Can anyone help me with a reason? Who s going to judge me?

How can there be such a bully, it must be that she herself has some shadow in her heart, they all say that her mother-in-law has a lot of things, what is she mixed with, you must not be too tolerant, sometimes letting too much will not make people think that you are kind, it will only make people bully you even more, you must be strong, the diploma or something is not important, just two people are happy together, and let them see what they want.

It's a matter of a person's mentality, and she wants to say, you can't control it. Such people exist in many families. But the most important thing is that you have to communicate more with your husband, so that he can take care of you and your little family.

Go your own way and let others do the talking. The mentality of the landlord should also learn to be tolerant. Don't turn this matter up and let it die in silence.

Otherwise, things will go against your wishes and the situation will be out of control.

Tell us about your husband's space.

We say go. Or tell us your eldest sister's QQ.

We criticize him for going.

What does he care about the two of them?

Let your husband talk to her well.

It's an imbalance in her heart, and she's jealous when she sees you happy.

As long as you have a good relationship with your husband, don't pay attention to her and say whatever she wants. Let your husband know about it, but don't say anything more and let him deal with it.

In the future, when you get along with your husband, you will let him deal with things like this, on the one hand, it shows that you respect him and his family, and on the other hand, he is also very happy to do things for you, because he can feel your dependence on him.

Open your heart and be yourself, others can't help you if they're jealous, let alone your family.

It's your husband who lives with you, so you don't care what she does, let him go, you just need to ask your husband one sentence, that is, do you want to live with me. You have children, so your sister-in-law can't separate you.

You've been with her brother, not with her. It's okay for you to be a husband and wife. Ignore her.

But you can't be too tolerant, sometimes you have to be tough, and when you are bullied, get it back.

You're struggling.

First of all, your brother's approach at the beginning was very wrong, he definitely shouldn't limit the speed of your router interface, he didn't let you use it out of his own selfish interests, as an elder brother, he used such an inferior method, which is really despicable. And this matter was discovered, and he also lost his brother's face.

Besides, you were reasonable at the beginning - my brother was unreasonable first, and you can completely use this to make a difference. However, what you are doing is very stupid, I can only say. Because you smash things, it is not an attitude to solve the problem, but it intensifies the conflict in your family even more.

Moreover, if you smash the router, you also destroy the evidence that your brother did something on the router, doesn't it?

Then say your mom. Actually, I think on this issue, if I were your mother, I would also talk about you first. Because as a parent, I must be angry when I see something shattered. So, she said you, most likely the original intention was not to help your brother in the first place.

Therefore, the correct approach should be, after you find the problem, take the router well, and expose your brother's trick in front of the whole family, so that he can't hold his head up, instead of self-destructing the evidence, resulting in whether he is justified or not.

So, landlord, although you are in charge this time, you failed to grasp the proportions yourself, thus losing the overall situation. This time, you can learn a lesson for yourself, and in the future, you should be rational first.

From buying a router to setting the password yourself.

Summary. Hello, your grandmother's second daughter should be your aunt, and she does have a certain responsibility in your life, and your appropriate life needs can be asked from her, but she does not have a great obligation, so you should communicate with her, explain your situation well and strive for her support, I believe that the family is still very good at talking. And you should also find a job, don't rely too much on others, send people under the fence, I believe you can live a more wonderful life!

It's my grandmother's second daughter, who said that he would rather spend a few hundred yuan, a few hundred yuan, and two people are a few thousand yuan, and they are willing to spend it on a trip, and a ticket is also a few hundred yuan, and two people add up to a few thousand yuan, and then spend more than 1,000 yuan, travel, and me? I want to watch a movie, and I want to give money for only five yuan, and even the money for her trip is not enough for him to go out on a trip, and he is in front of my family, that is, I spend more of his money, and said that I spent his money before I started working, and she also spent his money last time my boyfriend, and wanted to watch a **, and said that I didn't show it to her boyfriend, which made her boyfriend unhappy, and scolded me, why did you treat my boyfriend like this? He also said that I spent a lot of his money, and used him for eating, drinking, and Lazar, and I didn't use it, my money was all saved by me, and only occasionally when I didn't have enough to pay, I asked her to pay, this film, he scolded me, a few dollars of money is so expensive, you open so many members, in vain, if I help you pay, this is equivalent to your membership in vain, and waste money, in fact, I don't want to, I can also pay by myself, but what, I don't have money now, I haven't got to work yet, I have the ability, so what, you help me pay, I'll pay the money next time, I also said that I spent a lot of money on clothes, a lot of money for cosmetics, a lot of money for members, and a lot of money for food, I just want to say, now you need money for life, don't you want money to spend?

I don't want to spend it, I don't have a way to open my eyes, life is like this.

Hello, your grandmother's second daughter should be your aunt, and she does have a certain responsibility in your life, and your appropriate life needs can be asked from her, but she does not have a great obligation, so you should communicate with her, explain your situation well and strive for her support, I believe that the family is still very good at talking. And you should also find a job, don't rely too much on others, send people under the fence, I believe you can live a more wonderful life!

I'm telling you, I'm not old enough to work, I'm not fit to work yet.

Then you can explain the situation to your aunt to get her support.