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Let it be.,Let it go.,Let it go.,Let the woman go once in a lifetime.,How can you make do with everything.,And he's also the type who cares about the family.,Now I'll definitely listen to the fuck in the future.。
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As a sign of love for your boyfriend, never give his family an ugly look, especially his parents. If you have an opinion, you can communicate with your boyfriend in private, and never show it in front of his parents. There is a conflict between lovers that can be remedied, and if you have a conflict with his family, the damage to him can never be remedied, unless he is an unfilial son.
Whether it's your fault or not, for the sake of your boyfriend, you need to be patient, and even if you're not wrong, sometimes you need to explain it to your friend. If it really doesn't work, then be relieved and let it be.
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There is a big difference between love and reality! Many times love can go soured because of real problems!
In fact, since you have chosen to be with him and know the situation of his family, you should also be considerate, it is impossible to borrow money because you want to buy better jewelry or decorate it beautifully, in this case, after getting married, you don't have to pay it back with him, it's not interesting!
Your boyfriend's attitude has been very clear, if you want to get married like this, what happens to the two of you in the future depends on your efforts, and you don't have a choice if your family background is not good, don't you say that your relationship has always been very good, so can you give up your relationship for so many years for the sake of money? You said that he was not as good to you as he used to be, I think it was because you also hurt him in this matter, his family is not able to do a better job of your new house and dowry, and you say that you want to postpone the wedding, what does that mean? It's impossible for his family to become rich in a year, and the message you sent to him is:
If you don't have money to buy jewelry, you won't get married if you don't have money to decorate! He was hurt a lot, too! You didn't marry him because of money, you married him because of love, do you remember?
Now the situation of his family does not mean that he is too poor to do anything, if you love him and marry him, I think he will love you even more! Better for you!
For, it can only be said that it is considered from a realistic point of view, and your boyfriend is a filial son! Let's learn how to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law!
Think for yourself!
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Love and marriage are two different things, and you should know it clearly.
Now boys are filial sons, if you love him, you should know that this is a very important point, now women don't think about earning this man with their mother-in-law, but skillfully use the relationship to have a man and mother-in-law, as a woman, can no longer be like when they were in love, you can be coquettish casually, because there were only the two of you in the world at that time, but now there are so many people at once, so your world is beginning to be chaotic.
In fact, such things are not uncommon now. Everybody goes through this. Me too.
I have always believed that nothing is impossible to get by, as long as you communicate with him properly, there is no problem.
Maybe it's the dumbest choice, but between your love and the siege of your marriage, you may have to do it all you can.
I'm very happy now, and I've had a quarrel, but it's not my parents-in-law who point the finger at my parents-in-law, but at my man and myself. I will not confront my mother-in-law head-on, but return to my husband, you are my man, we will live together in the future, you are the same as my parents, and I can understand. But I'm a woman, and this is the most important thing in my life.
It's okay to be simple, but it's never okay to be hasty.
If you ask him to put himself in his shoes, what will he do, maybe he won't speak as calmly as you do, right?
Maybe you don't know, but his parents don't really care about you, that's for sure. Everything is earned by yourself. If you want to live with your man, it depends on your own ability.
Another point, if you really can't do without him, just go with it, it's not a big deal, I am, but fortunately my husband can't do without me either, so the whole family is like this, and no one can do without anyone, and they will be happy.
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In the face of reality, people still have to bow their heads No money is not the key, and now that he is starting to treat you badly, don't rush to get married.
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You should communicate more with your boyfriend, tell him what you think, see what he is like, and girls can't be hasty in their life.
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I think the most important thing is whether you have the same concept of life. Life changes can be made by two people working together, but they must have the same goal, and differences in concepts and ideas will bring endless pain later on. In addition, you better analyze whether he is a potential stock!Hahaha.
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You're not wrong, it can be seen from this incident that their family, including him, doesn't care about you at all. So you should make your own plans, and if you tolerate it now, then you can imagine what your life will be like in the future. Now the attitude is tougher, if they can accept it, it means that he still loves you and can take your opinion seriously, if they don't accept it, it means that they don't care at all, and they must not marry someone who neglects you.
Moreover, he said that his mother is the only one, and the woman can be changed in any way. That's how I don't care about you, and don't say anything in the face of this. The two words "break up", but if you still love him, that's a different story.
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Judging from your description, it's not wrong for you, but I don't know how much you have requirements for buying jewelry and decoration, if it's too much, it's not very good, but judging from your text, you shouldn't be a person who will ask too much, your boyfriend said, her mother is his mother, and women can change how they want, the first sentence is not wrong, but how, mother's opinion is very important, especially for boys, but the latter sentence, it's not right, it seems that he doesn't care about you very much, But maybe it's because you postponed the marriage, his angry words, the emotional thing still depends on the feelings of the two people, of course, the material foundation is also essential, but I think if you still like him very much, and he is not bad to you, after all, it has been six years, or be together, if he is not good to you, forget it, because it is not good for you before you get married, so I don't know what will happen after marriage.
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Simply for the feelings you are wrong, but you are an ordinary person living in reality, you must be responsible for your future life, marriage is not a matter of two people, although there is no love there is no perfect marriage, but not there must be a successful marriage, married you and his mother will spend more time together, then it depends on what kind of person your mother-in-law is, if it is just that the family is not rich, then forget it, after all, money can be earned slowly in the future, If she is an arrogant and unreasonable person, then you have to think about it, if I can see clearly what kind of person they are, if it is a kind and simple family, it doesn't matter
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Everybody thinks differently. It's good not to live with his parents in the future, and don't say that his parents are bad in front of him, he will be disgusted.
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