Your boyfriend keeps blaming you for not being able to do things

Listening to what you said, I can even doubt his love for you (maybe he takes a fancy to the material conditions of your family) because loving someone can be all-inclusive. (My husband loves me a lot, and even though I don't do some things well, he never hits me, and he praises me if I do it once in a while.) Isn't there a saying "love the house and the black", love will make people lose their minds and tolerate everything.

If he really loves you, even if your ability to do business is poor, he will tolerate and accept it. Instead of blaming you. What's more, people's advantages cannot be exhaustive, and not doing well in business does not mean that you are an incapable person.

Besides, you're just a woman, if you're better than him in your career, will he be happy!

It is recommended that you put your eyes bright and find out his sincerity first.

Then don't be together, really, it will be more serious after marriage, you are finding yourself a considerate and loving husband, not a strict boss. Men should tolerate women, if he is so strict with you, does it mean that he does not treat you as a lover, but as an employee?

It is advisable to have a deep talk with him, talk about your troubles and thoughts, and give him a chance to see if he can understand before making a decision.

I'm not here to ask, I'm trying to tell you that I, like you, have such a boyfriend ......I'm also confused, but I think that since we have come together, then he must have something you are attached to, and it is good that he can put pressure on us, because then we can grow ...... slowly

Summary. When you encounter a problem, the teacher shirks the responsibility and always complains about others or you.

Why do you feel like your boyfriend is not responsible? Always shirk responsibility, no matter what happens, blame me.

Hello. Hello, if your question has been received, in fact, if you meet such a boyfriend, I think your boyfriend is very dependent, that is, if you encounter something, you will only rely on your wild tone, and then in the long run, wow, he has no responsibility.

When you encounter a problem, the teacher shirks the responsibility and always complains about others or you.

He blames me for everything, he dropped his phone in the footwater yesterday, I don't know what the situation is, he said to me, why did I take up space, I got rid of his phone, and today I got all the mud on my Zen wide shoes, I was unhappy, he said, who let the congratulatory cover I was in the **, I won't go away, I didn't react, obviously he did something wrong, and blame me.

Actually, you're right, it's his own problem, but he's all weird, blamed on you, and it's really sad for you.

Then, we have to face such a problem rationally, when he blames you, in fact, you can tell him slowly.

In the past two months, he spent almost 10,000 yuan on his own car to buy insurance and repay the car loan He Hongchang scumbag turned his head and blamed me for whispering It is that I don't know how to save money I know how to eat every day But in November, he asked me to resign and come back Now he says that I know how to spend money at home every day I don't make money and there are so many things But Xunzhen and the two of us order fast food every day It's almost 50 I haven't bought anything I have bought The clothes, shoes, and lipstick on my body are all bought with my own money He also wants to say that I don't know how to save money.

He wouldn't listen at all, and when I told him well, he pretended that he didn't hear, and when I asked him, he said, "I just watched TV, and the sound was too loud, and I didn't hear it."

In fact, I think there are a lot of problems in the first group, because your husband is indeed a little too shirking responsibility, in fact, he is a bit unreasonable.

Sometimes it's really aggrieved, but as soon as I cry, he immediately gets impatient and turns around and goes to sleep.

Actually, I think that's really the case, well, you should communicate with him again.