What should I do if I don t have a good relationship with my parents?

I think all the behavior of our parents to us is out of love for us, some parents may be too strict, some parents may be too doting, but no matter what kind of parents, they love us with their hearts, we have a bad relationship with our parents, we must reflect on whether we have done something wrong, we can communicate with our parents, discuss and solve problems honestly, and we can't have a particularly rigid relationship with our parents.

I hope you will try to communicate with your parents. Look at your parents' words and deeds in your life. Parents are the most selfless people in the world who treat themselves.

After you communicate with your parents, you will find that although their ideas are a little different, their intentions are still good for you. You can also feel their love for you from their daily behavior in life.

I think it's a bad thing to have a good relationship with your parents, and it's best to find a time to sit down and talk to your parents, and both parties can give their opinions, find the problem and then improve it.

Be active in easing down, after all, your parents are the ones who raised you, and you can't have too stiff relationships with them, you have to get along well and can't have too much conflict.

The relationship with your parents is not very good, you need to take the initiative to resolve the conflict with your parents, after all, it is a biological mother-child relationship, there is nothing that cannot be passed, you have to explain your attitude to him, show your own views, make them feel that they actually love them, let them feel their love.

Of course, try to communicate with your parents, explain your ideas to them, get their consent, and if they don't agree, you should also change your thinking.

I think most parents in the world actually think about their children, so you can take the initiative to communicate with them, maybe they will have a drastic change, and many times things cause this situation to be on both sides.

In fact, what I want to say is that not everyone is worthy of being a parent, if it is your own problem, please think about it, how to win the forgiveness of your parents, if it is a parent's problem, if it can be solved through communication, if it can't be solved. Just cut off the relationship.

I don't want to do anything anymore, it doesn't matter.

No matter how bad our mother is, she is pregnant and gave birth to us in October, so no matter what, we don't have to worry about our parents, after all, we young people have gone to school and know a lot of things, we just need to honor our parents and make them happy. If it's not good, don't take it to heart, but learn to look down on it yourself. Hehe...

I can see that you are a good woman! Don't overthink it. I've seen a sentence:

People come into this world either to repay their kindness or to ask for debts. Hehe... You're here to repay the favor!

- Maybe she never thought you were a girl.

If you were a boy, maybe it wouldn't be the same.

Your family is patriarchal.

Does your father not care about you?

There's always a reason why it's bad for you!

But I feel that blood is thicker than water.

Sisters want to open.

She's your mom.

Besides, you now have a new family.

Be more tolerant of the elderly.

She'll find out when she's older.

What a blessing it is to have a daughter.

The daughter is always the mother's little padded jacket!

Question: My parents don't know me, I don't have my privacy, and I can't make some online friends.

My parents didn't know me, I didn't have my privacy, and I couldn't make some online friends.

I've tried asking questions, and they always say they're good for me, but I think they're doing too much.

Answer: Pro, parents are not something we can choose, if your ideas are not recognized by your parents, then since the parent-child relationship with your parents cannot be changed, we can only change the way we get along with them.

How can the question be changed?

After all, not all of us, we can fall in love.

Question: I taught a friend on the Internet, I've known him for two years, and my parents said it was a fox friend and a dog friend, but I don't think so, so why should they agree that I can continue to get along with this friend?

Financial independence is one of the most important things, and it gives you the ability to make them more than they can handle.

After becoming financially independent, try to stay away.

When I really have to be together, I talk less. Avoid the confrontation of opinions, do not take the initiative to bring up the topic, and hum and say yes when they say anything.

Don't be yourself, and don't be them.

Question: I'm in junior high school.

Answer pro, if you want to convince your parents, then you have to start with the advantages of your friends, mainly the sunny character of your friends, such as the subject has encountered problems in study and life, friends will always be around to enlighten and comfort, give some good advice, and your mood will be better. The other thing is that you can clearly tell your parents that you are all working hard and that you all want to get into a good school without interfering with each other. And is it okay to pretend that you don't have contact with your friends anymore and don't let your parents know.

Thank you for asking a question [heart].

1. Take the initiative to communicate with parents, communication is the foundation of a good relationship. Usually communicate with your parents more about your own experience, tell your parents about the problems you encounter in study and life, and need your parents' help. You can also share your achievements and share happy things with your parents.

Establish a good communication relationship with your parents.

2. Listen carefully at all times and respect your parents' opinions. Although the two generations get along in different eras, the experience of their parents is also the experience that has been honed by life. Listen to your parents' advice and respect their opinions.

Even if you oppose your parents' advice, it's best not to get angry, control your emotions, talk to your parents calmly, and listen to your parents' reasons.

3. Be more empathetic, be considerate of your parents, and take the initiative to apologize to your parents when you make mistakes. If you really do something wrong and your parents reprimand you, don't talk back to your parents at every turn, think more from your parents' point of view, and be considerate of your parents' feelings and difficulties. Even if there are some things that may not be your fault and you have suffered a lot of grievances, don't rush to argue just yet.

You have to learn to be considerate of your parents, maybe your parents are too tired or have troubles, so they will get angry. You can change the time and place and communicate with your parents again, and it will have unexpected effects.

Empathy is one of the important ways to deal with conflicts with parents. Maybe you are more self-centered and don't think about other people's feelings, so when you quarrel or have conflicts with your parents, you have to learn to put yourself in your parents' shoes, and when you figure it out, you can naturally understand that they will do it out of love for you.

2. Talk to your parents often.

In fact, your parents are very concerned about you and want to understand you, so you should often talk to your parents to let them understand your thoughts, and at the same time, you can also care more about their thoughts, only in this way can you better communicate with your parents.

3. Explain to your parents before deciding.

Discuss everything with your parents in advance, and explain the pros and cons clearly. Then listen to your parents' opinions appropriately, so that your parents also have their own sense of participation, then your conflicts will naturally be fewer.

4. Have enough respect for your parents.

Many times it is true that the parents' minds are too solidified, and it is very laborious to communicate, and the young people are angry and speak impulsively, which hurts the self-esteem of their parents, no matter what, you have to ensure that you have enough respect for your parents, so that both parties can communicate further.

There's nothing good about changing now. What others analyze for you is some, Chase, useless. You know why?

Just because you are still a half-finished man, that is to say, you are not mature, don't believe what others say to you! Parents' love! It's right to communicate with your parents, and so on.

But, I ask you, don't you have these words in your head? There must be, but you won't use it, and you don't have the patience to use it, just because you're still a semi-finished man, you don't think you're immature and inferior, it's nothing, maturity requires a process, but also needs your own training and continuous cultivation of your own mind, which requires skills, skills can make you mature faster, and there will be something to help you mature without skills, that is, the process is longer, and this thing is ——— time.

Remember, when your parents are gone, you will understand many things. So, let's not wait until our parents are no longer alive to understand what ——— love is!!

Try to be a mature man! There will be no "market" for semi-finished products!!

Something happens. There are roots. Isn't it possible to find out the root cause of the problem and solve it?

I believe things are impossible to get from. That's how it started out. It's only after things have changed that this happens.

Solve the problem, don't you solve the problem? Since it is recognized that the relationship is not good. Find out the root cause.