How do you refuse to do what your mentor can t do?

From what you've been through, let's analyze your current problem:

From your description, it can be seen that the characteristics of your mentor are untrustworthy, and he is untrustworthy in your words and keeps drawing cakes for you, making you feel that following him is still valuable, and it belongs to the coercion and temptation type. And you and your classmates obviously feel that this kind of treatment is very unfair, so you must be very entangled now.

I think there are two ways to deal with people like your mentor, one is to be resolute and tough, don't let him think that you are a guinea pig, make requirements for him, ensure that your follow-up tutor can match you, and let him introduce you now, you can say it euphemistically, and there is also to say that your classmates can't do it, and you say that if no one comes to help, you can't do it without 2 people.

The second way is to lie.,I think your senior brother and that uncle must also be idle This project is not good to leave.,You can also find a reason to go back to school directly.,Say that you're going to graduate**.,Or there's something at home or something.,In order not to offend your mentor.,You can say that you help him find a way to find someone.,Find something on the Internet.。。。

In the future, you must be optimistic about what kind of person the boss is, forget it if you are cheated, you can't pull your classmates to suffer together, and you can't withdraw if you are alone.

I think you should continue to finish things, and you will not look up and look down with him in the future, maybe you will have to ask him for help at some point, and then you promised yourself, think of a way to overcome it, and pay attention to your own safety!

Don't step on more than one boat, otherwise it will die ugly, if you report the tutors have a very good relationship, you will show your feet when you talk, the most taboo for tutors is that students step on two boats, which is also a matter of politeness. I encountered such a problem the day before yesterday, and I was going to contact the big tutor, but I was too anxious to send a text message to another tutor, and he called ** and asked about the situation and said that there should be no big problem. I was going to contact the Grand Master again, but the Senior Brother told me not to contact again, and they were in the same office.

If both of you contact you at the same time, you'll be in trouble. So I dismissed the idea. I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry!

I think you have a problem with this matter, so I voted for both teachers at once.

I think it's better to be honest with the teacher, and admit your mistakes to the teacher directly, indicating that it is due to your own mistakes.

Apologize sincerely to the teacher, and it is better to buy some gifts, hoping to get the teacher's forgiveness.

I think since you said that the two teachers know each other well, maybe you might talk about these things in your daily conversation, so it's better to admit your mistakes as soon as possible.

After all, being able to be a teacher must have a high IQ, so it's better to be honest than to make excuses.

1.You can tell the teacher euphemistically in the form of a letter.

3.You can discuss with your mentor and tell your mentor in a calm tone about your difficulties, not because you don't want to stay, but because you are still young and want to open up a new world.

4.Talk to the teacher about what you think, but don't be impulsive.

5.Ai, this kind of thing is related to one's own future, and I want to say, "I want to be able to get in touch with different people and things more deeply, get in touch with society more deeply, and experience other things."

6.No matter how important human favor is, it can't compare to one's own development and future. The mentor will understand, after all, the future is his/her own, not the mentor's, and it does not belong to anyone else.