What to do if you don t have a job, your friends aren t around, and you break up with your boyfriend

Be confident, I used to be similar to you, you can find some netizens to believe that everything will pass, and it's better that you still get a job, because then you will have more to distract your sadness and loneliness, and only being busy will reduce your mood.

Keep trying to live and everything will be the same.

It's not the end of the world, it's divided. However, you may feel uncomfortable and sad when you just break up, but time is the best medicine for wounds, there is no unpassable cut in life, vent well, adjust your emotions, and then start again!

Let's do it all over again! Find a job first and settle down.

You can cry and you can make trouble. Do not contact.

If a man decides to go.

Don't keep it, you can't keep it.

It's better to give yourself a little more dignity.

Just cut off all contact.

It's only a matter of time before it heals slowly.

That's how I'm getting better little by little.

You can find something to do for yourself.

Don't let yourself be idle.

Find someone to talk to. Use QQ to know all the ways .

Survive like this for a while.

It's going to get better.

Take a quiet walk.

Listen**. Look at the people who come and go.

Settle your heart.

Whoever doesn't have it can live.

Don't take anyone too seriously.

If you have that time, you might as well do something meaningful.

You need to follow your own path in life.

To be a man, you must be able to afford to take it and put it down.

First of all, you should calm down your mood and adjust your emotions My girlfriend and I have been in love for 8 years have broken up.

There is no hurdle that you can't get over, believe in yourself, if you want to vent, you can hi me, I am willing to be your loyal listener, listen to you tell you about your troubles.

Drink a meal, then play drunk, sleep, and say to yourself: "There is always something more than your own life to the bottom, what are you afraid of!" No matter how much money you have, if you find a job first, my sister will still come back!

Keep yourself busy first, so that you don't have time to think about so many painful things, and then think about other positions or jobs during work. It's best to ride a donkey and find a horse!

Looks like you've been born again!

It's really sad ,..Don't be so pessimistic, okay?

First, if you don't have a job, you can find a job, as long as you are willing to see and endure hardshipsDon't pick a job, you can do it just as well.

Second, when you have a job and go online more in your spare time, you will have friends and meet new colleagues.

Third, it's been five years, it's time to change, love, start again!

The more tired I am from work, I think it's good, and I just don't have time to be sad.

This is because you haven't let go, and feelings don't mean you can't do without them. It's just that you need to slowly shift your attention to learning, don't dwell too much on this issue, and only want to study. Maybe you can't concentrate right away, but believe sister, it will be fine after a long time.

First, get up early every day, insist on reading English aloud to fight the emotions in your heart, and second, go to the playground every night before going to bed to run ten laps to kill your physical strength. Exercise your will, and say to yourself ten times a day: I must get into a good school to prove your mistakes.

Brother, no matter how hard you don't want to study, you can get mixed up in the second year of high school, is it interesting to give up on yourself like this? Or for a daughter. Clause.

1. Don't think about her, if you want to learn, you can force yourself. Not to mention, college life will be better.

Given what you said, I personally don't think you can learn well if you want to study hard. Since parents can't be let know, there are three ways: obsession, that is, the person you like, the person who can give you motivation is also counted, and there must be a purpose or goal; Force, which blocks everything that may contact her or interfere with her studies; Talk, talk to her about you, and finally ask if it is possible, so as not to always want to ask her if you want to ask her.

I used to have the same confusion as you, in fact, this so-called love is very difficult to last long, and a lot of it will be divided in the future, so you don't have to think too much, the key for you now is to study hard and get into a good university, these may be a kind of good memories in the future, and many things are not necessary to be deliberately pursued...

Consider the worst outcome first.,Immediately the third year of high school.,The second semester of the second semester of high school is the critical moment.,Is the result worth it?,Can you regret it in the future?,Change your fate for others?,Isn't it too sorry for yourself?。。。 Not to mention perhaps someone who is not worth cherishing ... Whatever others say they can't figure out.,It's all in vain.,You're a boy and you should think more far-reaching.。。。

Hehe... Study hard ... Time will dilute together, and when you think about it after maybe only a year it may feel naïve ...

Before knowing the misunderstanding, I flipped through the book, and the clouds and fog were surging in my eyes.

In fact, you can focus on learning, (in fact, I believe you also understand) meeting the right person at the right time, the probability is relatively small, in fact, it is enough to love and fall in love In the end, there is really no way to do it. Anyone who falls out of love will be painful, especially the first love, my suggestion is to simply focus on learning, there will be pain, and allow yourself to have pain, but don't pay attention to this feeling, and don't force the pain to dissipate quickly, just simply concentrate on studying, and it will naturally fade slowly :) The third year of high school is very important, come on, I wish you success in your studies

You have realized that it is not appropriate for you to continue to pester, I feel that you have done a good job, this matter can be over, and your current mood is just such a small unwillingness, and remorse for yourself when you think back to the past.

1. I think she's also in school now, I don't think this is the time to deal with someone.

So, isn't the most important thing in front of you right now to study, but you know that. So for now, it's time to study hard!! There's really nothing more important than this.

High school is a gone thing. If you don't study now, then you'll get into a bad school. I think you'll regret not trying hard right now.

You are a boy, you have to analyze the current situation calmly

You only have two options:

1. Stay alive.

2. Go die.

Come and cut the mess, believe me, even if he marries you in the future, you won't be happy. Because I don't see the word "responsibility" in him at all ...

Since he is not willing to be with you, "for a lifetime" and "forever"; That is, if you don't want to give you a name, then you still choose to give up.

If he loves you, he should go beyond his family and friends, and he just wants to possess your body and keep vowing to say useless empty words, and in the end, what do you get? Or rather; Is this the outcome you want?

Unless you think about not marrying for the rest of your life, just be a little bit of a person for him.

3. Sneaking around every day will pay a terrible price.

Breaking up, it's painful, I'm an example, I've been breaking up for so long, I've got a family, I still miss her, sometimes, I inadvertently meet some people and things, and it reminds me a lot of memories. What can I do and continue to live. Do what you have to do!

Finally, I also want to warn you, long pain is better than short pain, leave him, it will be better after a long time, spend more time with friends, travel more, relax yourself, do some things you want to do, and wish you to find a better man as soon as possible.

The best explanation is the old saying. Since he said it. I won't marry you.

Then you are helping others to support their fathers. It's better to use your current youth to find the right person. Even if you can be together in the future.

He stepped past his parents. There are still 2 scenarios. One is that his parents accept you.

But it's hard to like someone you don't like at first, even if you accept it. Think about your future days. You have to live for yourself.

The second is. His parents don't accept you. But he married you for the sake of not having anything to do with your parents.

But let's not talk about how unlikely this is. He hasn't worked for so many years, and how can he live without his parents. Don't think about life too simply.

Life isn't that simple. In addition, I would like to add one more point. A responsible man is rarely 24 years old and doesn't go out to work and play games all day.

Weigh it up for yourself.

Give it up!

No matter how sweet love is, it can't escape the shackles of living together.

It's not okay for such a boy to designate, he can't marry you, he plays games every day, and he doesn't do his job, how can he support you? What should I do if I have children in the future? In addition, your parents can't get through this hurdle, and all kinds of results have failed, I advise you to start a new life, and don't break the thread again''

This is not self-motivated, and he is still with you every day, so don't be with him, he must also know that no one wants to be with him according to his current situation, so you are just wasting your youth, go find a good one.

It seems that you are all too young to know anything, such a man has no ambition and no sense of responsibility, and what do you still cherish him for???

Do you know the reason for the breakup? You have to think seriously about why the breakup is something between you that makes him misunderstand you, such a long-term relationship is not a day or two to break up, maybe your boyfriend has something to suffer, if you love her, try to redeem it, maybe there is a chance, don't blindly give up, I think you haven't worked hard. Don't worry, in fact, it's better to let both parties quiet down, true love will not run away, if it's not true love, then it's useless for you to force you to be anxious, you should calm down yourself, don't worry, if he wants to be quiet, you let him be quiet, you have to disturb him, occasionally send him a message, care about him, don't worry about other things.

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Don't get your hopes up, it's already obvious!

The landlord cherishes!

I once heard that the college diploma is a breakup book, and the longer you dating, the more you may not be able to succeed, the novelty is gone, it is best to get along for two to three years, get married after understanding, and the friends around you will close together!

If that's the case, I think you're still more attentive to him than you are now, if you're afraid of regretting it, break the casserole and ask in the end.

He's tired of it, your love has passed its expiration date. He wants freshness. Have a good talk. Let's make it clear, after all, I've been in love for so many years.

Maybe they're too familiar with each other, there's no freshness, and the other party will think of what to do and guess it, so there's no surprise. Or maybe you've met someone else who has feelings...

Long-distance relationship? A man like that is not worthy of your love! Let him fuck off! Elegantly walk away ......

Only by talking to him calmly, no one will know why.

Either you have a junior child, or you succumb to the pressure of your parents, you can check it out for yourself.

Since he is the one who brings up this kind of yes, it means that there is a problem.

If it doesn't work, it's divided.

If you still love, then put down your so-called self-esteem, admit a mistake or give him another chance. If you think it's impossible, don't try to fix it, even if it's uncomfortable, there's no need to continue the mistake. Your four-year relationship is not something that you can let go of, nor is it something that you forget when you forget it.

Think it out for yourself!

The first is the reason for the breakup, and if it is really impossible to continue, then let's separate. In fact, when you look back after a while, you will find that you are not as overwhelmed as you imagined, and you can enrich your life and live a wonderful life. If you don't want to do anything, let yourself take a good vacation and rest for a while, indulge in games, watch bubble dramas, go on a trip, sign up for a training class to improve your ability, get a side hustle, etc.

Those who have been married for several years and are divorced, what should they do? The reason for the breakup is very simple, two people don't have the same passionate love as they did at the beginning, it can be said that there is no love, or it may be that even if there is love, it is gradually not suitable for each other, and it is divided when it is separated, and it is not a big deal these years.

After four years of getting along, why didn't you get married, if the donkey ran away by itself, it must have not been tethered.

What is the reason for the breakup.

Does he still have any intention of redeeming you?

If not, the long pain is better than the short one.

What can be redeemed, redeemed.

Worth redeeming, redeeming.

Everything else, floating clouds.

Break up? Then send something memorable, something that can be kept for a long time, such as bracelets, watches, or symbolic things, such as beautiful decorations, you can do it.

I'm a man, and I think it's best to give him a kiss.

A song, classic, that reminds him of you every time he hears it...

Then you don't have to send it, feelings can't be delayed. It should be decided immediately. I believe in a saying: you can't be cheap when you break up, because you hurt each other.

And you haven't known each other for a long time, so you can't say who owes whom.

Break up, why don't you send him a bunch of white chrysanthemums to get old?

I'm also thinking about this, but I'm better than his husband, and I'll see if he will send me to decide.

If you are like that in front of outsiders, will you be like that when it's just the two of you? Even occasionally, there is a potential crisis, first of all, I don't cherish you, and secondly, I don't cherish you very much, I don't consider your feelings, and my emotional intelligence is not high. Good luck.

I can't say much, I'm sure you know it in your heart.