I m a little autistic, I m unmotivated, I m autistic, what should I do?

Those people.?Looks like your mom and dad put it? How do you call your mom and dad like people who seem to hate them a little bit?

You're not called autistic, but your life is quite fulfilling.

The rules of life are arranged with you, I think it's very good.

Oh, maybe you're still young, so there's a kind of yearning for the outside.

I've been autistic for 6 years.

I'm in a daze at the computer every day... Have committed suicidal behavior. But I stayed in a few hospitals.

The outside is not as beautiful as I imagined, so very exercised.

The heart is separated from the belly, and at the same time, just like the enemy, it is necessary to be on guard.

You're a girl, so you still have to be obedient, work honestly, and when the time comes, you're looking for someone to marry, hehe, life is so realistic, everything is money.

Don't say that you look down on money, when you really need it, you don't, you will understand what kind of reality society is like.

Doing what you like is something that people have been pursuing in this life, and this kind of comfort may be a dead end in your life in the future, tell your family, if you want your road to be wider after drinking, let you go free!

Well, then go for it!

Maybe life is too boring now, very narrow, and very peaceful!

Mediocrity is either to get rid of this environment or to change it!

Of course, no one else can help you! First of all, start with yourself!

Your situation is terrible, and you must make an effort to communicate with others. I'm just a little autistic, so I'm very distressed, and the only way to solve it is to talk to people.

The situation is much better than mine, at least I still have a job, I have been unemployed at home for 2 years, and the other situation is the same as you, I don't want to communicate with others at all, and I am very afraid of the thought of looking for a job to communicate with others.

Why not give yourself a chance, don't be at the mercy of others, and learn to say no when they leave you in the office

Let me take you out to create rivers and lakes, realize your dreams, and do chivalrous deeds, ok?

Friend, I also have autistic tendencies. I work alone in the field and have very few friends. But through study and action, I changed that. I can say unceremoniously that you have low self-esteem now and have no confidence in yourself and in the future.

First of all, we must adjust our mentality and build confidence. You think it's bad right now because you're comparing. It's not that it's wrong, but it's about seeing yourself clearly and recognizing reality.

What kind of person you are, what you can do, what kind of conditions and opportunities are available in reality, face and analyze them seriously. Self-confidence is the source of everything, and if a person thinks that he can't do anything, then he really can't sit still. Self-confidence is not about how capable you are now and how much money you have, but a belief, that is, believing in yourself.

Then it's about taking action. You haven't been to work for a year, what are you doing? You have thought about it for so long and have not come to any conclusions, so you can only progress with action experience, and fantasy is not the goal. Start with what you can do, and if you don't know anything, learn it.

It's not autism, you don't have real motivation in your heart, that is, you haven't been pushed into a desperate situation, people are more and more inert, you have to save, because you know in your heart how you are now, find a goal, take care of yourself, if you can't help you, it's up to you.

If you find yourself, you have to face it! No matter what work is done first, find the feeling!

I'm not a professional, and the following statements are likely to be inaccurate.

1. I don't think you have autism, but social disorders, and your symptoms are not serious.

2. Behaviors such as communicating with others need to be achieved through your own efforts. You can adjust your mind to achieve it. (When you ask this question, I think you are still willing to change the situation, and I hope you can solve it through your own efforts).

3. If you feel that you can't change and have a certain economic foundation, it is recommended that you see a psychologist for psychological **. (Going to a psychiatrist once or twice is not enough to solve your problem, if you have enough time and money, I hope you can go a few more times to have an effect.)

1. Why didn't I go out after staying at home for a year?

2. Do you want to talk at a relative's house? Still not talking? Still don't dare? Or, why not?

Don't jump to any conclusions about yourself, don't doubt yourself, no matter what it is.

The reason for your autism is a lack of communication or lack of self-confidence, it is recommended to change a new hairstyle, dress up in a new style, get up in the morning to run and exercise, and be optimistic to find a few friends with similar interests to face life calmly.

Autism is not enough to talk about, but not being in contact with the outside world for a long time will cause a certain communication barrier to oneself and derail from the outside world of life, so it is recommended to go out for a walk.

Self-withering emotions and communicating more with others.

Then try to communicate with others, and if it doesn't work, don't force it.

Do more of what you enjoy at home.

Relax, sing, travel.

Get out and about and make friends with the same interests.

Participate in outdoor activities and chat with friends.

You have to go out and play more, make more friends, and it will be fine!

Ask your parents for help and reach out to friends.

1. Adjust the atmosphere of the family. First of all, it is necessary to adjust the mentality, face this disease correctly, and provide the child with a loving and secure family atmosphere.

2. Psychology**. Psychological counseling is the most important among children with autism. It is necessary to pay attention to helping children reduce their inferiority complex and withdrawn psychology, strictly prohibit beating and scolding children, and actively encourage and communicate with each other.

3. Game method. The game method is a psychological method based on the theory of mental causes. For example, games such as walking on the balance beam and swinging, in the process of playing, the child creates an environment that can accept him, and can fully realize his joys, sorrows, and sorrows.