Twenty, very confused! I lost confidence after failure

There are always different, big and small troubles and confusions in life, and everyone is like that.

We always have a way to solve a small problem, or laugh it off.

We have to start from objective and self-specific factors to find solutions to our big problems.

If you really don't know how to do it, ask someone else or your parents for advice.

Remember: everyone's way of life and experience are accumulated bit by bit.

Just like Xunzi said: If you don't accumulate steps, you can't reach thousands of miles; If you don't accumulate small streams, you can't become rivers and seas.

You can see the importance of accumulation.

Take your time, don't lose faith in life and yourself, it's okay, the sky is still there, and the future is still there. Believe in yourself! Believe in the future!

Tell yourself: You will succeed.

Is this also called failure? What are you doing? Have you ever done a small business and then made a mistake and ruined your family?

You're only 20 years old, and it's time to have experiences, and it's time to struggle. You used to be either a failure or a decadent, you didn't have a purpose in life, so you were obsessed with game consoles. Young people do things in a down-to-earth manner and work hard.

Establish your own goals in life.

Listen to me, I'm preparing for graduate school and I rarely have time to surf the Internet, it's just, I want to help you. Don't talk about the big truth, everyone understands it. There is only one question, do you want to change the status quo.

If you want to, do it. Many problems are realized by oneself through one's own efforts. I believe in a saying:

God is always fair. Don't think that sitting in the office will make a difference, everyone needs to pay to gain. If you don't feel like you're getting much, ask yourself how much you're paying.

If you understand, act, act, you have power. "The Secret of Wishing Happens" American movie, it's really boring, you can watch it. I just wanted to help you.

Everyone is God's favorite!

Calm down and think about it, one of my teachers told me: Persistence is the key to doing anything alone, and I have done it, and I hope you can do the same. Hehe.

Smoking is not necessarily a bad habit, you can not play games, you can find a job again, 1000 yuan is really a small amount. It's nothing, believe in yourself, look up and be a man, you can do anything!

Don't be confused, don't worry, who can live without a little setback. You have to find your own goals, your dreams, with them you will not be confused, and you will know how to go. Tell yourself I can do it!

Nothing can stump me. Failure is only temporary, and success is to be gained from failure. Don't be afraid of the difficult road, it depends on whether you dare to walk and whether you have strong perseverance!

Forget about the past, start now, do what you want to do, and you will succeed. I'm here to bless you!

Live to old age with the mentality of not dying, confusion is only temporary, the dark clouds will soon disperse, you will be greeted by a good youth, do you know what is the most terrible thing in life?

It's not that you regret what you did, but that you regret what you didn't do when you were about to die!!

How old are you? So negative about life?

Let me tell you, it only makes sense for people to toss around like this for the rest of their lives, otherwise what's the point!! Fortunately, you still tossed.

Some people can't afford it???

Analyze the reasons calmly and objectively, change little by little, and you will eventually succeed. I think the first step you need to do is never ask these questions again.

Confucius said: Knowing mistakes can be corrected.

This question is really difficult, brother, let's get through it slowly, when you encounter the thing that hurts you the most, you will understand...

To be a man, you have to be able to afford to put it down.

Think about whether your so-called failure is an objective cause or a factor in your own charge.

Set yourself a goal in life. You'd love to succeed.

Looking back, life depends on how you choose.

Look forward, the past is gone.

There is no end to the bitter sea, and there is a shore to turn back.

In fact, the development of character is inseparable from a person's living environment and living habits! And character plays a decisive role in people's self-confidence!

Family reasons, or the environment you have been in for a long time, as well as the people or things you come into contact with, may affect your personality and self-confidence!

Introverted and not cheerful, many people are distressed by this, but there is nothing to be done!

1.Develop good living habits, go to bed early and get up early, eat regularly, it is best to develop the habit of getting up early and exercising in the morning, running, doing sports, etc.!

2.You can try to expand your social scope and try to strengthen communication with people who are usually strangers or not familiar with each other! Usually connect with your friends, and it's best to hang out together often or do something together!

3.Try to open up to your family or friends, let them know your inner world, tell them what you are happy and unhappy about, and ask for their support!

4.Before you do anything, you should seek the advice of others, but at the same time, you must have your own opinions! Indecision is a big no-no!

The world is so beautiful, we must fully enjoy life, everyone in the world has the value of his existence, and everyone can change the world! Insisting on living your own life is the greatest self-confidence!

It's harder now, it's better later.

There will be good times in life, there will be adversity, as long as the heart is full of hope, there will be no life.