What should I do when I m confused?

I think it's better for you to calm down for a while, and now it's not hasty to decide to get married.

When there are more and more contradictions, then the love and affection you mentioned will soon be slowly worn out, and will it be a little too late to regret it at that time?

Valuing material things is not a superficial thing, no one wants to be wronged, if the person you want to marry is really self-motivated and has the ability to fight for the life you need, then it is okay to marry him, if you feel a little suspenseful, it is best to think about it clearly.

Do you really love him?

Will you regret it later if you don't marry him?

Do you really care about material things?

It may be too emotional to say this, but marriage is a lifelong event, so think about it seriously.

Just don't let yourself regret it, there is no regret medicine for sale in the world.

Money is still earned by yourself, boyfriend is good to you is the most important thing, why hurt everyone's harmony for money, Chinese are not to save face, life is tired!

Money is the foundation of life, but how can real feelings be compared to money? Think about it, are you the one who loves him or the money that you love...

Demon: "Divide it! You'll regret it if you divide it! Ha ha.

In fact, to be honest, true love doesn't have to care about these superficial things! As long as you feel that he truly loves you, you can be happy together! You have to pay attention to everything! Just don't do things that you regret yourself.

Although breaking up is a very painful thing, it can be done slowly. Each of us will definitely be sad and miserable after a breakup, but as long as you are willing to get out of this lovelorn predicament, then you will definitely live better.

There are many people who focus on their other half when they are in love, as if the whole world revolves around each other, and then after breaking up, they will be in pain, because the previous world no longer exists, and there will be only one person in the future, and they will begin to become very confused and don't know what they should do. Because in the past, everything was with each other. Then if I feel confused after separation, you can think about how you lived alone when you didn't have a partner.

Because we were both single, and we lived alone at that time, we must have had our own interests at that time, but when we met our other half, we may have given up everything we liked for him and stayed with him every day. And after the breakup, think about what you were doing when you were single. You may think that you still have your own interests in the past, and there are things you want to do that you haven't finished.

You'll suddenly feel like you're not lost.

And I think we can read more when we are confused, because your book can take you into another world. You will see more interesting things in the book, and you will slowly forget the pain and confusion caused by falling out of love. And you can also find your friends, chat with them, see what they have been doing lately, maybe what they are doing is also interesting to you, you can try it with them.

Invest in a new life, and slowly you can forget your confusion and get your life back on track.

Falling out of love, basically everyone must experience things in their lives, even if you are lucky not to have fallen out of love, there will be two people when there are problems in their relationship, and these times, we are often very painful, but also very confused, just imagine, originally you have someone by your side to accompany you, whether it is eating, studying, or even working, with him and her by your side, you will have a sense of belonging, this person is yours, you have the responsibility to be with him and her, but this person suddenly disappeared in your world one day, how can you not be confused? This is a hurdle we must go through, and it depends on how you do it.

See clearly for yourself, don't get entangled in the whirlpool of memories, this is the most fundamental and the most difficult. We are all emotional animals, feelings are an indispensable part of life for us, when you suddenly don't have it, you will continue to recall, and even regret it, but you have to understand that some things are impossible to start over, lost forever, will not come back, but our life still has to go on, people have to look forward, you don't have him her, life still has to live, only by yourself, can live the most beautiful. Only by thinking in this way can we better get out of the period of confusion.

Of course, we can also slowly get out of trouble with the help of friends, when you lose another person, you will inevitably feel lonely, at this time if there is a friend by your side, then you will not feel so lonely, friends will bring you warmth, I will help you forget the past, start a new life.

After a breakup, you feel lost probably because you haven't died of your past feelings, and you still have fantasies or a trace of nostalgia, so the only thing you need to do now is to learn to let go.

It is very difficult to let go of a relationship that once made you want to die or live, and love to live and die, but it is not impossible.

The most familiar thing for a person is definitely himself. We know which way we are better suited to heal, and we have all the experiences of being hurt emotionally and then **. Since we can get all this life summary from what we have experienced, we can apply these things to our own healing.

Not all diseases can be treated with the same medicine, we need to analyze our own situation, and then come up with a suitable method.

Kindness. First of all, I suggest you go for a meal. It's not good to be hungry.

I haven't heard the same thing from you before. But it's pretty much the same. Someone told me.

We were one step behind from the start, and I didn't understand it either. So I thought about it for two years. Hehe.

Still no results. I just noticed that you said she gave you the first time. And then there are some words from her friends.

Her heart has flown away. I don't know if it's because LZ doesn't want to say it or because you don't know either. Since her friend can say these words, it means that her friend knows the reason for the matter.

So why don't you go and figure it out from the beginning. Maybe she has some ideals. Feel like you might be restrained by her.

Respect his choice, because we all want them to be happy, each other to put love in their hearts as a good memory, sometimes think about it and be happy, don't deliberately forget, I believe that time will dilute it, I used to be the same as you, I have to be kind to myself, you still have family, friends, don't be cheap yourself, but also embarrass him, live proudly, I believe you will find better.

This is your first love. Can I describe your first love in a few words?

Won't cherish. Selfish and naïve.

In the end, I don't have a brain, let's bear the pain and cut my love, he doesn't cherish you himself, and he doesn't allow others to cherish you, I understand him, because, I used to be his kind of person, he must know that he was wrong.

He doesn't trust you at all, break up quickly and decisively, otherwise there will be no personal freedom in the future, and now this is the case, let alone in the future, and the more serious result is that you will lose your friends.

Forget it! He didn't put himself in your shoes. Even if you don't think about it from your point of view, as a man, you should be tolerant of girls. Not to mention a girlfriend.

This kind of man is not worth it, he is too selfish, careful, and doesn't know how to understand, only himself, I feel that you are still separated, and there will be a lot of contradictions after being together, although he cares about you, but his method is wrong, so that you have no freedom.

If you feel too tired, break up Bei, it's not interesting to always quarrel like this, he's too selfish and can't help it.

Don't play when you're tired! Even if you like it! Reluctant! Although it is a bit of a letter, but the two of them have to explain this matter clearly, but out of kindness, he didn't use the right method, just do what he likes!

Go on like this, and all you feel is hurt. There is no happiness.

I believe that each of us will have times when we are lost, and there will be different confusion at different stages of life. Often the goal is the brightest when you are confused.

What are you doing, what are you trying to do, have you ever been lost, what was that like?

Confused, mí máng, . Vast and indistinctly visible: eyes; of the wilderness; The snow was overwhelming, and the fields were blank. Describe life or work without knowing how to choose, without a sense of direction; The road ahead is ethereal.

It's a beautiful thing to like someone, so why can't you say it to the other person? If you are sure that you really like him, be sure to say what is in your heart to him, because the opportunity is created by yourself, not by others. If you say it, you give yourself a chance, and if you don't say it, you don't even have a chance.

If you're still hesitating, you don't really like him. Don't be afraid of being hurt, and at least let yourself know the answers he gives you. I'm a person who doesn't like to hide words in my heart, if I like someone, I will definitely seize the opportunity to tell him that I like him, and I will do it simply and make myself clear.

Let's have a vigorous love.

What should I do when I am very confused? At this time, we may be pursuing the wrong thing, trying the wrong thing in the wrong place. Need to wake up in time.

1. Learn to self-solve and give yourself confidence. 2. Find something for yourself. 3. Be your current self. 4. Study hard.