feel satisfied and happy.

    Since I like my home, I can be satisfied, consciously happy, and eliminate mistakes.

    Everything can be summarized.

    Like the family, like the family, the family is satisfied, and the family can be the only standard.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hello, I think I like it a little bit, I like it very much.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then try to let him know that you like her.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Give up, or your heart will be tired.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you are young, if you are a man, work hard, and you will not regret it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Give full play to the shameless spirit of death, create more scenes that influence her, and pursue diligently, you can check the strategy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    First of all, you have to understand that emotional things are never equal, and there is never any fairness at all. It doesn't mean that you love someone as much as he loves you, or that he should reciprocate you with the same love or love that is deeper than you. In physics, we have learned that the effects of force are reciprocal, but this set of theories can only be effective in materialism.

    In the relationship, everyone is idealistic, and what he thinks in his heart is who will naturally be good to him, and of course he will value that person. If a person doesn't have that person in his heart, no matter how hard that person tries and how seriously he loves that person, it is nothing in that person's eyes, because he doesn't love you at all!

    A classmate in high school, who once had a crush on the male god in the same class, is also so serious and so careful. But what kind of character is the male god? has good grades, tall height, and is handsome, how can you look at her, ordinary and ordinary?

    She has tried countless times to be friends with the male god. But the other party didn't even look at him, at first, this girl was also very sad, but more of an inferiority. During that time, her figure was slightly chubby, so he thought, **.

    He thinks that if he does one thing seriously, he will forget the male god. So, I don't know what day he started, he always went to the playground in the evening, basically ran ten laps each time, and it slowly became a habit, until now that he is in college, he still has this habit. I don't know if he forgot about the male god in the end, but I really saw this girl getting better day by day, and the class becoming more beautiful day by day.

    If you think I haven't confessed to him yet, I can't just give up so easily, and I can't just stop there, at least I have to listen to him tell me whether he loves me or not. Then you can choose to confess, at least without leaving any regrets in your life.

    Don't be too negative, because there are successful examples, not all guys are good at expressing themselves, sometimes he just doesn't love you the way you want, and then what you think he doesn't value you may be just what you think. When I was a sophomore in high school, the student in our class fell in love with a scumbag, and we always thought that the male student bully didn't like the female scumbag, and he always looked impatient with her. But one day, you learn to cry, and the male scholar says, I won't bother you anymore, I won't secretly like you anymore, please don't hate me.

    You know what? In front of everyone's eyes, the male student bully picked up the female student scum and said Who said I hate you.

    So, you can confess to him so that he knows that you love him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you like someone seriously, you will forget yourself, you will put all your resources and abilities on him, you will try your best to make him live a better life, and put all the good wishes on him.

    1.I forgot that I am also a very proud person, and I am also a person that my parents love very much, but I have no dignity in you.

    2.It turned out that after such a long time, it was he who thought of this topic.

    3.Very serious and serious, because his words are happy or sad, and the mood is all controlled by him, and I really hate the feeling of dying, and in the end, I gave myself freedom.

    4.Take a screenshot of all your chats, save them, and flip through them often.

    5.Seriously... I'm afraid he'll like me, and I don't even know what to do in response.

    6.I want to love you with all my strengths, but the shortcomings are like little tails that can't be hidden, and they want to hug you too.

    7.Some of the pain, I can't describe it.

    8.Because her words can change today's mood.

    9.Looking forward to meeting him, but afraid to meet him, afraid of all the embarrassments and small situations that may arise, but I am so eager to meet Ah, what I want to say is typed and deleted in the dialog box, deleted and typed

    10.My roommate said that every time I saw him, my eyes lit up.

    11.He laughs when he thinks of it, laughs when he sees him, and wants to give him all the good things.

    12.I used to think that it would not be too bad to love someone alone, but I didn't find out later that it was just a lonely struggle alone, which only touched me.

    13.didn't take it seriously, but in the process of liking him, he lost himself, and the person who was once so precious in the hands of his parents and friends was worthless in his eyes, not even as good as a passerby.

    14.I wrote a lot of obscure and incomprehensible thoughtful texts, but I didn't really send them out, I really like you, it's not a good feeling, it's not a joke, I really like you, I like it, I like it, I like anything, I think I can.

    15.I seem to have been giving up on him, and I seem to have been waiting for him.

    16.When she really gets married, my life will turn a page.

    17.What ends up in this end, dead in your hands.

    18.I'm not waiting for you to like me, I'm waiting for me to dislike you.

    19.Obviously, there are no taboos, but you are one hundred and one.

    20.I'm willing to punish myself with three glasses, and I don't want to say a word more.

    21.I coded it for a long time, and then I thought it would be like that.

    22.If you are serious, what can you do and give everything you have and end up with nothing.

    23.When I hear something that is obviously irrelevant, I will think of you in my heart several times.

    24.I will save the chat history with you, and occasionally flip through it to see what pages I fell in love with you.

    25.Bright is very bright, bright is useless, useless is also bright, like I like you, I like you useless, I like you useless too.

    But what you can't get is always the best.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This may be that you haven't met the right person at the right time, and for such a person, you may be more conflicted, because even if you are desperate and pay for him, you may not be able to get his good impression of yourself, and you may still feel that you don't care too much about yourself. However, there are really a few people you can meet in life, since you have met, you should not give up easily, you should still make a certain amount of effort to fight, if you work hard, it still doesn't work, in that case, you won't regret it in the future.

    Emotional things are like this, many times, we can't meet a person who is happy with our own feelings, in many cases it may be like this, one party is affectionate, the other party is not very serious, what we have to do is to follow our own hearts and move forward with our inner thoughts. However, I think that sometimes you can't be too stubborn, obviously the other party rejects you very clearly, and ignores yourself, you are still dead on the ground, and in doing so, you will only get seriously hurt in the end, so I don't recommend sticking to this situation.

    In fact, as I grow older, as I experience more and more things, I will slowly look down on the feelings between men and women, and I will feel that the love I insisted on at the beginning is so naïve and worthless, if I can spend these thoughts on more meaningful things, maybe my future will be better.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If I like this person very much, but he doesn't like me very much and doesn't take me seriously, at first I will try very hard to cater to him, hoping that he will change his mind, but if he doesn't change his mind, I will leave him. There's no need to waste your time with someone who doesn't care about you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I will still take him very seriously, I believe I can get a response, people are heart-to-heart, if you are good to her, he will be good to you, so I will always be very serious to him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's better to give up early, otherwise in the end you will only move yourself and not her. Like me, I just delete it directly, I don't have a chance to be friends, and we don't need to be a spare tire.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I might say goodbye to someone like that, because I can't tolerate people not taking me seriously, it's disrespectful to me.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Then I will definitely let go of this relationship, treat her rationally, and will not work a person who has no good impression of me, and make myself amorous, which is self-inflicted.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I felt like I was leaving. Even if I like it, but he doesn't care about me, I won't force it. So choose to leave.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It is better for such a person to give up decisively and ignore him, otherwise it will cause great harm to himself after a long time.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then treat him as a stranger, if there is still hope, you can take the initiative to chase, if there is no hope, then you have to know how to give up, and treat him as a stranger or an ordinary friend from now on.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You don't mean to play around, do you? Isn't that a scumbag? I think it's better to break up.

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