How do you deal with a calculating, mean talking uncle?

Say how do you deal with a calculating, mean-talking little number because his father is sick and hospitalized. He did not pay for medical treatment and did not go to the hospital to see his father. When it came time to do the inspection, he also said that there was no need for the policeman to be there for this inspection, and he was not present for various reasons.

I just don't want to take money out. Your husband said that you don't pay, I pay, and he thinks he is very uncomfortable. He would also find an excuse to say that he was not there at the time, that he did the test without his consent, so he was not there, and he felt that some of the tests were not necessary, so he didn't want to.

If this is the case, and you also feel that your husband is doing the right thing, you should support her husband. You don't need to take that brother-in-law to spend the money alone, this is also a sign of your filial piety to your father's parents. Because Pepsi.

Filial piety comes first, you are doing the right thing.

When you meet a calculating, mean-speaking little uncle who wants to treat him, he has to be more mean and calculating than him, and fight poison with poison, or ignore him and stay away.

If you meet such people, it is better to stay away from them, just get by on the big picture, and don't get too close.

Take the old man's property materials and the two brothers to the notary office for justice, whoever wants it will be more, if you don't want it, you won't come out, if the old man has no property, then there is no way, talk nonsense to each other, there will always be a compromise on one side, that is, a loss.

For this kind of person, there is no way, either find a few elders in the family to come out, everyone sit down and discuss together, and in the future, all the medical expenses of the parents and the two brothers will share the cost equally. Either you have to come out on your own, and he will be on his conscience.

Try not to deal with it.

Something for them to deal with among their brethren.

In fact, that is also due to his character.

It shouldn't be on you.

So don't worry too much.

If the family is separated, then try to have as little contact as possible, especially in terms of property and money, and if it is unavoidable, be generous and not care about him in general.

You can ignore him and not share with him, or you can separate from him and don't do anything with him, and don't say a word to him.

You can only stay away from this kind of person, because you can't go with outsiders, but it's best not to be verbose when you're fine!

When he doesn't exist, it's better for this kind of person to ignore him, treat him as a passerby, there is no need to ignore him, it's best to hang him.

What else can I do, you don't have to pay attention to unreasonable people, it's already very scheming, it's an alternative.

Ignore him and have less contact, anyway, you don't live with him, as long as your husband loves you and is good to you.

I dreamed of a calculating, thin-talking little uncle who treated him. The best thing to do is to avoid him. Don't mess with him, just ignore it.

How do you deal with people who speak harshly? I think people who speak more harshly, they are often poor character, like this kind of people we should try to stay away from a little better, because too close will have more right and wrong, so stay away from this place of right and wrong, stay away from such people, you will live a healthy life every day.

Some people will think that some people are more mean to speak, but they are not used to this kind of mean people, and they have to refute them, and they have to argue with them every time, I think this is meaningless, because these mean people have formed a habit of talking, which is difficult to change, at this time you have to argue with him, in fact, it is not much use, it is better to spend some time to do something meaningful, that will be better.

So when we meet a mean person, just stay away from him, there is no need to worry too much about him, if you are careful, your quality will become worse and worse, we can't let our quality deteriorate because of these mean people.

I usually like to talk to me in front of everyone: What does it matter to us? You're boring.

It's okay to assume that you didn't hear it.

Ignorant villains are everywhere, don't let them ruin our plans, and thank those who have hurt us, they have taught us to be strong!

Hello: To be tolerant of others is to be kind to yourself. There is a relationship of interest between people, because people have selfish desires, who will not love themselves, are people on earth like this, as long as you have a tolerant heart, do not worry about others, how can others get along with you, you must learn to forget, and remember, good at forgetting the bad of others, remember the good of others, so that you will have a beautiful heart, if you remember the bad of others every day, try to ask your brain memory is so big, care more about helping others a little, Have less of your own desires and others will treat you equally well ...

Really said yes. With a tolerant mindset.

Put something to the side. I guess it's more difficult. But if you want to reply with the same vitriol.

Not necessarily.

Ruthless. Then I think if I am ruthless, I will fight back with my eyes. Be gentle and tell his friends.

Tell him to be a little more restrained.

In the process of getting along with people, it is inevitable to meet people who speak sharply and meanly, and the best thing to do when encountering this kind of person is not to have deep friendships, because a person likes to attack others everywhere in his mouth, so he is also a person who does not think much about others in his ordinary life. It's the most tiring to get along with this kind of person, but there is always a time when you have to get along with everyone.

To get along with this kind of person, you must first have a strong heart, and what the other party says mean may make you sad everywhere If you are really sad for his words, then you will lose. If the other person speaks sharply but is right, you need to use your strong inner transformation. Practicing yourself invulnerable is the most fundamental way to defend against damage.

Besides, when you get along with him, don't care if your words will hurt people's hearts, and learn to be ruthless, but don't touch the bottom line. He is sharp and mean to you, you also have to be sharp to him, don't worry about hurting him, let him know that it hurts, he will know how hurtful he usually speaks, and it is the best way to treat him in the other way.

In fact, this kind of person should be the most difficult to get along with, but there is no way, the only thing we have to do is to do a good job of ourselves, don't worry too much about them, so that there shouldn't be any big problems.

It's really hard to get along with snarky people, You think no matter what you're doing, there is always someone who excludes you everywhere, and whoever you are will be particularly annoying, so how to get along with them is even more of a science, if you always obey her and let them always count you down so inexplicably, most of them will be very unhappy, and if you fight back and start all kinds of verbal attacks on her, it is estimated that you will both be physically and mentally exhausted, and both will lose.

I have a friend who also speaks without thinking and always blurts out some very direct words, I am always hit by her all kinds of self-confidence, and I will start to doubt life and question myself because of those unintentional words of my friend. Later, I got used to it, and when I had endured enough, I started to care less, anyway, I just knew that the other party was such a person, for this kind of friend, in fact, just ignore it and don't care, because you can't change her own personality and consistent style.

Sharp and mean people can ignore them, and I usually feel helpless when I encounter this kind of person. No matter how much you defend this kind of person, it's useless.

It seems that everyone will meet snarky people, I don't know how this kind of person's character is formed, isn't he tired? I look very tired, I don't have a good speech and I am full of thorns, aren't you afraid that others will carry knives on him?

But seriously, some people may not be able to make jokes, I remember that there was a roommate when I was a freshman, and it just so happened that I and another friend were more fond of hurtful jokes (I didn't think it hurt much, because I kept coming like this, and everyone thought it was funny 233333), and the roommate who killed him probably hadn't had much contact with people like us before, and my heart was probably stuffed to death, and she often cried there with jokes on, scaring a bunch of us to death, I don't know which, that sentence hurt her. So the joke is still aimed at people, and it is probably possible that some jokes are unacceptable or unintentionally hurt others, and it is also possible that they are really glassy. Of course, those people are suitable for joking and which people are not, you should understand it after getting along for a long time, and you don't know if you have been together for so long, that is, you are really speaking sharply and meanly.

But my roommate probably thinks she's too glassy, and over time she now has a tough heart, and she can joke too much now. Sometimes it's better to be blue.

So, if you're really sharp and mean, stay away and ignore people. If it's just a joke and you don't like it, you also stay away.

We will always meet some people in our lives who are not so gentle-tempered, maybe he speaks prickly and hurtful, and I have such people around me, but he is not always in this state, so most of the situation is still acceptable.

He's also very funny, as if he has a dual personality, when he doesn't have thorns, he is the same as us ordinary people, joking, playing or anything is acceptable, once he enters the state of preparation, and he can switch randomly at any time, and he will speak more impulsively, which is difficult to accept, I have known him better for so many years, and I can get used to his state.

First of all, we can do regression first, don't worry about the other party, generally when my friend is about to start spitting, generally speaking, it's not hard to listen to I'll endure, we still have to increase some tolerance, you can't explode at one point, and then you talk less, don't give him the opportunity to spit out, so every time at this time I don't answer his words, or reply according to his wishes, try not to provoke him, so that you can avoid the opportunity to go head-to-head, when the other party's words are not responded, He also found it boring to find himself.

Secondly, when we make concessions, the other party is still chasing after us? I also have to start fighting back, so every time my friend talks too badly, I will directly say to him, you talk badly, and then I will ignore him. In this case, the other party will realize their mistake and will correct it.

This is the time not to get angry, and then try all kinds of ugly words to respond to him, firstly, to lower his own quality, and secondly, to make the battle more stalemate. Actually, if someone is always sarcastic about you, you don't have to be friends with them.

If you want to get along with someone who speaks harshly, then you have to see if this person is justified in what he says, or if he is simply vexatious, simply targeting people rather than things.

If what this person says is justified and there is nothing to hide, then this person can be regarded as straightforward, or this person has no scheming. Because although what this person said is not very good, at least what he said is indeed the truth!

With people like this, we don't need to worry too much about it! After all, people are not deliberately targeting you, nor are they deliberately looking for trouble with you, let alone deliberately embarrassing you. What people think in their hearts, they say it in their mouths, and for such upright people, we should learn to appreciate them.

If because the other party said a few ugly truths, you have been haunted and make you feel very faceless, then it means that you have no tolerance and no heart to listen to others, and you will not be able to go far after all. Dare to listen to the unpleasant truth, such people have improved.

Of course, if this person is the type of complaint, no matter what happens, he has to come to participate, and deliberately wants to say things so ugly that people feel very embarrassed, such a person has no need to be worthy of our respect.

After all, in this world, there are always some people who have no quality and like to use harsh words to talk about others, just care about their own happiness. Such people don't make any actual personal attacks on us, but they always make people feel very uncomfortable.

I suggest that you stay away, don't provoke him at will, and don't care about him, just treat it as out of sight.

If you don't give it to the chickens, it's over. You ask her directly, how did you come up with this? Why do you want to give you my chickens?

Tell her that the chickens raised at home are unhygienic, and that you go to the supermarket to buy chicken, which is clean and cheap. If you don't answer her words, don't arrest her.

They really went too far.

If you're in front of you, you should say:

It's okay to eat chicken, give us the money back first.

As the saying goes, brothers settle accounts.

Don't care, just forgive and forgive each other, be broad-minded, don't kill, killing will have evil retribution, there is no Amitabha Buddha in the south.