Let s talk about what happened on your blind date?

In 2015, I met a dozen people in total, and finally found my current boyfriend. Among these dozen or so objects, there are those who like to reject me, and there are those who like me and I refuse. It's not very happy to be rejected, and it's also frustrating to reject others.

The speed of the blind date is very fast, basically one side is life and death, if the first side is not pleasing to the eye, then the second sight will definitely not be goodbye. Several times, I cried because the blind date had been failing, but after a while, I immediately recovered, if true love is so easy to find, how can there be so many singles. I was prepared for the worst, lonely for the rest of my life, in fact, I think that the current marriage is not like before, now the requirements for marriage are higher, rather lack than abuse, marriage without love as the foundation, it will not last long.

I said to myself, if I can't find a partner, then I have to make a lot of money, love myself more, and learn to live independently. So, I worked hard to exercise, in order to avoid going to the hospital alone, I worked hard to learn to invest, make more money, studied a lot of investment courses, read a lot of investment books, I ate breakfast seriously, in short, I was ready to die alone. After thinking like this, there is not so much pressure in my heart, I know that even if I am single for a lifetime, I can take good care of myself, because I myself am a little sun, if I like not like me, then they have no vision, only when you become a sunshine yourself, have your own ideas, you will not be afraid of being single for a lifetime.

Later, I met my current boyfriend, he is very good to me, and he is also the type I like, he himself has been together more than 20 times, and after we have experienced so many blind dates, we have begun to know how to cherish and how to love someone. Love is two independent people together, blind date, is a way to find love, in the process of blind date, we will know that love is not easy, will know how to cherish more.

My boyfriend and I were also together on a blind date! And it's the first blind date in my life! Currently engaged and about to get married.

I don't know why so many people have met the wonderful, but I am indeed very lucky. I didn't want to see before the blind date, because I was very reluctant to go on a blind date, and then I really couldn't go to meet, he was a Ph.D. student in 985 college, I always thought that the doctors were knowledgeable and not good at talking and relatively sloppy (forgive me for my short-sightedness, don't be with my general knowledge), on the other hand, I am an undergraduate, I feel a little high. When we met, I found that I was really wrong, he was neatly dressed, very gentlemanly, humorous and talkative, really knew astronomy, geography, and fascinated me.

And after being with him, I found that he would grow up with him, patiently teach me new knowledge, rationally analyze the big decisions I made, and support me! I have experienced different places and quarrels in the middle, but I firmly believe that each other is the one who grows old hand in hand. Because of him, I believe that blind dates are not necessarily wonderful, and it is possible that the other party is also a person like us.

On the first blind date, what stabbed me was not the man's indifference to me (this is the consensus of each other), but the negative attitude of the mother towards her daughter hurt me. I am a very ordinary girl with low self-esteem. In my mother's teachings, she said most about my shortcomings, maybe they do exist, but over time, I seem to see them only in my eyes, and my self-perception is that I am an individual full of shortcomings.

It's really easy for me to feel like I'm not worthy of someone else, I'm good for nothing. Last night's blind date, I really felt that the two parties were not suitable. When I said the idea, my mom said that:

I don't have any charm at all, the man refuses it when he sees it, I'm a failure! So, I don't have the charisma to attract this person I don't feel, I'm a failure. But even if I am rejected, everyone has the freedom to like it or not, and I really can't meet the other person's standards, which is not normal.

However, the way I only said half a sentence and the way you turned around and closed the door really hurt me.

When I went home for the New Year, I went on a blind date, and I met and had a meal accompanied by many relatives. Chat after dinner, and then chat twice on WeChat. When I met and chatted, I felt an obvious purpose, he would ask me what I thought about marriage, and asked me if I would consider going home for development in the next few years.

Considering that his family has eager expectations for his future life, I am worried that I will not feel it after following my family's advice and trying to get along, which will delay his time, so I apologized seriously the next day, expressed my opinion, and wished him another true love.

When you meet someone you don't like on a blind date, ask him directly if he likes to eat fruit? No matter what he does, I say I'm sorry, I don't like it, we're not a good fit!

To be honest, as soon as I heard the word blind date, I felt big, and I don't know why I still have some rejection of blind dates in my heart, which may have a direct relationship with my current age! I don't know what other people's attitudes are towards blind dates, but as far as I'm concerned, I'm not quite comfortable with this at the momentBecause in my subconscious, I still think that love should be talked about by myself, and I should find the object of love by myself, rather than knowing someone through blind dates. <>

Of course, I'm not saying that people who meet on a blind date are necessarily bad, after all, this also depends on fateSome people may have that kind of fate with each other, and the person who knows each other on a blind date happens to be the right person, and there is also such a probability. But I think this probability will be smaller, after all, once you go on a blind date, everyone will not think much about falling in love, it feels like going straight to marriage, I can't accept such a hasty relationship, so my psychology is a little repulsive to blind dates. <>

I haven't actually experienced a blind date yetAlthough someone in my family has introduced me to someone, I always feel that I am not old enough to be introduced, so I politely refused。You must know that I have just graduated from college, I think it is normal to have no partner at this time, and I haven't stabilized anything yet, I always feel that it is too early to talk about marriage now, and I really want to enjoy a few years of single life! <>

Personally, I think that when we reach a certain age, our family really starts to feel anxious about our feelingsWhen they were in school, they would say that they didn't need to rush and take their time, but as soon as they graduated, as long as they were still single, they would start to urge themselves, and at the same time, they might arrange some blind dates for themselves. Of course, some people may think that blind date is a way to meet friends, and they may not be so repulsive, but people like me may be more disgusted in their hearts, so this kind of thing is a person's opinion.

I haven't experienced it, because I am still very young, so my parents are not in a hurry, and I haven't let myself go on a blind date.

I haven't experienced blind dates because my family thinks I'm younger, so I'm not in a hurry to get married.

What I experienced was actually the feeling of having a meal with strangers, and I still felt quite embarrassed at the time, and we didn't have anything in common.

Blind dates can meet true love. Many people due to work, environment and other reasons, did not meet the person they liked, delayed the best age to fall in love, among these people, there are also many excellent people, they meet friends of the opposite sex through blind dates, you can start your own true love journey.

Many people go on a blind date to find a partner, the main reason is that now the life circle of the Daxin Wu family has become smaller, the opportunity to contact the opposite sex has decreased, and the work is busy, and there is no time to find it, so they have to go on a blind date. Blind date compared to free love, it is just a shortcut, and there is not much difference between the two.

Blind dates are safer and more reliable. Generally, blind dates are promoted by elders and friends, and the other party's family background and character have a certain foundation of trust. His financial resources, his level of education, his living situation, and his parents will consider whether you are compatible in all aspects.

Family backgrounds and similar values make it easy for two people to understand each other, and it is also very important for the stability of the marriage. The trust value of a blind date is more secure than that of those who are not aware of it virtually.

Blind dates are more efficient. In addition, there are many variables of free love, many people, especially girls, pursue romantic love, free love for a few years, no money, people have become old, and finally break up. Blind dates, on the other hand, are more practical, shorter in time, and more efficient.

Both parties are more sensible, they are going on a blind date for the purpose of marriage, and they will not be overly enthusiastic, so that they will not feel that there is a big gap after marriage. Compared with the fiery relationship of free lovers, the cold divorce after marriage is slippery, and the blind date love is more transitional and stable.

Blind dates, just a means, are a kind of help for those who want to seriously develop a relationship but do not have the time or lack the social skills. If you haven't gotten married when you reach the age of marriage, you might as well boldly try a blind date, not for anything else, just because you can meet more people of the opposite sex, find your true love from it, and enrich yourself and understand your needs at the same time. Live your own happy and sweet married life as soon as possible.